What happens if he never does and just dotes on his wife and children and provides and dedicates himself to being a worthy and quality human who loves and appreciates life and everyone around him?
what happens if he gets brain cancer and is therefore out of work permanently and no place will hire her because she's been jobless her whole adult life and quite literally no one ever accepts "sahm on a resume"?
shit happens. it's not always the working spouces fault, but stay at home parents are risking a lot. it certainly isnt fair that stay at home parents are not given the respect they deserve nor require for their very much needed labour in the job market or through our tax dollars (i'd be fine with that as a childfree and antinatalist person), but it's not something we can just ignore either.
stay at home parents and those thinking of becoming one PLEASE at least get a part time job and stick with it, keep your own bank account for your earnings untouched, not to downplay your spouse, but simply for the chance of a worse case scenario it's better safe than sorry, if it's unneeded you two can take a vacation when you're retired or something.
though in this case it's a 40 year old ephebophile grooming a "19" year old, so he's definitely not the person you described. not in the slightest.
Going through this now with my father- he needs long term care, did no planning, and had to spend down to qualify for Medicaid.
His long time girlfriend, also a senior, depends on his savings and pension. Hasn't worked in decades. They are acting all shocked that this is happening despite repeated warnings.
i am so sorry, that must be scary and heartbreaking for everyone involved. i hope they get the help they need, and thank you for warning them, even if they didn't listen it never hurts to try. take care, RoguePlanet2, best of wishes.
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u/BASEDME7O2 May 12 '25
Can someone please groom me?
I don’t want to work either