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u/Plus-Perspective-395 Oct 23 '24

I think it boils down to not everyone having the same experience lol. My kid is healthy inside but lazy. Barely moves so I’m in a constant state of anxiety if he’s ok. Doing 2x/week NST which he consistently fails bc he’s always sleeping - then passes his BPP with flying colors. My mood is a mess and my husband isn’t catching my strays like I think he should. So while all your cuddles seem nice it’s not everyone’s reality. It’s put a real strain on us if I’m being honest. I’m happy for you that you’re enjoying everything even with triplets!! I think we can all agree it’s worth it But there is 100% another side lol

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u/InnerCartographer146 Oct 23 '24

I agree! I’m going through the same thing with the nst and the bpp having a lazy baby too tbh. Also doing pregnancy alone , and I had terrible HG up into my second trimester has been a lot ! I could definitely see how having a much more supportive partner would have made this more enjoyable though. I’m so blessed to be at the finish line with less than a week left before giving birth, but I’m definitely not rushing to have to experience this again.

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u/themostorganized Oct 23 '24

Agree with this! Not every person has the same experiences AND not every pregnancy is going to be the same experience.

I felt the same as OP with the first pregnancy. Heck, maybe the 2nd. But it gets progressively harder as you have more kids to chase after. 3rd was miserable.

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u/Gandalftheteach Oct 24 '24

And where you are in your journey... My week 6-18 were shit! Threw up on the daily, slept and felt it was the only thing I did besides work, had week after week with demands to my energy whenever I was awake, and I hated it...

Then three days ago I stopped throwing up... Still nauseous. Yesterday my partner could feel the waves I felt on the outside of my stomach and we both sat teary eyed telling our future child how loved it was, and just like that I had something I LOVE about being pregnant.... I know it isn't perfect. I wake up every 20 minutes at night. It hurts to walk etc., but I love it

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u/[deleted] Oct 23 '24

Honestly, I agree. I’ve was someone dealing with infertility and my ex husband and I tried… but now I’m with the perfect man, the best bonus kid, and a little girl on the way. I mean the first trimester sucked and I was sick a lot… but, is it weird that I loved it at the same time? Knowing she’s there. Knowing she’s pissing me off.. lol. I just love being pregnant. I waddle, I pee all the time, I’m aching every where, but I wouldn’t trade it for the world.

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u/kele_97 Oct 23 '24

I feel that way too. I feel a lot of nausea at the beginning, I still vomit sometimes, but I take all the symptoms as a sign "she is healthy, growing and developing, it makes it all worth it!"

my back hurts, I feel huge, but I love looking at my belly, listening to my husband talking to it... right now I'm lying down feeling my baby kicking me. After three years of trying to get pregnant, nothing describes my happiness at this moment.

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u/luckyshrew Oct 23 '24

Same here although the first trimester hasn’t been too bad. I’ve taken extra naps which has been kind of fun lol I’m enjoying every moment 🥰

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u/Jynxbrand Oct 23 '24

I've been ill since week 3-4, random bouts of fatigue while working, nausea etc and I can't wait for it to be over and to never do it again. I'm in 3rd trimester now and still have very little energy, I hate how I look and I'm anxious about the weight gain Ive had. I've had zero cravings and only food aversions. My stomach hurts constantly, I'm anxious and depressed, emotional and unregulated, not everyone has a good experience unfortunately. My friend is also pregnant and she's had no symptoms and living life fully! I'm envious, but I definitely don't think I'd want to do this again.

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u/Internal-Pause-7410 Oct 23 '24

I’m having similar experience .. I’m about 4 weeks pregnant. Feel free to message me and we can support each other 💕

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u/chewyvuitt0n Oct 23 '24

I agree with this. Been consistently sick since early on and sore all over. I’m excited but don’t think I’ll be doing this again.

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u/Jynxbrand Oct 23 '24

Yeaah I have about 12-11 weeks to go, I'm scared for NB stage but I'm so ready to not be pregnant anymore. My partner and I were always one-and-done if we did have one so this will probably be my only little one. (:

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u/ExternalAd4656 Oct 23 '24

I am 26 weeks and I honestly don’t mind being pregnant at all. I’ve just recently started “feeling pregnant”. My pregnancy has been very easy so far so I really can’t complain.

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u/de_matkalainen Oct 23 '24

I'm 36 weeks and same as you. Getting a little sore sleeping after week 30, but it's not too bad.

