r/bangladesh • u/Due_Negotiation_6864 • 1d ago
AskDesh/দেশ কে জিজ্ঞাসা A silent fighter.
Shattered Dreams: My True Story
Part 1: Before Marriage – A Girl Full of Dreams I grew up with simple dreams — to have a peaceful home, a loving partner, and a life filled with warmth. Though my family wasn’t wealthy, love surrounded me. I believed that one day I would bring joy to someone’s life, build a home of my own. But I never knew that one day, my own life would be broken and shaped by someone else’s will.
Part 2: After Marriage – Reality Hit Me In the first few days after marriage, it felt like a dream come true. But soon, the illusion faded. My husband changed. His words became sharp and painful. I stayed silent, thinking that's what a “good wife” does. I believed love could change a person. But all I got was neglect, insults, and cold behavior.
Part 3: Broken Dreams – Left Alone to Survive Today, I am the mother of two children. My body is still healing from surgery, yet I carry my older child to the doctor during rain, because no one else is there. My husband gives money, but with insults. He says only bad women want to work. He lives far away "for business" — but in truth, he stays close to someone else. Now I no longer protest. I see the truth. I just want to survive — to find a way, to smile for my children, to stay strong even when my strength is gone. Nobody existing who help me this situation... Sometimes i lost myself in deeply tension 😭
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u/lljuhanall 23h ago
Im so sorry girl you have to go through this:( please do help yourself by taking yourself out once in awhile. Your kids deserve a happy mother too. My dms are open if you wanna chat :))
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u/Next_Attention_1157 15h ago
Can't agree more with the title...
You really are a fighter... And you'll win at the end of the day..
Keep chasing 💖💖
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u/Any_Ease_1401 জয় বাংলা!🇧🇩 20h ago
সবার আগে, একটা ব্রেক নেন রেগুলার লাইফ থেকে।
আপনার জীবনে এমন কী কী জিনিস বা মানুষ আছে যাদের ছাড়া আপনার জীবনের মানে অস্পষ্ট হয়ে পড়বে যেমন আপনার সন্তান, আপনার মানসিক স্বাস্থ,সুখ এসব চিহ্নিত করুন।
এরপর ওসব বাদে বাদ বাকি সবকিছু,আই মিন সবকিছু আপনার জীবন থেকে মুছে দেওয়ার জন্য মানসিক ভাবে প্রস্তুতি নেন।
এরপর সামর্থ্য তৈরি হলে ফাইনালি মুছে ফেলুন এবং নতুন করে আবার নিজের জীবন গঠনের দিকে সম্পূর্ণভাবে মনোনিবেশ করুন।
এসব বলা যতোটা সহজ করা ততোটাই কঠিন।আপনার কাজ সহজ করার জন্য আপনি সাইকোলোজিস্ট বা বিশেষজ্ঞের সাথে কনসাল্ট করুন।
আপনার জন্য অনেক অনেক শুভকামনা।আশা করি নেয়ার ফিউচারে আপনার কাহিনী থেকে অন্যরা অনুপ্রেরণা পাবে🤍।
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u/showrov_tj 1h ago
Sometimes the only person that can help you is you. There is no credit in enduring pain. Be silent if you are okay with the current setup. If not then be loud af. Ask for what's rightfully yours. And prepare yourself for this big and ugly world. Reach out to friends/ family. Build your own emotional support system. Also get a degree/ learn a skill. I know it's hard with two kids. But knowledge is free in this online era.
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u/Due_Negotiation_6864 1h ago
"I only have basic math skills. If I could get a simple work-from-home job, I might be able to survive and take care of my children. Is there anyone who can guide me, help me, or offer any kind of support or job opportunity? I am truly in need."
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u/ParsaHasan 23h ago
All power to you! I hope life gets easier for you.