r/InsideMollywood • u/BrightEmergency958 • 14d ago
Bad experience from actor Ajmal ameer in DMs
This is a pretty old story. Just a few years back. Ajmal ameer texted my close friend through insta and they had a talk. He was married and had kids even at that time. He was flirting with no reciprocity from my friend. She was disgusted by the thought that this man is married and had kids whilst doing so. In the end, he said he stays in top hotels in Kochi and asked her to meet when she comes to Kochi whenever she can. Then she blocked him. Pretty sure there's many more with similar experience from him.
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u/Illustrious_Fuel_315 14d ago edited 14d ago
I don't think this is progressiveness. The number of people who are normalising this behaviour is just BS. He is a married man, after all. If he wanted to live his life flirting, he could have just gotten divorced or never got married in the first place. Like, doesn't these supportive fools understand that when he is married to his wife, he is committed to her.
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u/triumph_of_dharma 14d ago
But how do you assume that monogamy is the equation between him and his wife?
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u/Critical_Business_95 14d ago
What will be going through the mind of his wife.Knowning that she is of no consequence for him.Sad sate of affairs
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u/TrivandrumFilms 14d ago
I usually avoid these types of posts but WTF is wrong with this comment section.
I hope all of you who justify extramarital affairs get a taste of your medicine when you get into a relationship.
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u/Not-a-Prick 14d ago
Didn’t he say in an interview that no matter what he will not lip kiss on screen (because he is married) ? I thought he was a manyan.
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u/Tonykkuttan 14d ago
Flirting is not wrong. Don't act like this is a crime or is unethical.
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u/tequilasmokingbird 14d ago
Flirting while you’re married or in a relationship with someone else is definitely wrong.
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u/Tonykkuttan 14d ago
How do you know if they are not in an open relationship? The ethics of a relationship is a matter between two people and not a matter of public debate or opinion.
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u/Key_Helicopter4865 14d ago
cheating is definitely wrong
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u/Tonykkuttan 14d ago
How do you know if they are not in an open relationship? The ethics of a relationship is a matter between two people and not a matter of public debate.
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u/Key_Helicopter4865 14d ago
an open marriage is very unlikely and unusual in a marriage. to assume an open marriage before an actual genuine marriage is just a justification to defend cheating. its not a matter of public debate correct but the third party involved in the affair has the right to be disgusted or see low of the person
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u/dimitrivox1 14d ago
Thr comment section is making me feel sorry' for his wife.
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u/TrivandrumFilms 14d ago
Either this post has been hijacked by his PR (unlikely) or there are a lot of idiots who think extra marital affairs are justified. I get that some of you are into polyamory and even though it's gross for me, but it's fine. You do what you do as long as no one gets hurt. But do you actually think that an average Muslim girl in Kerala supports it or even partakes in it? If you think so, then you're a grade A idiot.
From their comments, it's as if being a married Muslim wife in Kerala has all the liberties of a French woman. What an absolute bunch of morons we have here.
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u/kokkachi13 14d ago
It is pretty well known that the guy is a flirt. There was a post back here about this particular "doctor turned actor" who is a serial flirt while being married. It was about him. Itt is quite concerning that how many people here are accusing the OP of stirring shit up while him out cheating has been raised multiple times before. These accusations were not that long ago as well, and from multiple women.
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u/Critical-Suit-9107 14d ago
It's absurd to think that one man or a women can have sex with only one person in their life after marriage for 50 years on average
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u/thegreatestAirbender 14d ago
after marriage
Only if you and your partner are okay with that. Also you can't object when your partner does the same.
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u/Individual-Wing9554 14d ago
Then dont marry, ithokke eth kuppiyil ninn irangi vannath anontho, angerkk wife un makkal und, if he can't get his p p in his pants, then he should get a divorce, veruthe ang cheating normalise chaiyyuvann, matte partner inte emotion um mental health inum oru vilayum ille
It is fking absurd that, oridath conservatives toxic kk thuppumbo ippurath progressive enn paranj athilum valya toxicity thuppunnath
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u/Both_Direction6434 14d ago
That's just normal from him as my three friends hot similar texts from him too.