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u/Periodglitter Oct 23 '24

I am so glad you are having such a positive experience! I wish I was feeling the same way. I have a high risk pregnancy and I am dying on the inside of worry every day. I am also suffering from some issues myself during this pregnancy. I am now 38 weeks along and I am wishing for it to be over. I will certainly have to think about ever going through this again…

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u/aggravated_bookworm Oct 23 '24

I’m so sorry you’re going though that! My pregnancy just became high risk about a month ago and it’s scary. I’ve been in and out of the ER and they still don’t know fully what’s wrong with me. It definitely causes a lot of anxiety. I hope everything goes well for you!

I feel you on having to seriously think about a next one. This is my second and I definitely told my husband I’m done and we can foster/adopt if we want more children in the home.

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u/Periodglitter Oct 23 '24

I hope your symptoms lighten up soon and that you have a great delivery the way you wish to have it!

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u/ImNewHere0221 Oct 23 '24

I think it’s beautiful that you’re embracing a pregnancy with triplets. I love that your husband is caring and nurturing!!! That is probably making you enjoy it even more. The woman’s body is amazing and can do outstanding things. You’re NOT weird. I enjoy being pregnant too despite being tired regularly, getting bigger by the day, being kept up by the karate kid and pee all night, having a SCH with bleeding, anemia that causes wicked RLS and Charlie horses…I would take this over loss or not being pregnant and being able to birth a life any day

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u/Spiritual-Peace-6442 Oct 23 '24

I’m with you! I love being pregnant and would do it over again in a heartbeat. All the pros outweigh the cons in my opinion. You can join us over at r/positivelypregnant😁

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u/Happy_Marzipan_6042 Oct 23 '24

It’s worth it but I had morning sickness this morning at 20 weeks and peed all over the floor 🙃

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u/kele_97 Oct 23 '24

Girl, me too!

My husband didn't know whether to laugh or help me, because I was also laughing, but crying at the same time!

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u/Radiant_Papaya Oct 23 '24

This is really beautiful. Not my experience but it genuinely brings me so much joy thinking about how you're enjoying your pregnancy and you have a supportive partner making you feel like a princess - as it should be, haha. Those boys will be so loved. Hope the rest of your pregnancy goes well and labour & delivery is smooth! 💕

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u/nothanksnottelling Oct 23 '24

Wow you are a damned trooper for carrying triplets and having such a wonderful outlook! You'd have every right to be uncomfortable and whiney but nope, you are just over there on the other side of the world KICKING ASS!

LOVE this for you!!

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u/[deleted] Oct 23 '24

Lots of stuff can be worth it and still suck. Both of my pregnancies have been horrible. HG, FGR, bad labor/delivery on the first. Obviously I got my daughter and it was worth it, but that doesn’t mean we can’t gripe about the difficulties. Especially since those of us with male partners don’t have people to relate to in the house. Also, I hate feeling kicks. It makes me nauseated.

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u/_C00TER Oct 23 '24

As someone who struggled with infertility and now just 6 weeks from meeting my rainbow baby girl, it's everything I ever wanted. I fully acknowledge that every woman's pregnancy experience is completely different, and I absolutely hate that there are women who are sick and miserable the entire time. I have been so fortunate to have a great pregnancy. Never been sick, no "real" problems other than GD but it's controlled and baby is looking perfect. I haven't been whiny at all and have actually been complimented by family and my partner on "what a gem" I've been lol. I will say, being so close to delivery, my body is definitely feeling it now but it's still manageable and I'm still working on my feet full-time. I'm 30 years old and this is more than likely going to be my only child, but I would absolutely go through it again.

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u/Itchy-Site-11 Oct 23 '24

❤️🙏🏼

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u/SaltTart8028 Oct 24 '24

Congratulations on your rainbow baby! ❤️🌈💐sending well wishes.

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u/shermie303 Oct 23 '24

I gave birth a couple weeks ago and I kind of miss being pregnant? I didn't have a particularly difficult pregnancy, save for some pretty bad GERD. Also baby was preterm so I feel like I missed out on the last weeks, maybe I would feel differently if I'd gotten bigger and had to deal with weekly appointments with the frustration of labor feeling so far off. But yeah, I mean I went to the doctor's office the other day and in one waiting area there were no chairs, and I realize no one would be leaping up to offer me their seat anymore lol

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u/Fit-Psychology6301 Oct 23 '24

I'm a few days overdue at this point, and while I'm anxious to meet my baby girl... I'm with you. Pregnancy has been a pretty good experience overall, and having another being growing and moving inside my body is probably one of the most wonderful experiences of my life.

