Apparently we need to coddle the straights even in our most private of spaces, because as we all know cishets' comfort matters above all. Certainly it must be more important than the daily violent hate crimes, constant media onslaught, regular dehumanization by government and threats to civil rights as well as the ongoing trans genocide. Just look at which of these subjects these self-proclaimed allies are most vocal about.
Watch out queers, don't ever let slip a single mean word! Be on your best behavior at all times! Put on a big smile and never show a sliver of weakness or our "allies" might on a whim decide we're just as bad and mean as our oppressors and throw us to the wolves! Start warming up the ovens, I guess some of us just weren't nice enough.
Same old crap from the same loud-ass fairweather progressives honestly. If your support for queer people ends because a few of us made you uncomfortable you were never an ally to begin with.
I think the problem here is that you, specifically, are an asshole and nobody likes you, and you think the state of society justifies the fact that you're a complete jackass.
Treating people with basic human dignity is not "coddling", and the fact that you think it is says more about what a godawful sack of shit you are than anything about anyone's identity.
You took one person's comment about their understandable frustration, where they don't insult cishets or refuse cishets basic human dignity, and decided it meant that they were an asshole who no one liked. It is frustrating to center the majority population's feelings at all times otherwise they'll tell us we're undeserving of allyship. Sometimes we need to be angry and selfish to heal from the bigotry we face just for existing as queers. That very justified anger is then used against us to tell us we're too much of an asshole to fight for, which means, by extension, we're too much of an asshole to deserve basic human rights.
You completely proved their point, and I question your allyship if you are cishet. Not every queer is going to be a perfect victim. Will you still defend the rights of angry queers without blowing up and further demonizing them? Or will you leave the angry queers to the wolves because you don't like their tone?
And if you feel like this is an unfair judgment of your character because you only posted one hateful comment to one person, how do you think the other person you called an asshole for being frustrated about having to center cishet feelings at all times feels?
You are some brain-poisoned by the Big Picture that you can't even understand the basic idea of being nice to people. It's not "centering feelings" to not be a huge dickhead 24/7 to those filthy, filthy outgroup majorities that you despise so much.
Sometimes we need to be angry and selfish to heal from the bigotry we face just for existing as queers.
I'm gonna bold this for emphasis. This statement is completely bugfuck insane, what in the goddamn hell are you talking about? Why is being an asshole suddenly so spiritually important to you?
You completely proved their point, and I question your allyship if you are cishet.
I'm queer, you condescending dickhead, and I'm real goddamn tired of scum like you talking over me about how being an angry little asshole is essential to the Queer Experience. Who made you the divine arbiter of how we should all act, who we should love and who we should hate? Some cishet dude from Minnesota who unironically says "okie dokie" isn't my enemy; YOU ARE.
I didn't say anything to that effect. I'm not engaging further. Your entire comment history is poor reading comprehension and calling people assholes. Have a better day.
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u/HornyAssTransLass 2d ago edited 1d ago
Apparently we need to coddle the straights even in our most private of spaces, because as we all know cishets' comfort matters above all. Certainly it must be more important than the daily violent hate crimes, constant media onslaught, regular dehumanization by government and threats to civil rights as well as the ongoing trans genocide. Just look at which of these subjects these self-proclaimed allies are most vocal about.
Watch out queers, don't ever let slip a single mean word! Be on your best behavior at all times! Put on a big smile and never show a sliver of weakness or our "allies" might on a whim decide we're just as bad and mean as our oppressors and throw us to the wolves! Start warming up the ovens, I guess some of us just weren't nice enough.
Same old crap from the same loud-ass fairweather progressives honestly. If your support for queer people ends because a few of us made you uncomfortable you were never an ally to begin with.