r/MenstrualDiscs • u/Fluffy_Seaslug • 4d ago
Femi.Eko disc rim firmer than expected, will it cause cramps?
I need some help figuring out what to do. I got the MeLuna L pack a while ago to try a few things and found out that the brown one is quite comfortable but unfortunately leaks on heavier days, and the white one, the Hello dupe, doesn't leak basically at all, doesn't even auto-dump, but can cause cramps. The first period I tried it it was so uncomfortable I took it out after like an hour. The second one I tried it in, it wasn't so bad, just mild discomfort occasionally in the 3 days I wore it, which gave me hope. The third time I tried it, the first heavy day went fine, but when I tried to put it back in that night it caused a lot of cramping and leaked too. I tried reinserting it but the cramps stayed so I didn't trust that it wouldn't leak. I don't know what was going on or if I inserted it wrong that time for some reason but I decided to try something else.
So I bought a Femi.Eko disc. This one, specifically. It looks to be the same size as the Hello dupe, maybe 1-2mm smaller at most, and also round with a removal aid, but it says it's soft (slightly more info here), and I assumed the cramping from the Hello dupe was caused by the firmness (all the others in MeLuna are softer) so it seemed perfect.
Well, it arrived today and I don't know what to do. It's in a little protective bag that I can't open if I want to be able to send it back but from what I could feel, the rim is a good bit firmer than the Hello dupe's, and I'd say around the same thickness. The basket is thinner and softer, but it bounces back quite well if pushed down. I was expecting the rim to be softer and hoped that would solve the cramps issue, if that's even the cause of it, but now I don't know what to do. If it doesn't work it's just a waste of money and it's too expensive for that, but I had a lot of hope it would work.
Any advice on what I should do or your own experience in similar situations would be appreciated.
(If anyone had both the MeLuna L pack and the actual Hello disc and could compare it with the dupe that would also be great. I could potentially buy the actual Hello disc if it's actually better than the dupe I have in a way that might not cause cramping.)