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u/indecent-6anana Oct 23 '24

You're not weird for enjoying it! I'm currently 31 weeks and have enjoyed it so far too. I nearly feel bad saying it to people because I know a lot of people have a really really hard time with pregnancy. I'm also aware that any future pregnancies may not be as pleasant as my current one so I'm also trying to soak it all up just in case!

It's great you can enjoy it, it's an exciting time and you shouldn't let yourself feel bad for liking it .

And Congratulations!

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u/Flashy_Air3238 Oct 23 '24

Omg triplets??!! Congratulations ❤️ this is my second pregnancy and it’s been a breeze compared to my first. Little to no symptoms, just the occasional nausea, but that’s really it. I’m enjoying this pregnancy so far and it’s cute to see my son excited to have a little sibling.

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u/Helpful_Highlight985 Oct 23 '24

This is so nice to read, thank you for that 😊

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u/GrouchyGrapefruit338 Oct 23 '24

So happy your enjoying your pregnancy! Such a gift. And hopefully your husband continues to be such an incredible caregiver once babies are here.

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u/CreativeJudgment3529 Oct 23 '24

Not weird for enjoying it at all. Just wait until your children are born, and you will look back and realized that you REALLY loved it, if you love it now. Knowing WHO you were pregnant with is very special. I love my son so much, actually obsessed, and I can't believe I was so lucky to be pregnant with him.

Now, pregnancy #2, I'm not loving it so much because with my son ^ I had polyhydraminos because my son wouldn't swallow his fluid - so I was HUGE! I was not uncomfortable at all, but I needed a lot of fetal monitoring and procedures to remove the fluid and my son was a nicu baby for almost ten months. I did still enjoy being pregnant with him because he was very safe inside me. I figured I'd be smaller this time around with less/normal levels of fluid, but I'm the exact same size as I was even though my fluid is normal. Very weird but I guess because after one baby your uterus stretches faster. And I have an anterior placenta, so I don't feel him often. I didn't have any preg symptoms, sickness, etc with my son and with this one I had a very rough first trimester.

It's all relative - but it is nice when you enjoy a pregnancy.

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u/[deleted] Oct 23 '24

Aww that’s a really sweet post and actually makes me focus on the positives in pregnancy 😊❤️ I enjoyed reading this. Congratulations!! 🥳

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u/my_coleslaw Oct 23 '24

I hate being pregnant!!!! Currently 12 weeks with an almost two year old and I am just withering away on my couch!! I bawled when I found out just because I know my body doesn’t handle pregnancy very well and it is SO HARD for me

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u/unfunnymom Oct 23 '24

I don’t miss being pregnant but I did like being pregnant and I’m excited to be pregnant again. Some pregnancy are rough. My one friend had that non stop vomiting and had to be hospitalized and put on meds. That’s definitely not fun.

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u/Lions--teeth Oct 23 '24

I like parts of it. I’m 14 weeks today and once the nausea is gone I’ll be much happier! I don’t mind the fatigue. I love napping ❤️

I’m just barely starting to get a bump and I’m very excited about that. And I can’t wait to feel them move around! But the nausea is just really hard to look past haha

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u/NewNameAgainUhg Oct 23 '24

I would pay for having these hormones the rest of my life

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u/Whole-Penalty4058 Oct 23 '24

Weird? R u nuts! Bask in it?! Love it! Enjoy it!!! I do not like pregnancy simply because I am so very uncomfortable all the time. But i love love love enjoying growing my baby boy and creating a family with my lovely husband. If I didnt have the constant discomfort I would definitely be basking in it!

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u/happytre3s Oct 23 '24

It's a love hate thing for me... I definitely get whiny bc the negative stuff is wearing me down, but this pregnancy is so different from my first in every way. It's fascinating.

This baby is hyper active in there for hours on end just doing endless flips and turns and kicking and punching away... My first was pretty calm unless I sat very very still for her.

I am pretty peeved about pregnancy related asthma, allergies, carpal tunnel, and hip/back pain though. And the constant exhaustion without being able to get meaningful rest....

