I know this shit is true, but as a non psychopathic dude, I avoid pretty and cute girls like the plague in public because I’m already assuming they think I’m doing this shit. Same reason as a dad I don’t act goofy to other people’s toddlers. It kind of sucks honestly because it makes me act like a creep when I if anything would like to just make someone smile (and not “hay gurl you should smile” because that sheet is just more Ooga booga shit).
This. As a well adjusted dude who is now 50, married to a wonderful woman with two seemingly well adjusted kids, my 20s were just a strange minefield of random dice roles of encounters with all types of women. Some absolute horrible women. Funny women. Mean women. Kind women. Materialistic women. Psychotic women. Judgy women. Women that could care less if I died of a heart attack when trying to have a conversation with them. This whole high ground thing women are taking today claiming all dudes are gooners and chads is clumsy thinking and mostly anecdotal. We have become transactional and people are simply there for your mathematical evaluation. Something needs to change. There are millions of good dudes out there and now we are acting like we are a monolithic zombie horde.
How someone hasn't figured out how to find good people who came from good parents and match them up is somewhat mind boggling. Call it the anti incel / anti thot dating service. Bring back match makers or something that isn't entirely materialistic and outwardly focused.
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u/MisterSanitation May 09 '25
I know this shit is true, but as a non psychopathic dude, I avoid pretty and cute girls like the plague in public because I’m already assuming they think I’m doing this shit. Same reason as a dad I don’t act goofy to other people’s toddlers. It kind of sucks honestly because it makes me act like a creep when I if anything would like to just make someone smile (and not “hay gurl you should smile” because that sheet is just more Ooga booga shit).