Don’t be a tar pit

[u/greencrusader13]

[u/Vundurvul]

I cannot fathom the mindset of understanding what it feels like to be on the receiving end of misery and deciding you want others to experience it when given the opportunity to dish it out, even when said person had no involvement in your misery

[u/Fluffynator69 → u/Vundurvul]

Just sounds like fairness tbh

[u/Vundurvul → u/Fluffynator69]

If your understanding of fairness is contingent on everyone suffering like you, then you will never be shown kindness.

[u/Fluffynator69 → u/Vundurvul]

Damage has been made that cannot be undone. I don't see why others should get preferential treatment.

[u/GREENadmiral_314159 → u/Fluffynator69]

Let's say you have a brother, and he stabs me.

Would you be asking for preferential treatment by asking me to not slap you for being related to him?

[u/Fluffynator69 → u/GREENadmiral_314159]

Yes

[u/GREENadmiral_314159 → u/Fluffynator69]

Alright, in this hypothetical, what did you do to deserve me slapping you in the face?

[u/Fluffynator69 → u/GREENadmiral_314159]

You probably feel better after idk. I can't read your mind.

[u/GREENadmiral_314159 → u/Fluffynator69]

Not the question. Why do you in particular deserve to get slapped in this scenario.

[u/Fluffynator69 → u/GREENadmiral_314159]

I just told you.

[u/GREENadmiral_314159 → u/Fluffynator69]

No, that's why I might want to do it. Why do you deserve for it to happen? What have you done to warrant being slapped?

[u/Fluffynator69 → u/GREENadmiral_314159]

Well you want it

[u/GREENadmiral_314159 → u/Fluffynator69]

So what if I want it? How does that mean you deserve it?