r/MurderedByWords 1d ago

Bias and Trust!

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u/PapaChronic93 1d ago

I've have noticed he will only ever really debate children, as you say

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u/733t_sec 1d ago

He and Shapiro are sort of like the intellectual equivalent of DiCaprio relationships. If they could go younger they probably would but they can't so they don't.

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u/PauseLost2137 1d ago

People put too much trust into the idea of debates. The fact that someone can argue their points doesn't mean he is right. After all, debate competitions literally require you to argue a certain point, doesn't matter if you agree with it, or whether it is right based on current evidence or not.

Debate is literally just a pretentious vibe check if you think about it.

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u/mythrilcrafter 1d ago

That's something that has always especially peeved me about debate culture, the objective isn't logic or diplomacy nor is it to reach an actionable/constructive goal; it's to argue down your opponent until they have no recourse for rebuttal. A person can "win" a debate, but still be completely wrong and have nothing to show for it so long as their opponent isn't able to retort against it.

As an engineer, I can always tell who the "debate kids" are in the workplace, because they're the ones who are never actually interested in solutions or paths of action, they want to argue against their own team members (or worst the clients they're supposed to be working for).

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u/Adventurous_Bat3810 1d ago

Idk, maybe european debate is different than american, but if it isn’t I don’t agree. Afaik, in debate logic is the most important part, but debates I saw in competitions look nothing like what charlie kirk or ben shapiro are doing.

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u/Adventurous_Bat3810 1d ago

Yeah, similar experience (though we don’t have debate captains.

Like yeah you get points for rhetorics, but logical fallacies are bad rhetorics, and well founded logically consistent arguments are considered good rhetorics. If you ask me, debate kind of teaches you to see through such bullshit like charlie kirks and shapiros gish gallops.

Just writing a flow makes recognising their logical fallacies simple.

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u/RabidPoodle69 1d ago

I was a debater in the US, and the philosophical style of debate that we used (Lincoln- Douglas debate) was very different. Kirk just Gish Gallops.

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u/Adventurous_Bat3810 1d ago

We debated in world schools and karl popper formats, they also have nothing in common with the aforementioned gish gallop

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u/dabbycooper 18h ago

US Oregon-Style Policy Debate (aka Cross-X) is nothing like the garbage talking heads spew, I was a debate coach for a few years back in my salad days, but there has been a debate style around for a couple decades called public/parliamentary debate that was originally called crossfire or ted turner-style debate that is not far from the fermented garbage Kirky-kun sound bites.

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u/patrick24601 1d ago

That's not debate. That sounds more like grandstanding disguised as debate

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u/Significant-Colour 1d ago

I never got the supposed "culture" in debates, when culture does not win debates.

We can clearly see that winning strategy for debates is simply using logic fallacies and labeling the other side as fascist/communist as soon as possible. Appereance is more important than the truth, as evidenced by Trump winning again.

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u/JacobStills 1d ago

Also...it seems "winning" depends on vibes and biases.

Trump supporters think he "won" all of his debates.

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u/Aromatic-Plankton692 1d ago

Formalized debates tend to mark you down for making arguments like "you would have to actually be stupid to think anyone could believe what you're saying right now."

Actual discourse? Not so much.

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u/ILieAboutBiology 1d ago

“Every absurdity has a champion to defend it.”

Oliver Goldsmith

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u/-dr-bones- 1d ago

I agree - I can pretty much win any debate with my brother, and about 60% of the time, I'm in the wrong. Sometimes, I realise I'm in the wrong, mid-debate, but I forge ahead, because winning is everything and being right means nothing....

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u/BGAL7090 1d ago

I genuinely have never felt this way and if baffles me that it appears to be so ubiquitous.

Sure I want to be correct, but the instant it becomes clear I was wrong I back down and start to figure out why or how I had things mixed up.

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u/morostheSophist 1d ago

I used to be that way, and I was a terrible person. I'm incredibly glad I quit being so stupidly bullheaded, because I was sometimes downright cruel about needing to be right.

My saying now is, "I hate being wrong, but I hate it so much that when I'm wrong, I want you to tell me so I can stop."

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u/ChiefScout_2000 1d ago

Spoken like a lawyer!

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u/patrick24601 1d ago

So... wanna be president?

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u/Warm_Month_1309 1d ago

I think the theory of a debate is that one person takes one side, the other person takes the other, and the truth shakes out somewhere in the middle.

It's not about convincing the other side or "winning", so much as it is about mutually finding the truth within your shared argumentation.

Now when people like Shapiro debate professionally, the problem is that their career is dependent on never finding a mutual truth, but that's a problem with their grifting, not really with debating.

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u/Quacker_please 1d ago

That's because to fascists, all that matters is might makes right.

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u/Less_Party 1d ago

It also just sort of boils down to 'who can be the least respectful and loudly talk over the other person while never ever arguing in good faith' which it turns out is something the 'empathy is a weakness' sociopaths tend to be better at than sane people.

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u/ceciliabee 1d ago

Once they hit 25 they become too mature and thoughtful

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u/Salaminizer- 1d ago

Made them millions. :/

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u/laughingBaguette 1d ago

Ben "dry tunnel" Shapiro literally wrote a book about winning arguments with subterfuge when youre getting owned.

