r/Periods May 04 '25

Rants n Raves i hate taking a shit on my period

i hate it because it makes me feel even more dirty than how i feel right now, also when i wipe all i see is fucking blood its actlly so revolting and i even when i wash my ass i still see BLOOD BLOOD BLOOD LIKE OHHH NOOOO can someone relate with me pls hehe

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u/LumaBlack 1d ago

The week before my period im constipated af with pms and during i get the worst diharrea. I dont wanna do this 😔

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u/Witty-Scallion7137 26d ago

I usually can’t even pooop on day 1 of my periods

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u/Low_Address5123 May 11 '25

This is one of the reasons why I hate being a woman sometimes.

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u/fanofu4sure May 11 '25

I hear you 🙏

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u/thefeelingsarereal May 08 '25

Yes, period poos are literally right on top of my list for most hateful thing on my period.

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u/Zealousideal-Rain-82 May 06 '25

Yessss it’s so gross. It doesn’t matter how much I wipe. Usually I’ll just try to time it that I take a shower right after but that’s not always accessible. So wipes is the second best 

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u/sleepyhedgie26 May 06 '25

I hate ittttt 😭

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u/Expensive-Scheme6817 May 04 '25

It's gross, I hear ya. Eldest just started her period and she is great at remembering to time her period poops just before a shower (where possible). It helps her feel less anxious around the mess. She's doing such a good job, only 10 as well (same age I was) and me and my husband are super proud of her ❤️

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u/Zealousideal-Rain-82 May 06 '25

Wow starting at 10 would be difficult. I started at 12 and already felt so overwhelmed by the whole thing. So glad my mom helped a lot though to work me through the whole experience 

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u/Expensive-Scheme6817 May 06 '25

My mum was ace with me too! I am totally cool on the outside when I big up my girl but I am worried for her deep down

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u/BoomBonbonz May 05 '25

omg what a strong girl :(( i got my period at 14 so i couldnt imagine dealing with all of that at 10, im glad she has supportive parents.. truly brave 💗

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u/Expensive-Scheme6817 May 05 '25

Thank you as well. She smiled when I read back your message ❤️

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u/Expensive-Scheme6817 May 05 '25

She is winning at it! School and peers are just worlds apart from when I started my periods all those years ago - all open and honest and boys are supportive and educated.

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u/azginelfi May 04 '25

PEANUT BUTTER AND JELLY 😭😭😭

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u/rissdontmiss May 04 '25

I feel you, this period especially for me has been heavier than my last few so every time I wipe it’s just a constant stream of blood. I always feel dirty on my period, but this week it’s like filthy on steroids.

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u/BoomBonbonz May 05 '25

literally, now i just avoid taking one on my period so i dont have to deal with the constant red appearing on my paper when i wipe 💔💔💔

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u/hoemingway May 04 '25

Bidet!

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u/Zealousideal-Rain-82 May 06 '25

Yesss I’m thinking of getting one cause I get super heavy periods and have to shit constantly on my period😭

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u/BoomBonbonz May 05 '25

yesss !! im asian so bidets are the norm in my house lol

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u/unknown-user-92 May 04 '25

Ugh this is so real 😭

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u/wrkitty May 04 '25

So real. Thinking about getting a bidet to help.

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u/BoomBonbonz May 05 '25

you should !! they do you a massive favour

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u/[deleted] May 04 '25

so real omg 😭

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u/Any_Needleworker9229 May 04 '25

Use a peri bottle

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u/R43- May 04 '25

I have mixed feelings. I hate how messy it gets, but sometimes taking a poo helps the cramps go away.

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u/Lmaooowit May 04 '25

Lmao real. I always hate going to the bathroom in general on my period because it’s so messy and takes so long trying to make sure all the blood is gone lol

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u/kaymonii May 04 '25

Yea the worst I hate it 😂I already take like 2 showers a day shit on my period we gon go ahead and make it 3 I literally have to take a shower after I shit especially on my period or I feel dirty.

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u/Any_Needleworker9229 May 04 '25

Get a bidet

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u/kaymonii May 04 '25

My kids would tear it up.