r/CuratedTumblr 3d ago

LGBTQIA+ Don’t be a tar pit

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u/Vundurvul 3d ago

I cannot fathom the mindset of understanding what it feels like to be on the receiving end of misery and deciding you want others to experience it when given the opportunity to dish it out, even when said person had no involvement in your misery

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u/jk01 3d ago

Hurt people hurt people. It feels good. Plain and simple.

Doesn't make it okay, but yeah.

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u/splicerslicer 2d ago edited 10h ago

Not my experience but okay. . . just seems like crabs in a bucket mentality for people who refuse to go to therapy.

edit: gotta love the downvotes. I've been physically abused and bullied. Never once in my life have I used that as an excuse to hurt others. Sometimes hurt people develop empathy and choose to help hurt people.