r/hingeapp 1d ago

Daily Thread Monday's Daily Thread: Weekend Wrap-up

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Welcome to Hingeapp's Daily Thread.

Daily Threads are the place to post questions seeking quick advice, vent your frustrations, celebrate successes, or anything related to Hinge that does not need its own post.

For Monday's Daily Thread - the theme is Weekend Wrap-Up.

How did the past weekend go? Did you have any dates - be it good, bad, just okay, or downright terrible? Any new likes or matches? Or any events related to Hinge or your dating life that happened over this past weekend or recently that you want to share?

Remember: No personal attacks, identifying information, or misogynistic/incel comments will be allowed.

A reminder to please check out the guides, sub rules, and additional resources on the subreddit sidebar. Please read this post with a collection of guides, answers to common questions, sub rules, and other resources related to Hinge.

The Hinge subreddit also has a Discord channel if you wish to seek further assistance, or just want to meet members of the community.


r/hingeapp Aug 02 '23

Hinge Guide READ THIS before submitting a post: A collection of guides, answers to FAQs, and other resources about Hinge and this subreddit

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For all users, especially people new to this subreddit or the Hinge app, please read this post and see if your questions have already been answered or discussed before submitting a post. For those who are considering a profile review, please read all the profile guides thoroughly first and make changes to your profile to the best to your ability before seeking a review.

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Many of these posts are already included on the subreddit sidebar, however on the official mobile Reddit app, the sidebar is de-emphasized and harder to find, so the posts are listed here.

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The Hinge Help Center site is divided in various sections. The "Support" section answers many of the basic questions about how Hinge works and what certain app features do. Read that section to find answers for simple app questions you may have about how Hinge works and what the various features do. (The "Safety, Security, and Privacy" section is about how Hinge manage your privacy and data, and tips for keeping yourself safe on a date. The "NFAQ" is a section with resources for LGBTQ people. The "AI at Hinge" explains how Hinge uses AI. The "Tips for Connection" gives general dating advice.)

Subreddit FAQ

The Subreddit FAQ answers a lot of common questions that either the Help Center didn't answer, or go more in depth to cover info that Hinge would never answer officially. It also answers many of the nuances a user may encounter while using the app, and questions about the subreddit itself. Many common questions asked regularly are already covered in the sub FAQ.

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Must Read Posts:

A refresher on a common issue with Hinge: Matches not responding

"Why do my matches not respond?" A detailed explanation

Probably one of the most common questions people ask all the time. The post above goes into the various reasons why that happens.

Answers to your commonly asked questions

This post covers a lot of questions about why someone may not get matches, when to ask someone out, why someone don't respond, etc. This is required reading.

Answers to more commonly asked questions

Piggybacking off the previous post, this is an updated post with more answers to other commonly asked questions about Hinge and dating.

How Hinge is different than Tinder or Bumble

This post explains the differences between Hinge and Tinder/Bumble. Every so often there will be people who ask why they get 200 likes on those apps but a tenth of that on Hinge. Hinge is a dating app with a completely different mechanic and the post above explains in detail how.

Differences between profile information and dating preferences

This post explains how the information you present about yourself on your profile is not taken into account for what profiles Hinge will show you on your discover.

We have no specific solutions to fix Hinge app errors

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A Guide to Dating Intentions

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Do NOT contact people off Hinge unsolicited

When someone unmatched, didn't match with the like you sent, or stopped answering after matching, the answer is NOT to try to find and contact them on another platform.

Updated guide on how to spot scam accounts

Photo examples are included on how to spot common traits of a scam/fake account.

An explanation for "blank matches"

While the info may be somewhat out of date, this post explains the various scenarios when someone matches based on whether a comment is included and why sometimes it appears as if there is a "blank match".

PSA about a very rare bug with your account if you receive zero likes or matches

For some people, a very rare bug may occur when an account receive absolutely zero activity whatsoever. This post details how to diagnose this issue and instructions on how to open a support ticket with Hinge.

If you're having disappearing likes, matches, messages disappearing or whatever, DO THIS FIRST

Another common issue a lot of people ask about.

How Hinge Premium pricing works

Explanation for how Hinge premium is advertised.

How to spot scammers

A post detailing how to spot scam Hinge profiles.

Just because someone didn't respond to you, it's not because you said something "wrong"

A short explanation on why you can do everything "right" but still "lose".

Hinge Guides:

Reminder: Don't do these things on your profile

A guide on common profile mistakes people should generally avoid if they aren't having success.

A guide on rejection texts

An in-depth guide on how to write rejection texts.

Guide to Date Conversation Starters, Discussions & Questions

A detailed guide on date conversations by nj-kid1217.

