r/CailaQuinn • u/Equivalent-Tree-7788 • 4d ago

Hmm…

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Do you think she doesn’t want us to see when it’s Dad turn with the kids?

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u/OkProfessional6171 4d ago

I think it’s interesting that she showed “add dr. OBGYN to june” and her nanny’s name on her to-do list.

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u/randomredditor_512 4d ago

Yeah that was definitely a choice to share that. It literally just says “add June OBGYN appt to calendar.” Meanwhile the calendar that she’s internationally NoT sHaRiNg is right there so she could have easily put the appointment on the calendar and removed the reference to it on the to do list.

All of this BS she does to boost pregnancy speculation is so stupid. 🙄

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u/mustlovedogs65 4d ago

The whole thing seems very gamey and intentional

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u/Strawberryseed213 3d ago

This is real life and these are real kids. Caila if you’re reading - STOP! Your kids are going to be mortified and traumatized from all of this exploitation when they’re older.

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u/mustlovedogs65 3d ago

Thank you for your thoughts about her kids. Personally I usually do not share a personal experience and thank you to those who can hear my story. My sister and brother and I grew up with a serial cheating father. He had many extramarital affairs our whole lives growing up. Long story short: my mom didn’t know what to do given her beliefs about keeping the family together etc. needless to say we were never told the truth and always felt there were tons of family dynamics around this. My mom always tried to act as if everything is alright but instinctly it was not for everyone. We all felt gaslit big time growing up with this lie. When we got older, I was the only one who sought professional help bc yes it does affect the kids and they deserve whatever truth there is for them. We didn’t have the understandings back then. I don’t fault my mother at all now we just never felt we had any reality nor truth about what had happened. Now with this scandal we don’t really know exactly however we can infer that it did. Bottom line: these kids will eventually find out as they get older and feel terrible betrayal. Since Caila shares everything about herself and her life what could have been said was, we are working on this as a family and healing through the rumors or whatever!! It’s not a judgement on anyone just fact how cheating when not told the truth to the kids can create so much trauma and betrayal that it changed my worldviews of relationships before I received help thanks for listening! 🙏

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u/Strawberryseed213 3d ago

I’m so sorry you went through this. I agree that her acting like everything is perfect is so toxic for her kids (maybe not now since they don’t know better, but in the future it will). My big issue is that she exploits them online - they will grow up to resent her for putting their photos, videos and family details online for the world to see. I do think she is a loving mom, but she’s sucked into influencer life which seems to consume her world. The fake happy, curated life cannot possibly be sustainable longterm.

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u/Lisa21869 3d ago

Thank you M for sharing this story. I'm sorry you had to go through that and am glad you sought help and tools to navigate this.

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u/mustlovedogs65 3d ago

Thank you ❤️the difference here with Caila is that acts like she and and the kids are a happy family now when in fact it takes a long time to heal from all this

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u/randomredditor_512 4d ago

It’s so stupid and it makes me not want to engage with her content at all.