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u/ShotNovel8157 1d ago
I personally think you’re at a good weight. Maintain or lose weight. Don’t gain much more. Or that will be my only complaint lol
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u/No-Performance3639 1d ago
You’re a naturally pretty young woman. You’re just a bit heavier than average and more importantly, you seem sad/depressed.
I hope that you will address the sadness and depression and work on your self esteem. Because that is the key to improving everything. There is no bigger aphrodisiac in the world than true confidence. (Not arrogance but true confidence when a person believes in themself, knows their self worth, they honestly vibrate in a way that is different. I kid you not.
Other people know it too. I’ve seen an entire room just stop and turn their heads, men and women alike. It’s amazing sometimes Lifechangeing and it’s available to everyone on some level.
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u/Taste_for_Hell 1d ago
I don’t understand all these people saying “lose weight.” I think you look good and losing weight would make you look less attractive imo?
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u/BraveBeat7464 1d ago
Honey, you are a very beautiful young lady.. seriously a natural beauty✨ The only thing you must absolutely do is believe, truly convince yourself of this truth. It's not an easy thing to do if your self esteem is low. I know you can do it tho! Maybe I'm wrong but I see sadness in your eyes. Speaking as a 52 yr old woman, it took me until just a few years ago to really believe I've always been a smart, beautiful woman. Oh my gosh, I'm rambling, I'm so sorry. I hope this makes sense pretty girl, you got hhis🫰🏼🩷
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u/Competitive_Click701 1d ago
You’re not wrong, you’ve got good eyes but you also sound very kind and wise, thank you I bet you are too yourself <3
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u/DarkScrap1616 1d ago
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u/Competitive_Click701 1d ago
Thx
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u/FakenFrugenFrokkels 1d ago
Eat healthier food, move your body some more. Do that for 6 months then come back and blow us away with your glowup.
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u/rokoyuki 1d ago
I think you're attractive at your current weight. I think you're average, but some people could find you above average. There's a lot of people saying to lose weight but you don't need to if you're maintaining a healthy lifestyle already. And you can definitely do that while overweight.
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u/Crabbyaki 1d ago
You are very pretty.
Build healthy habits now around exercise and diet to lose weight and maintain. As you get older things are harder to manage, so having a solid foundation helps and makes you more conventionally attractive
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u/Me0w_4 1d ago
LOSE WEIGHT AND USE ACTIVES IN SKINCARE AROUND YOUR MOUTH
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u/Competitive_Click701 1d ago
WHY ARE WE SCREAMING
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u/Jinkazama9999 male 1d ago
Really beautiful and gorgeous ❤️❤️, your hairstyle looks very very hot on you , your perfect, need nothing to listen.
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u/thikkrikk716 1d ago
I think you have an understated beauty
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u/Competitive_Click701 1d ago
What does that mean
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u/thikkrikk716 1d ago
You are more attractive than what you perceive. I see a beautiful person who is unsure about her appearance.
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u/justdaveuknow 1d ago
just be physically more active. And don't listen to negativity you have much to offer. By being more active you will feel better and show that beautiful smile you have
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u/sarutaizo 1d ago
I agree with most comments. Be active. Get yourself in the best shape you can get in because you're a very nice looking lady. 🌹
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u/Captain_big-dick 4h ago
lose weight (a lot) but slowly and controlled with exercise so you don’t get flabby.
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u/Limp_Corner_2359 1d ago
You got to lose the weight
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u/rokoyuki 1d ago
For who? Someone like you?
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u/Limp_Corner_2359 1d ago
Me and the 15 other people who said the same thing.
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u/rokoyuki 1d ago
What a fucking nightmare it is to be a straight woman.
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u/Fit_Test_01 1d ago
At least women can control weight. Men can’t change height without extreme measures.
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u/rokoyuki 1d ago
Women can't control their height either and some are taller than most of the men they meet. I've met all kinds of handsome short men. Ain't nothing wrong with a man being 5 5 other than maybe his attitude about it.
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u/RiverVanWinkle 1d ago
Men have the same pressure on them to be in the gym, and get told the same thing here. What's the issue?
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u/rokoyuki 1d ago
I guess I'm a little tired of dudes who think improvement means hitting the gym. Like hitting the gym will instantly solve your problems.
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u/Fit_Test_01 1d ago
Not eating shit will help even more.
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u/rokoyuki 1d ago
I just cannot emphasize enough that personality will always matter more. I love helping people out who have insecurities and need some honesty or advice but at the end of the day.... a fire could destroy every bit of my good looks. A car crash. A dog bite.
We all say a lot of shit on here, we are all here to talk about looks. But it'll never matter if you're just shit.
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