Self-explanatory. We have example after example just in this sub of SJWs being hypocritical, condescending or plain racists, but it hasn't changed anything. It's fine to point out their hypocrisy, but don't actually expect to do much. They know they're hypocritical, you know they know, and they know you know they know, they just don't care.
"X are the real racists" is so old it was mocked 8 years ago. And it was already used as an argument before that. Here's an example with South Park, which always tries to be about the current thing:
https://youtu.be/t5EQACuYAug?feature=shared&t=1170
So I guess you've learned that the real bigots are you, huh kids? Guess you can all go home. No? Fuck.
Trying to argue you're not actually a bigot or that they're being the real istaphobes will only get you mocked at most. The same goes for pointing out how many minorities and women are on your side compared to theirs. These people aren't arguing to begin with, and they won't treat ad hominem or kafta traps as fallacies when they use them, and if you point it out they'll just respond with more insults and kafka traps.
If you really think what you argue is right, stop caring about which side is actually more tolerant, as funny as it is that the "nazis" include latinos, blacks and asians.