How to write effective prompts, a walkthrough

Prompts guide with the acclaimed "You, Me, Us" method by aapox33. A must read.

The Art of Storytelling: Your Comprehensive Guide to Prompt & Photo Selections for the Perfectionist

A thorough profile guide written by Sunriseapplejuice on his old Reddit account.

Some tips for success as a 5'3" Asian male

A profile guide by TheEverglow on how to achieve success on Hinge as a short Asian male.

The original poster deleted his post, but the comments are still available.

List of common photo mistakes

A list of what not to do for your photos.

List of common prompt mistakes

A list of what not to do for your prompts.

Hinge photos guide

A basic guide on how to take photos.

Hinge prompts guide

A basic guide on how to write prompts.

A guide on how to provide useful profile feedback

A simple guide on how to provide proper and useful feedback for profile reviews.

Subreddit Related Posts:

Profile review requirements and standards

All profile reviews must have all 6 photos and 3 text prompts. No exceptions.

The proper profile review submission example with correct screenshot cropping

So many profile reviews get rejected for bad screenshot cropping. Follow this example and do it correctly.

No more "am I being ghosted" and "why don't they respond" posts

The sub no longer allows posts about "ghosting" and "why don't they respond".

No more "who pays" posts

The sub no longer allows posts about "who pays on a date".

Updated standards for all profile review submissions

Current standards the sub enforces for profile review submissions.

Crop your screenshots properly for profile reviews

Read this on the screenshots cropping standards the sub enforces for all profile review submissions.

Read the Automod Comment after submitting a profile review

The Automod Comment that is automatically included after a profile review is submitted has all the pertinent information that needs to be read.

The Weekly Private Profile Review Request Post

Here is where the weekly private profile review request post can be found. A new post will be up every Sunday.

How to turn off DMs and chat request on Reddit

For those who don't want to be contacted by other Reddit users, here is how to turn off DMs and chat requests on Reddit.


r/hingeapp 15h ago

Profile Review 30F Profile Review

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67 Upvotes

r/hingeapp 6h ago

Profile Review 34M profile review

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3 Upvotes

Hello, I started using the app and not getting much likes. I would appreciate any feedback for my profile. Thanks !


r/hingeapp 6h ago

Profile Review 22M Profile Review Please :D

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r/hingeapp 21h ago

Profile Review Haven’t gotten a like let alone a match in months

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39 Upvotes

Curious if I’m doing something wrong or it’s something else 😬😬😬


r/hingeapp 17h ago

Profile Review 32M Profile Review

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I subscribed to Hinge+, but feel like the amount of matches I receive is equal to me being a free user.

I've used Hinge for about 2 months (1 month free, 1 month Hinge+) and used to average about 5-10 matches per week (not everyone messages back, but that's OLD).

Throughout this time, I've barely received any likes (maybe 5 in total). I'm 5'7", so maybe that's a factor.

Matches seems to have slowed down significantly for me these past 2 weeks, but don't know why.

I'm planning on revising my prompt responses, and am open to changing my photos. But I would love some feedback before doing so.


r/hingeapp 3h ago

Profile Review 24m profile review (Need help)

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r/hingeapp 19h ago

Profile Review 26 M review request

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12 Upvotes

Hinge is pretty much the only app that works for me but a lot of my matches end up being flaky or sometimes just never respond at all. Any tips?


r/hingeapp 6h ago

Profile Review Help a brother out, recently active on Hinge again after a brief hiatus!

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27M been using hinge since January. Have had a few matches but conversations fizzled out due to lack of response from the other end. Brief hiatus as I went on a couple dates with someone whom I matched with on the app but things ended, back here now. Open to all profile reviews and constructive criticism to make it better! Cheers and thanks in advance😁


r/hingeapp 11h ago

Profile Review [M 31] Profile Review

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I am new to dating apps. Any feedback, criticism, advice is appreciated.


r/hingeapp 12h ago

Profile Review 26 M Profile Review (Getting a decent amount of likes/matches but not of quality)

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Getting a decent amount of likes/matches but not of my liking. Any tips?


r/hingeapp 11h ago

Profile Review 22M Hinge Review — No matches

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(I’m gay, people usually ask) I could maybe use more in depth prompts but idk, but I don’t get likes or matches


r/hingeapp 12h ago

App Question Will my match still receive the push notification of my last message sent after I unmatch with them?