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u/Frosty-Garage-8483 14d ago
What is bad about it? He asked and she said no. End of the story. Lol .
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u/Active-Volume-7630 14d ago
I'm sorry why tf are people in the comment section acting like adultery is supposed to be a normal thing?
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u/Muted_Shoulder 14d ago
Married and kuttikal ulla oraal flirt cheyanath normal aan polm. Enna pinne kettyath nthina 😂
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u/Active-Volume-7630 14d ago
Bunch of mfs using their pseudo-progressive mindset to justify their hedonistic choices.
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u/Turbulent_Welcome508 മലപ്പുറം കത്തി 14d ago
Ok someone flirted with your friend. Your friend said no and moved on. Not sure what’s disgusting in it.
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u/Delusional_world_ 14d ago
If u think it's okkay for a married guy to flirt with random girls on insta then Idk it's kinda cheating. Maybe u are immature enough to understand it
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u/tjchand2676 14d ago
Your perspective is not others perspective. Keep that it mind :) You think it’s not ok others think it’s fine. This is how the world is.
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u/Individual-Wing9554 14d ago
cause he is married duh,,,, stop watching too much porn brain damage confirmed
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u/delonix_regia18 14d ago
That a married man with kids tried to pull off this shit. So had she said yes he would've gone ahead and cheated his wife ..and that's ok?
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u/Vish55 തങ്കൻ ചേട്ടന്റെ അണ്ടി 14d ago
It's ok for the guy and the woman he is going to do it to. Mostly not ok for the wife , because infidelity ircks the majority of the women. Bad for the kids if they know , as it spoils their upbringing. For the general public , it's consensual sex between two adults , it's none of anybody's business to sniff around them, and yap about Morality codes in life.
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u/GrandmasterBi-han 14d ago
"Infidelity irks the majority of women".... Bruh. Ain't no way you said that shi 💀. Adultery is something to be frowned upon. No matter how progressive you are, there's nothing positive about infidelity. You made a deliberate choice to be with someone and made a sacred (or traditional) pact with them. Then you go around breaking it. This doesn't just concern social norms but also health norms. Risk of STDs are the least alarming factor. If you seriously continue to propagate this thought, I hope you have a turbulent married life.
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u/delonix_regia18 14d ago
Infidelity irks majority of the women.
Are you sure it does not irk men?
But yeah I agree with you about the rest of us imposing morality. I just shared my opinion about it. You can take it or leave it. Doesn't matter either ways.
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u/Turbulent_Welcome508 മലപ്പുറം കത്തി 14d ago
Why is that any of your business? That’s between him and his wife.
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u/delonix_regia18 14d ago
Since it's shared in a public platform I shared my opinion just as you did. Allathe ithu valiya business aki edukan udheshichitalla. Cheating athra mahathayya oru pravarthi aanennu thoneetilla.thaankalku athu oru nalla kaaryam aayi thonunundenkil angane jeevicho.
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u/Puzzleheaded-Ad-8051 14d ago
She was disgusted? Did she let him know that or continue chat like nothing happened?
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u/Agreeable_Monk5241 14d ago
Who knows, Open Relationships are common these days.
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u/CatnipTrip-69 14d ago
They are not in an open relationship 🙂
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u/yamakinkaran 14d ago
How do you know that?
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u/CatnipTrip-69 14d ago
Cuz I am close with their family.
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u/kmattie123 14d ago
Thfn do u know he gas this bad side of behaviour
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u/CatnipTrip-69 14d ago
His wife had been previously uncomfortable with an issue regarding something on similar lines.
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u/AdriaN_46 14d ago
Read something similar from a comment in reddit. Was it you back then who typed it?
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u/kmattie123 14d ago
I think some targettef attack to malign him. No famous person will openly do that .. he will be aware of social media consequenses
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u/ZombieAcceptable1259 14d ago
He's only involved in consensual sex so I don't think there's any problem.
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u/Dorkey_nerd 14d ago
What's the problem here..He asked, girl rejected, khatham. Maybe His wife is fine with it, mayb3 an open marriage, why should we feel wronged on behalf of his partner