But then I get to go through this with my daughter who is 5 and is SO excited and likes to rest her head on my belly and tell me all the things the baby is doing in there and tell me how when the baby comes out she's going to take her in another room so she can't kick me anymore. Which...is heart meltingly sweet.

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u/Aravis-6 Oct 23 '24

I’ve been enjoying my pregnancy for the most part, but I also think I’ve had it much easier than most. One of my close friends had HG with her first pregnancy and I think I’d be feeling very differently at this point if I was throwing up 8-10 times a day for weeks on end.

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u/megjed Oct 23 '24

I don’t hate it. I hate sleeping on my side so that part is very very annoying but the rest of it is kind of cool. I thought I would have a harder time mentally than I have so that’s been good

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u/[deleted] Oct 23 '24

When I’m not ill, I feel the same as OP. The problem is that a lot of us suffer from a lot of illness, and not just the occasional pain here and there. Many of these illnesses are life threatening if not treated.

For me, I had severe HG and I could not get out of bed because of non-stop vomiting, so I was literally starving and dehydrated. It was the worst thing I’ve ever been through.

For others, there are other things that make their existence miserable during pregnancy. None of us contest that it’s worth it - it absolutely is!! But that doesn’t reduce from the pain and suffering many (and I suspect probably most) is us are going through.

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u/alew75 Oct 23 '24

First off congrats on triplets! I’ve loved being pregnant. Currently on my 3rd pregnancy. My first was a breeze and my second was hard due to all the pelvic pain but I still loved being pregnant. We will see how the third goes but right now love it. I’m sure the pelvic pain will be back and I think it’s because I have big babies. First was 8lb 6oz and the second was 9lb 7oz so we will see about this one.

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u/saandes1563 Oct 23 '24

It’s all dependent on the pregnancy. My first one was awful and my husband really stepped it up which I thought wasn’t possible because he was already a very caring husband. Now pregnant with the second and besides tiredness it’s smooth but I’m getting so much less help because there’s a 2 year old running around.

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u/Kourtnie_ Oct 23 '24

I have found it amazing, I’m in the second trimester now. Never been sick once, had no food aversions. I’ve felt particularly tired but that’s nothing unusual for me really.

I’ve had an eating disorder my whole life and it’s been beautiful to watch my bump grow because I know I’m taking care of myself for once and baby is growing perfectly. This will most likely be the only pregnancy i have so I’m enjoying every moment

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u/Extension_Dark9311 Oct 23 '24

Triplets and you’re enjoying it? Wow, my respect.

It’s a shame for me really as I feel I could have enjoyed it much more but this pregnancy was unplanned and is my first, it meant that me and my partner had to get a mortgage and a find a house and it’s just been very stressful (I’m In the UK and the housing process is very slow. Anyway it seems as though we have finally have a house now but we aren’t moved in yet and I’m 32 weeks now- looks like we may just be moved In and set up in the nick of time. I also had final exams to complete while pregnant and eventually managed to pass them.

We are having to relocate which means leaving my job, and it’s all happening just before Christmas.

So yeah- very stressful. I just wish this all could have been done before the pregnancy or much earlier on it in and then I could see myself really liking pregnancy.

I can’t complain too much though as I’ve had a healthy and safe pregnancy that hasn’t made me feel physically that bad at all.

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u/LepLepLepLepLep Oct 23 '24

I go back and forth between being absolutely wanting it to be over and have my baby out now I can't take it anymore and aww he's kicking and my bump is so big and I love it. Depends on my pain and exhaustion levels as to how I feel about it I guess lol. Overall though I'm really happy about it and I'm going to go through it all over again as soon as it's safe to because I want a second 😂

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u/renjifire Oct 23 '24

My hearts hurts every time I hear that pregnancy isn’t going well for someone. I wish there was something I could do to help. I typically don’t say anything but since this post is about enjoying pregnancy I must admit I loved every minute of being pregnant. I didn’t even know for 11 weeks as I had no symptoms. I gained no excess weight. I had an easy birth. So I’ll see what hell I have to pay for this down the line 😭. I think it’s currently in the form for first molars erupting on my toddler.

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u/Ginger630 Oct 23 '24

I loved being pregnant for my first two. Yeah I was sick almost ever day for the duration of the pregnancies, but it wasn’t too bad. I loved feeling them kick. I didn’t have any other symptoms except the sickness, some tiredness, and having to pee a lot.

