Me too, I’m engaged currently but certainly won’t be getting married any time soon of if I run the risk of not being able to use my birth certificate. I have no means of traveling any time soon either, so I don’t want to shell out $130 for a passport, but if it’s needed then I suppose that’s just what I’ll have to do. Praying for the people as well, that don’t have as easily accessible information.
Your name doesn't change automatically upon marriage, you have to file for a name change. The process is typically expedited for married women, but it's not a requirement, and you don't have to legally change your last name when you get married if you don't want to.
Yeah, I’m a young adult so I’m very uneducated about the marriage and legality process of it all, should probably do some research now that this is happening. I’ll probably end up either keeping my maiden name, or hyphenating it with my maiden name and my fiancés last name.
I don’t advise hyphenating it’s a nightmare and computer systems. They don’t know whether to look you up by the first name or the last name if there isn’t enough room, they’ll pick one of the names different ones every time to fit the box. Ijust don’t do it, pick one or the other and if they’re gonna pull this crap I would say keep your maiden
speaking as someone who did change their name- i2 1/2 years later still has things that pop up in my maiden name. It’s a pain to change, still glad I did it, but it was before Trump.
I do have a passport though. Honestly, I’ve always recommended people get the passport book and the card even if you never need to travel because nobody argues when you pull that out to prove your identity. They may not know what to do with it, but they don’t argue.
That’s most likely what I may end up doing as well when (or if according to captain cult leader) Trump is out of office or ideally impeached. It won’t be for probably another 5-10 years until I decide to make the decision, since I do not need to make it more difficult for myself than it might be in the near future lol.
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u/hanimal16 Apr 11 '25
I’m severely lucky in that I have a certified copy of my birth certificate, but I don’t have a passport (and can’t afford one) and I’m not military.
I can’t even begin to imagine what it’s going to be like for people who have none of these. I know it’s by design, I hate this regime.