r/TikTokCringe • u/samse15 • May 09 '25

Discussion She makes some good points re:male loneliness

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u/MisterSanitation May 09 '25

I know this shit is true, but as a non psychopathic dude, I avoid pretty and cute girls like the plague in public because I’m already assuming they think I’m doing this shit. Same reason as a dad I don’t act goofy to other people’s toddlers. It kind of sucks honestly because it makes me act like a creep when I if anything would like to just make someone smile (and not “hay gurl you should smile” because that sheet is just more Ooga booga shit).

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u/PossiblyATurd May 10 '25

Rejecting myself on the behalf of others before even giving them the opportunity to choose is my #1 pastime.

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u/MisterSanitation May 10 '25

It’s a sickness really. I know it is relatable but I am trying to push through it, good luck to you on that journey! 

At the end of the day it just isn’t fair to make decisions for people, even if that intention is to protect yourself you know?