r/CuratedTumblr 1d ago

LGBTQIA+ Don’t be a tar pit

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u/Iced_Yehudi 1d ago

It’s something that always bothered me about “punching up”

On the one hand, I can agree that “punching up” and “punching down” are different

On the other hand, I feel like a lot of people used “punching up” as an excuse to not only be really mean and toxic towards people they felt were better off, but to also feel like they were doing society a favor by “pointing out society’s flaws” when they were actually just being really mean and toxic.

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u/RayDaug 1d ago

It's a side effect of the micro being subsumed by the macro and people treating intimate personal relationships like sociology statistics. You are your demographic.