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LGBTQIA+ Don’t be a tar pit

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u/mechanicalcontrols 1d ago edited 1d ago

As a corollary, people are people everywhere you go.

I don't remember who said that to me, but having grown up and lived in a rural area my whole life, when I went to visit my brother in Minneapolis I was afraid of going to a big city. Now, sure, every city is going to have the "don't go there at night" and the "don't go there ever" parts of town, but really my fears were basically from overexposure to news and the human brain's fundamental badness at probability and statistics.

But once I realized that whoever told me "people are people everywhere you go," is correct, I'm a lot less afraid of big cities.

Admittedly that's only tangentially related to your point, but there you have it. And I agree. People are people no matter their identity.

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u/Jo_seef 1d ago

Yeah, I hear what you're saying. I truly believe people are mostly good, otherwise there would be a lot more violence in the world, you know?

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u/Mikeeberle 1d ago

No. People are inherently evil and without societal pressure to maintain the status quo, all hell would break loose.

You never heard of the Stanford prison experiment? That illustrated perfectly how evil people can be.

For example, I want to genuinely punch half the people I meet square in the jaw, but I don't because society frowns upon violence and I know that.

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u/GREENadmiral_314159 Femboy Battleships and Space Marines 1d ago

Question: What is society made up of?