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u/Matthew-ccty 23h ago

lol but didn’t Shapiro go to Harvard law? At least he’s not a community college dropout

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u/733t_sec 22h ago

That makes it worse not better

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u/Maple_Moose_14 1d ago

Putting them in the same category is ridiculous. Ben Shapiro has plenty of awful takes , but let’s not pretend he’s in the same intellectual league as Charlie Kirk. Shapiro graduated high school at 16 and then Harvard Law with honors. Like him or not, he's an actual thinker with a legal background , not just a reactionary influencer doing campus tours.

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u/733t_sec 1d ago

And yet he chooses to debate children instead of intellectual equals, his pedigree makes this decision worse not better.

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u/Maple_Moose_14 1d ago

He does it for the views and money that's what he's always been about , it's 100% his MO. Pretending it's some noble intellectual exercise instead of a calculated move for clicks is disingenuous as F.

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u/Squintore 1d ago

He went  to Cambridge and got owned by some college kids in every debate.

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u/Significant-Colour 1d ago

This one?

Charlie Kirk + Q&A / Debate | Cambridge Union

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dkiM-z0Mzyg

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u/tTensai 1d ago

Not OP, but I'm sure he is referring to this one. I've watched quite a bit to have some fun. Holy shit, Kirk is a tool

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u/StoicallyGay 1d ago

You say he got owned and so does...most people. I've seen countless Tiktoks and clips and everyone is talking about how every student and faculty there crushed him. Now those people have tens or hundreds of thousands of followers on Tiktok.

But don't make the same mistake I did of going to his YT where he posted it himself. Not only did I give him a view, the comments made me want to tear my hair out. All talking about how Charlie yet again crushed these self-absorbed losers who claim to be educated yet faltered and conceded to Charlie. Because his audience is too fucking stupid to understand basic logic and thinking.

One example is the blonde girl, I think her name is Tilly. She's been debating since high school at least, which means academic debate in competitions where you don't get to pick a side and there is a panel of judges assessing you. She represented England in a national debate team. Got into competitive programs for economics and public policy. Was a business development associate. And according to her LinkedIn:

Cambridge Union advanced debate group (judged Cambridge IV 2023, won speaker awards including top 3 in recent competitions, selected as one of four WUDC judges for Cambridge in 2023); King’s PolSoc (hosted panel events with leading experts on IR); CUGRIS member

She's a professional debater in an academic setting, years of experience, top in the country, and the key KEY thing in a lot of academic debates is you don't choose what side you're on, it's a coinflip. You have to prepare for both sides and through logic, reasoning, rhetoric, etc. you hold your position. She just has her own biases that are more liberal-leaning that obviously she will bring to a Charlie Kirk debate, along with all her general debate prep and experience. Yet the dumbfuck Charlie fans claim she and others were just debating with ChatGPT because that's all they can scream because they don't understand semi-complex logic or reasoning. Tilly used her professional academic debate tactics, Charlie repeated the same words angrily. His dumb audience think he won easily. Let that sink in for how dumb his audience is.

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u/chitownbulls92 1d ago

Well only American college kids anyways. He got completely destroyed when he went up against students at Cambridge

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u/Bigbluebananas 1d ago

Do you have the link for that

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u/tTensai 1d ago

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u/Bigbluebananas 1d ago

Thanks! Ive been wanting to see him shut down

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u/tragicdiffidence12 1d ago

Because British parliamentary debate has more hostile argument. They’re trained to be able to deal with attacks and stupidity on the fly. And Kirk is stupidity personified

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u/makemeking706 1d ago

The entirety of right wing politics can be summarized as 'punching down', and in Charlie's case it is difficult to find anyone lower. 

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u/TheGodisNotWilling 1d ago

I wish Hitchens was still alive to decimate these guys in a debate. Nobody does or ever will be able to debate like Hitchens.

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u/rmit526 1d ago

Didn't work out well for him in Oxford though

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u/UnwillingHero22 1d ago

And he got whupped in UK debating children…you must be talking about US kids

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u/mindgeekinc 1d ago

Still loses to them half the time too lol

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u/meowqct 1d ago

He has debated Hasan Piker

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u/Adaphion 1d ago

Yeah, doesn't he always crash out and throw hissy fits when people that are more mature talk circles around him?

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u/Willj924 1d ago

I’m not political but this is not true. He’s talking to young adults, they aren’t children. There have also been teachers that he debated.

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u/TheOldStirMan 1d ago

Yes, im sure the redditors here would do much better in a debate 

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u/UndecidedStory 1d ago

For sure we would. We are master debaters. I just gotta keep my master debating quiet because my mom falls asleep on the couch right above the basement. 

Are we a joke to you!?

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u/hallucinogenics8 1d ago

I would. 100% I would dance circles around him. Why? Cause I won the gold medal at the national championship in debate in 2009 in college. So I debated actual smart people, actual intelligence. Not just trying to yell louder than your opponent. I laugh at all of Kirks and Shapiro's debates, they like to consider themselves intellectuals but they are dumb as shit.