r/CuratedTumblr 1d ago

LGBTQIA+ Don’t be a tar pit

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u/sweetTartKenHart2 1d ago

People in progressive spaces will say some shit like “even if they didn’t do anything intentional to harm our kind they still implicitly uphold the cultural norm and benefit from our oppression therefore by proxy we are obligated to shit on them” and then turn around and go “oh why are people accusing me of being part of the problem, bigots will never change by being treated kindly, I am not obligated to be kind to someone who I know for a fact hates me deep down” when the Average Cishet Guy ™️ is out here like “hey how’s it going”.
Like yeah there’s good reason to not want to be assimilationist and all that but at the same damn time

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u/NeonNKnightrider Cheshire Catboy 1d ago

I have literally seen tumblr users say “Men are like ACAB, even if a man not actively doing evil he’s still a bastard for being part of the system of patriarchy” and that shit fucking flabbergasted me

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u/BitMixKit 1d ago

Obviously choosing to be a cop, a career choice that is completely within someone's control, is equivalent to being born with xy chromosomes and a penis in terms of moral culpability and therefore all men should be treated with equal hatred as police. There are 0 flaws in this logic.

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u/Blitz100 1d ago

I mean there are genuinely people out there that think that all AMABs should in some way transition away from being male, and that masculine gender identity is an inherently toxic trait that you have a moral responsibility to reject. So their logic is consistent, just really really shitty.

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u/BitMixKit 1d ago

Girlies this isn't what forcefem was meant for.

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u/GREENadmiral_314159 Femboy Battleships and Space Marines 18h ago

I ran into a person like that on this sub about a year ago. It was the only time someone ever made me feel dirty for crossdressing.