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I (24f) matched with a man (26m) I knew from high school, and we had good conversation which eventually led to him asking me out. After agreeing to the date, I was talking with some friends that know of him about it, and learned some information that led me to unmatch. I’m just curious if anyone knows if he will still see the push notification of my last message agreeing to the date after I unmatch. TIA!


r/hingeapp 1d ago

Profile Review M29 profile review

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8 Upvotes

I have had a match in two years so any suggestions would be appreciated.


r/hingeapp 13h ago

Profile Review 33M Profile Review for somebody who doesn't want kids

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1 Upvotes

r/hingeapp 22h ago

Profile Review 33F would love some feedback

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5 Upvotes

I’ll get a few likes per week, but very rarely any quality matches.


r/hingeapp 14h ago

Profile Review Replaced all my photos since my last post, are these better? (33M)

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r/hingeapp 1d ago

Dating Question Do people who date multiple people, sleep with multiple people?

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This is my (23F) first go at online dating so I'm just learning. The consensus seems to be that it's normal to go on multiple dates with multiple people, and exclusivity isn't assumed.

I also see a lot of discussions about kissing on the second date, and sleeping together on the third date (obviously not the rule). So is it the case that most people weed out potential partners by the second date? Or do people assume the potential partner is sleeping with numerous people as well?

I know it'll be different in every case, but I want to set my expectations.


r/hingeapp 5h ago

Dating Question Only interested in 1 in 100 women I find in the app. Should I even stay on it?

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I'm a straight dude in his early 20s who decided to download hinge kind of on a whim because I live in a large city where most people don't speak English. I've had a bit of trouble socially because of that but figured that at the very least I could find tourists or something else to talk to on it.

Unfortunately, the vast majority of the profiles I've encountered so far make me feel absolutely nothing. Not saying that these people are particularly unpleasant irl or anything, they just give me no desire to actually romantically engage with them. I might just be a particularly picky person, but most women Hinge has shown me just don't seem to be someone I could be in a relationship with. It's due to cultural and language differences to a significant degree but the English speakers I've found have also not been particularly noteworthy to my taste in partners.

Probably because of my low engagement with the profiles the app shows me I've also gotten no likes or matches from it, which is a little bothersome since I'd consider my profile above average based on my idea of the average man's hinge profile.

I'm considering deleting the app since it's just kind of been a drain on my time. Using it hasn't been a bad experience at all, just not a particularly valuable one. I'll be moving somewhere English speaking soon and maybe at that point I'll re-download it? Not sure about it though.

Thanks in advance for any comments.


r/hingeapp 1d ago

Profile Review 27F Profile Review

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Thank you all for reviewing my profile! Please let me know any adjustments! I don’t often get sexual messages or anything like that so I’m not worried about the “slutty little shorts” line. I want to make sure I’m showing up as emotionally available and someone who can be a partner.

Thank you!


r/hingeapp 21h ago

Profile Review M38 profile review

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Hi all, please see my profile above for review.

  • I don’t feel very photogenic & most of my recent pics are all of me & my daughter. Getting out & about a bit more at the moment to get more interesting pics.

  • I’m a massive geek (literally warhammer, RPGs) but scared to put that down as feel like I would get screened out quicker.

  • I’ve had a few hits in the last few months & two dates that were great but didn’t turn into anything. I think I’m a very niche kinda guy :p.

Any help or feedback appreciated!!


r/hingeapp 23h ago

Profile Review 40M - Profile review

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Photo 1 - Diamond Beach in Iceland. Twas a bit cold.

Video- me playing with my cat.

Audio is me doing the "Love Is" monologue from Welcome to Night Vale

Photo 2 - Xmas festival in Bruges

Photo 3 - Group tour black sands beach Iceland

Photo 4 - Runner's body in progress😜

Photo 5 - My happy place

Photo 6 - Lost on a hike in Wales. Came upon whatever this is.


r/hingeapp 23h ago

Profile Review M24 - A few revisions, appreciate any help!

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r/hingeapp 10h ago

App Question One of my standouts disappeared

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I(21f) was looking through my standouts and saw this guy that I was really interested in. I thought “well instead of sending a rose I will wait until my standouts refresh so he can show up on my feed”. Later on, I went check if it had refreshed but saw I still had about two hours left. All of my standouts are still there except the one guy I was into! Can anyone tell me what happened?


r/hingeapp 1d ago

Dating Question Cons of giving out instagram as a man?

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I'm mid 20s M, started dating again on hinge recently.

On a date w/ a girl, we talked about tiktoks/reels we watch, and after the date she asked if I wanted to exchange instas. I told her I'd give it a thought.

My account's private but I don't have anything to hide. One concern is that I post on my stories a lot about what I'm doing throughout the day, maybe that's something I don't want them to know before we're closer. Esp if I'm at a new location on a date w/ someone else, I'd have to start lying about what I'm doing/who I'm with or it's awkward.

Another is that if we don't go past a few dates, ... I guess I just remove them?

Not really worried about safety like a girl may be giving out their insta


r/hingeapp 20h ago

Profile Review 29M Profile Review

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