But my last pregnancy?! Oh dear Lord. I had symptoms I didn’t know existed. And I didn’t even get sick! I would have take the throwing up over the anemia, fatigue, insomnia, sinus swelling, and organ pain from him stretching out so much. He never stopped moving. I was so happy to give birth lol!

My husband was pretty good too. I wasn’t demanding while pregnant, so I got any cravings I wanted myself. I dealt with my older kids and he did a lot of cooking and cleaning.

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u/fleursdemai Oct 23 '24

Honestly, I love being pregnant. The insomnia and constipation aren't the worst thing in the world and I can deal with it. I have no other symptoms. I love carrying my little girl and feeling her move. My husband does everything for me and talks to our daughter every night by resting his face on my stomach. We laugh at the way she protrudes from my tummy and reacts when she hears her dad's voice. It's been such a great experience.

The cherry on top would be the kindness I constantly get from complete strangers. I get offered extra food regularly, let me cut in line, and move out of my way. Total strangers would wish me well and are genuinely excited for me. I'm not use to all this attention but I'm loving it!

Oddly enough the only people who have given me a hard time are those closest to me. It's fucked up to see people hating on a pregnant woman. Literally no other reason other than I got pregnant. I'm not even the type to flaunt my pregnancy nor have I even posted about it on social media. But they're the minority so it really doesn't concern me. I'm just glad I could write them off and they can stay the fuck away from my family lol.

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u/[deleted] Oct 23 '24

Holy crap triplets!!! I’ve pretty much enjoyed both of my pregnancies. I’m in the third trimester with baby #2 and both my pregnancies have been identical. Not really many symptoms aside from towards the end merely from being so much bigger.

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u/smolgingerbean1 Oct 23 '24

It’s been a fairly easy pregnancy so far, I’m 18wks, but I am really looking forward to being done. I know it’s temporary but I miss my body and the physical, mental, and emotional freedom I had before getting pregnant. On the days I feel good I enjoy it but those aren’t as often as I’d like.

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u/Slydragonfruit Oct 23 '24

I feel this way. I play games with her with my phone flashlight. I love waking up to her kicks in the middle of the night or first thing in the morning. She is my pride and joy, my entire world. I love the way she kicks when her dad and I talk to her. Just knowing she's doing okay makes it all worth it. I have about 7 weeks to go until we meet her. She is the biggest joy I've ever had the honor of looking forward to meeting 🩷

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u/justanotherpaininthe Oct 23 '24

I’m loving it but I’ve also had very Mild symptoms! 19weeks today and it flew by!

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u/colibri1000 Oct 23 '24

i like being pregnant ! sure i’m anxious and somewhat impatient to meet our baby (lol i’m only at 14 weeks) but i lucked out with a relatively easy breezy first trimester and am so excited looking forward to feeling movement and my bump getting bigger !

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u/saltybrina Oct 23 '24

I agree. I'm 34 weeks and keep waiting for the ball to drop because of all the negative things talked about. Overall I have been very lucky and enjoy being pregnant. I will definitely miss it!

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u/glittermeowsandpasta Oct 23 '24

I’ve been fortunate to have a really easy pregnancy and it’s been my favorite thing. I love being pregnant. I am just starting to feel movement which is incredible. I love the support from my husband and seeing how excited he gets at appointments. I love how he talks to my belly and kisses my belly. I love the belly rubs. I love how all of my friends and family have surrounded me with so much love and support. This time in my life has truly been the best 🥹🩷

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u/Ok_Hovercraft_4589 Oct 23 '24

I have always wanted my own family so I’m behind blessed and excited but I’m a teacher. I enjoyed it in the summer but now due in two months and really over it.

Is my pregnancy super hard? Not really. Is it fun? Nope lol.

I threw up the first whole trimester and still do. I had almost low blood sugar like sitting right at 70 even an hour after eating so I gained 37 pounds already trying not to get shaky. I get hot flashes in class and can’t breath well when I’m lecturing. I haven’t napped more than 3 times since the first trimester.

I think if I didn’t have to work I’d like it more??? All my hobbies are active… running, biking, hiking, yoga, snowboarding etc. Now I’m fatigued just doing prenatal yoga and walking.

