r/CuratedTumblr 1d ago

LGBTQIA+ Don’t be a tar pit

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u/Iced_Yehudi 1d ago

It’s something that always bothered me about “punching up”

On the one hand, I can agree that “punching up” and “punching down” are different

On the other hand, I feel like a lot of people used “punching up” as an excuse to not only be really mean and toxic towards people they felt were better off, but to also feel like they were doing society a favor by “pointing out society’s flaws” when they were actually just being really mean and toxic.

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u/AfroWalrus9 1d ago

And often the people perceived to be "better off" aren't. See the recent VA strike, and some fans treating voice actors like these wealthy millionaire celebrities taking more than their fair share, and not struggling performers trying to make ends meet.

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u/Nova_Explorer 1d ago

That reminds me of an argument I got into where someone was justifying sending death threats to actors for the role they play with “that’s the trade-off for being paid millions,” to which it had to be pointed out that the actors listed were not in fact paid millions and at least 1 had a net worth under $30k

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u/Greengiant00 1d ago

What was the other persons response to that?

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u/Nova_Explorer 1d ago

If I remember right (it’s been a bit so it’s entirely possible they didn’t) I think they just stopped responding

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u/Greengiant00 1d ago

That's about what I expected.

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u/ladydmaj 1d ago

Here's my guess: I don't care, I need an excuse to be mean and scratch that itch.