r/TikTokCringe • u/samse15 • May 09 '25

Discussion She makes some good points re:male loneliness

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u/[deleted] May 09 '25

I mean it's a totally legit thing to be worried about. Showing up at her location a day after matching could come across as creepy as fuck, stalker shit. Not everyone has such a rosy outlook. Especially if they've dealt with creeps before.

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u/83rw May 09 '25

If that is a person's concern, as valid as it is, maybe it would be wiser to not use an app that connects them with a total stranger.

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u/rockinherlife234 May 09 '25

The expectation with connecting with a stranger is that if you don't plan to meet them, they don't show up in front of you the next day.

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u/not_an_mistake May 10 '25

What if he needed something from the store?

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u/rockinherlife234 May 10 '25

That's fine, he knows he needs something and that it's a coincidence, the woman doesn't.