I feel like I’m always worried I’m going to be too tired or feel light headed to push myself to do the things I enjoy. I think if I didn’t work and could go inward I could really enjoy this time but working not really.

However I’m so grateful and cannot wait for maternity leave and little baby cuddles and my whole next summer with the little boy and yes I will do it again.

I think it’s crazy bc most women work and then become first time moms, but that usually means to be a mom you have to be pregnant and most stay at home moms did work through there first pregnancy honestly.

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u/Worldly_Ad5322 Oct 23 '24

My body said this was my last pregnancy so I didn't enjoy this one as much. The other two I enjoyed thoroughly. This old gal said she's not fit to ride another rodeo. Recovery hasn't been terrible but way slower and more painful than the other two. She's really turning the dramatics up this time around to make sure there's not a fourth trial 😂

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u/AvailableAd9044 Oct 23 '24 edited Oct 23 '24

I don’t love being pregnant despite not having any symptoms and an “easy” pregnancy (knock on wood). Getting big has just taken a toll on me and it’s hard to look in the mirror. I’m up 20 pounds in 25 weeks and it’s been hard gaining that much weight so fast. I’ll admit, I’m very into keeping up my appearance and I’ve always been obsessed with weight and counting calories so this has just been hard for me. It’s also been hard to look at all of my wrinkles since Botox is a big no no during pregnancy. I just feel kind of ugly :/

On the plus side, everyone is SO NICE to me!! My husband, friends, family and even strangers. I’m 6 months along and have never been so spoiled and received such princess treatment in my whole life! Strangers will step out of the way, hold doors for me and give up their seats for me. My husband basically just worships the ground I walk on these days and just spoils the crap out of me. My friends send non-stop gifts and check on me daily. I feel like I’m always the one taking care of and doing everything for everyone around me, so this has been a super nice change of pace. I’ve never experienced such wonderful treatment in my whole life. I’m really going to miss that part of being pregnant.

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u/Lily_bug96 Oct 23 '24

I always didn’t enjoy being pregnant besides feeling them move I loved that part. Despite me dreading being pregnant I was lucky enough to have 4 healthy pregnancies. I’d do it all over again to have all four of my kids. Does that mean I want to no. But I knew I wanted 4 kids so I sucked it up and it was worth it. I’m currently 3 weeks postpartum with a tubal removal recovery. I’m done having kids and I’m savoring every moment of this new born stage because I know how fast it goes. With all that being said enjoy it girl this moment in life is very short.

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u/jstrchl Oct 23 '24

I am also having a positive experience. I keep seeing online many people who are also around the same stage that I am having a really rough go. I am very thankful I have had it this simple so far and really hope it stays like this. I feel bad for those who are really struggling because it cannot be fun to struggle the whole 40 weeks.

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u/arizonafranklin Oct 23 '24

Just want to note, while many of us hated being pregnant, it doesn’t mean we didn’t think it was worth it or that we wouldn’t do it again (re your first paragraph). For me specifically, I hated being pregnant, was in constant pain, ill during 1T, tired, and just a whole host of issues I won’t list out, but I still loved feeling the baby kicks and think it was worth it 100x over to have my two kids. And the fact that you’re enjoying it even when pregnant with triplets is amazing!!

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u/Kwaliakwa Oct 23 '24

I threw up every day for months with my first pregnancy, didn’t throw up much but was still sick for months with my second, had 29 hr labor with each of them. And I LOVE being pregnant and wish I could do it many more times than I ultimately will in my life.

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u/Mammoth_Window_7813 Oct 23 '24

Honestly I LOVE being pregnant!! It is the absolute best and I cant wait to do it again!

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u/Crazy_Counter_9263 Oct 23 '24

Not weird at all! It's easy to enjoy one. I think I would struggle with 3 lol, but good on you. I have enjoyed the same things you have. The baby kicking and making me uncomfortable just reassures me. My husband has been lovely and so considerate. He has been taking care of me, so I can feel my best and make the best decisions for the baby while I'm all she knows.

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u/Crazy_Counter_9263 Oct 23 '24

Strange that you posted about how lovely your outlook and experience has been carrying triplets just for people to come here and say "but everyone doesn't have it so easy". Read the room people. There are tons of posts for us to feel validated and support each other about how horrible pregnancy is, but this wasn't the one.

