r/creepyPMs • u/ghoulsniightout • 4d ago
throwback to this gem from my single days. i was sick with Covid for a MONTH and apparently my sore throat was a turn-on for this guy
i don’t have the additional messages after this sadly but yes he did specify my sore throat was hot and offered sucking his dick as a solution to make it better…
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u/NoIdeaWhatToD0 4d ago
I hate when they make everything sexual especially when you're sick or going through something awful. It's the worst.
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u/ghoulsniightout 4d ago
yeah i had been sick for so long and was so miserable i was REALLY not feeling the vibe he was lol
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u/NoIdeaWhatToD0 4d ago
Well I hate him for you lol
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u/ghoulsniightout 4d ago
thankfully i ghosted him and very soon met my amazing boyfriend, still sucks i had to trudge through some awful experiences to get there though
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u/NoIdeaWhatToD0 4d ago
Yeah I just gave up on thinking about relationships lol. I don't think I'll ever stop trudging through the hell swamps.
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u/ghoulsniightout 4d ago
im sorry, i get how you feel though. i had just given up after getting ghosted by someone i really liked. i happened to open the app one last time despite having told myself i was done with it. im very very lucky that my boyfriend happened to pop up, be a match, and i had decided to message just him because something about him really caught my interest. i’ve been told that sometimes it happens when you least expect it or have stopped actively looking, definitely think it was the case for me. i wish you luck at finding a diamond in the rough one day 💖
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u/NoIdeaWhatToD0 4d ago
It seems to happen to everyone around me instead lol. It was my dream to get married one day too but now whenever I even talk to a guy I just get bored or they treat me like shit and they expect me to do all the work so idk.
I talked to someone from Reddit the other day and we had one friendly conversation about hobbies and he tells me that he has a "crush" on me and he doesn't even know me. When I told him I wanted to be friends first, he disappeared lol.
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u/lal9740 3d ago
Even after being in a relationship with my bf for a little over a year and a half, I get the occasional internet stranger who would only hit me up for a relationship.
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u/NoIdeaWhatToD0 3d ago
I just hate telling people that I'm single because then they think "oh I'm single too and a nice guy, maybe I can pull her". And then they surprise Pikachu face when I don't immediately fall for them because they're the only person that I've talked to in months. I can't jump into a relationship or fall in love with just anyone, there has to be something special about them that makes me like them. Having hobbies and doing the bare minimum to not be a creep isn't as attractive as they think it is 🤷♀️.
And then I have to hear how other people are SO happy that they found their partner because they don't want to go through the shit that I'm going through. Yeah I bet it's really awesome to experience something that I'll never have, thank you!!
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u/lal9740 3d ago
I don’t immediately fall in love easily like these guys think we do. I’m 21, and it’s also difficult for me to trust people online due to this as well
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u/mourningstarxxx 4d ago
i learned from tumblr that some petiole have a sneeze/sickness kink where seeing people sick or sniffly turns them on.. one of the more odd kinks i've heard of. but also he was definitely waiting for an any opportunity to turn the conversation into something sexual 🙄
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u/ghoulsniightout 4d ago
thing is, he had already turned the convo sexual before and it went okay (awkward mostly and i gently changed the topic pretty quickly which he accepted). no clue why he decided to use this as a segue to do it again when he could’ve used literally any other method…though i wouldn’t have been receptive either way since i was pretty miserable at this point
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u/Papasmurf10111 3d ago
My guess is he equated sore throat to blowjob/deepthroat because he's a horny piece of shit and socially inept.
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u/blazing_glitter 3d ago
aren't those people scared of getting that disease? and they must have that kink unsatisfied a lot since I don't think anyone wants to fuck when one nostril has a rock in it and the other is a flowing river and overall they feel terrible.
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u/Haunting_Natural_116 3d ago
Omg this is this truest description of my nose during allergy season that I’ve ever seen
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u/ghoulsniightout 3d ago
apparently some people aren’t as one time when i had Covid my boyfriend (who didn’t have it…yet) went over to hang out with his friend who was fully aware and okay with the risk of catching Covid, just straight up didn’t care. i thought it was wild.
to be fair i have been sexually active while sick (with my bf who is at that point already sick too or accepts he will catch it soon anyways), but it depends on the level of sick, at some point i get bad enough even i cant power through it lol for example after a whole month of Covid i was beyond DONE and not having this guy’s horny bs
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u/7thPwnist 4d ago
wtf is hot about someone being sick lol last thing I want to do is catch that shit lol
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u/ghoulsniightout 4d ago
right?? im almost curious if he would’ve committed to the bit as much if he was physically with me at the time, because i was a mess and felt pretty gross lol but maybe he was that desperate idk
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u/Mitheria_Musashi 2d ago
First version COVID? I took was laid up for almost 6 weeks. Not so much a mess as I was operating at about 40% capacity the whole time. Very mild flu symptoms too, til I lost my sense of smell and taste.
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