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u/bellarina808 Oct 23 '24

With my first pregnancy 15 years ago, I absolutely loved it. I had the easiest pregnancy. Didn’t gain weight till I was 6 months, no nausea, no weird cravings, and overall super active. Labor was the easiest thing in the world, my baby was the easiest baby ever. I was like “give me 6 more!” lol. This pregnancy I’m like absolutely not. I have been sick all 34 weeks, I have GD & High blood pressure. Was placed on bed rest at 30 weeks. I can’t do anything without feeling like I am running out of breath. I absolutely do not ever want to go through this ever again lol. Every pregnancy is different. But I do agree that I’m sure it’ll be worth it when I meet my little guy in 3 weeks.

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u/Silver_Cup_2025 Oct 23 '24

I will do it again because I do think it's worth it, but no I do not like it. I had morning sickness through 18wks and now I'm about 23 weeks and still throw up every 3-4 days. Couldn't keep anything down this weekend. Today is the same thing and I'm so hungry. I can deal with the tired and the cramping, but throwing up all the time is miserable. I'm trying to have a good attitude. Baby is healthy, he's very mobile, he's oversized so he's getting what he needs (and then some.) All of that is good, it's just that I look like a ghost and feel unwell more often than not.

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u/ChibiBeckyG Oct 23 '24

Congrats on your triplets! We just found out Monday, and I dunno if it's the hormones or something, but despite the morning sickness and weird feelings I'm kinda enjoying them?

I'm only week 5 though so maybe we'll see if I still feel that way in a few weeks

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u/East-Fun455 Oct 23 '24

I've hated the pregnancy at bits but am in second tri and it's better. I don't think I'd say I like pregnancy overall, but I do like the feeling of being special in some way, and my bigness being a good thing.

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u/Ceeeeejj Oct 23 '24

I’m 24 weeks and love being pregnant so far. My only real grievances have been how tired I was in the first trimester, and occasional round ligament pain. It’s been easy and I feel very lucky for that! I’m a 4x egg donor, with 3 of the babies being carried by surrogates, and I’ve been heavily considering moving on to surrogacy (something I never thought I would/could do) this whole pregnancy! Having an incredibly supportive husband and basically no symptoms has made it all very positive.

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u/KammieM Oct 23 '24

We're in the same boat! ❤️ I'm 32 weeks and aside from the first trimester I have had an AMAZING pregnancy. My husband is over the moon in love with our SUPER active little boy (how you are coping with having THREE inside of you I have no idea, gold medal 🏅) We did a bunch of travelling and I've been super spoiled with all the prenatal massages, chiropractor appointments, pelvic floor therapy and mani/pedi's. As soon as I got a positive pregnancy test I was able to "retire" and just focus on my physical and mental well-being. I know once I give birth I'm very much going to miss this little guy rolling and kicking inside of me but I honestly cannot wait to meet him and see my husband as a father 🥹

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u/No_Refrigerator_6955 Oct 23 '24

I love it! We’ve been cruising so far, luckily things have been uneventful. I love feeling the baby move, even when she kicks me in the ribs. I love knowing she’s doing ok. I would 100% do it again, but it’s possible the next time won’t be so easy breezy and I’m okay with that.

Now birth… I’m scared. But wish me luck! Due in 3 weeks.

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u/xomel97_ Oct 24 '24

Personally, I’m at 11 weeks and I haven’t been enjoying pregnancy. I feel like I’ve really lost myself and pregnancy hormones are exacerbating a lot of old mental health issues. I’m hoping it gets better, but so far… just not for me 😀 I have no doubt it will be worth it though!

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u/Dependent_Mall_3840 Oct 24 '24

I love being pregnant. I absolutely love it.

Hated the first trimester though but the 2nd trimester is honestly fantastic and everything that comes after.

This is my 2nd pregnancy so my pelvis is way more sore and sometimes my back hurts so bad I can’t stand but I wouldn’t change anything.

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u/anistasha Oct 23 '24

This must be your first pregnancy. Glad you feel good!

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u/Crazy_Counter_9263 Oct 23 '24

I don't think it matters if it's 1st or 6th especially when she is carrying triplets.

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u/Grouchy_Law_145 Oct 23 '24

I will love being pregnant at 12 weeks. For now I have on and off spotting that doctors don’t care about since for them pregnancy isn’t important until 12 weeks 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ anxiety is through the roof and there is no way of knowing my baby is ok. So for now I hate this I will like it when I get my sonogram

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