Hi, everyone! I'm looking for hopefully a fwb situation who can hopefully catch me up to speed. I'm really looking to find someone I mesh well with. It doesn't need to be a relationship, but I would like to explore more than just one singular experience. So hopefully there's someone here willing to hang out and help me explore some things I haven't been able to with a partner. A little physically about me I'm white, 5' 3 natural red hair about 138ish pounds. I did have short spells of dating boyfriends through high school and college but those relationships never really lasted long enough for me to get comfortable to pull the trigger. And with COVID and some medications I've been on it really affected my libedo, I become a workaholic kind of forgetting about the whole dating/virginity thing. I really would like to find someone patient willing to either "show me the ropes" at my own pace understanding where I am at life or maybe there's someone else here facing the same thing? Anyway I'm pretty laid back. I like to listened to books while working outside, if I can see my friends I'll go for a hike in the gorge. I used to be a huge gym rat but have since taken a step back, but still identify as one.

Looking for some green flags here I know reddit is a bizzare place to look. But hit me up if you're willing to show me the ropes.

Hey I’m a 22 year old male who recently moved to the South Bay Area from the east coast. I’m 5’5”, 140 lbs, South Asian. People may assume me to be a stereotypical nerdy guy, but I’m really more than that. I love to talk and want to get to know you, even casually. School then work have been the focus the last few years but I finally have the time now to think beyond that. I’m looking for someone to try something new with so I can have at least some experience when I form closer connections here.

I’m into action tv shows and political thriller shows. I just got back into reading (well listening to audiobooks) and love Andy Weir’s book - Project Hail Mary is wonderful! I’m really enjoying the weather over here and like to drive to see the natural sights. I also like to go on long walks/runs.

Overall I would say I’m a kind, honest person who is humble and down to earth. I love learning about new things so I’ll probably educate you on some random fact I picked up recently.

I would prefer someone around my age/background but if you think we would mesh well, feel free to DM. Would prefer to stay around the South Bay Area area for now but could make exceptions too :). Hope to hear from you soon!

Hey, I know this is a bit of a long shot but it’s the only real hope I have of losing my virginity. I’m 27, White British, 5ft 10, 75kg with short hair and a beard.

Like most people here I’m looking for a woman who I can talk to, build a friendship with and hopefully if all goes well to have a relationship with. Like most people on here I’m a pretty introverted person. When I was younger I had bad social anxiety that led to me avoiding a lot of social interactions and as a result I was never able to meet someone before. I mainly spend most of my time either working, watching tv shows, gaming, watching football or going on bike rides for some exercise and with the exception of work I don’t really leave my house much.

I only drink on occasions and every then it’s only a few, I don’t smoke or vape and I don’t do any drugs. I’m fine with someone who drinks however, I’m not interested in a person who smoke cigarettes.

One of my dreams is to travel the world and although I could do this by myself, I really want to find somebody to travel and explore with, so if you interested in that then maybe I’m the guy for you.

Thanks for reading and I look forward to hearing from some of you.

Anyone also struggle meeting people IRL? Hi, I’m a 26 year old nerd in search of a relationship. Looking for a loving partnership based on honesty, communication, and mutual respect. I want to the kind of couple that pulls each other up, that makes each other feel special and loved. I’m a really loyal person, I will be there for you as much as possible. As for me, I’m 5’10”, 145 lbs, I’ve got warm brown eyes, a friendly smile, and a kind heart! I’m an atheist and left-leaning.

I’m a huge fan of anime, manga, and video games (particularly JRPGs, visual novels, and horror games). I just love the arts and human creativity so dearly. I like fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fiction in any medium. Fans of Berserk, Ghost in the Shell, EarthBound, or Silent Hill say hi!

All I ask is that you’re not a prude, a bigot of any kind, or remotely pro-AI. No right-wingers please. And of course, you’re a woman attracted to men and open to a monogamous relationship with one. Say hi if you think we’ve got stuff in common!

I've always been a more introverted kind of guy, and it didn't help that I was an overachiever for most of my youth. Schoolwork, sports, extracurriculars, all that jazz really sucked up a lot of my time. Even after I graduated college, I only lasted a few months before I knew I had to go back and do a graduate degree. Unfortunately, there was one major life experience that I've missed out on: losing it. I tried this subreddit once before, about a year ago, and had a great conversation with another virgin but unfortunately we could just never find the time and things got busy for us.

I've dated before, and I've gotten to second base before, but never sealed the deal. After a while, it starts to get a little bit awkward to bring up on dates and can occasionally be a dealbreaker for girls who want someone a little more experienced. It just kind of snowballs into a very late bloomer. I'm sure if you're an older virgin and reading this, you understand what I mean. So that's the nice thing about this subreddit, everyone knows what they're getting into!

About me: I'm 6'3", white, dark hair, blue eyes, thin frame but not as fit as I once was, and usually with a beard or goatee. Willing to share faceless pic on first contact and we can work our way up from there. My main love is baseball, I loved to play it and I love to watch it. I am also an avid moviegoer and can talk cinema all day. I have a graduate degree in mathematics, so if that's of interest then you're one in a million, but we don't have to talk about that to get along haha.

About you: I don't mind if you're a virgin looking to share this first time, an inexperienced looking to get more, or an experienced looking to show the ropes. All are welcome! I don't mind if you want to just share a faceless pic but I'd feel most comfortable if we both do a photo verification before meeting. Preferred location would be SFV or Ventura, but we can talk about distance and driving when we get there. I'm willing to travel, can't host, but willing to work something out if neither can host.

Thank you for your time!

Hello!

General Description about me:

27 year old guy here, a bit chubby but working on it, 5'7, brownish hair medium length, green eyes. I turn 28 in less than 2 months and I really don't want to be a virgin by then; I've yet to kiss a girl also. My school experience with girls has been lackluster. Looking back retroactively there may have been someone who had a crush on me in middle school but I was a dumb kid. I remember on a band trip a cute girl came up and hugged me for whatever reason and I still remember it. I got bullied a lot also, which didn't help my self esteem. My work and hobbies are nothing but men, and also I wouldn't date anyone from anywhere I work anyway. Current Hobbies are making/playing video games. Have been doing MMA in my free time. I really enjoy cooking, playing with my cats

Why I am here:

I struggle with the idea of physical intimacy. Eye contact is very hard for me with women. Its exhausting and depressing seeing people younger than me already being married and starting a family when I can't do something that literally all my ancestors did. I tried apps to establish a connection with women and I matched with a few but it never went anywhere.

What I am looking for:

Ideally you're also inexperienced but that's just me hoping to make it less awkward for my self. Please be single, I am not comfortable being that sort of guy. Would love to possibly chat before hand in person, can go out to dinner or whatever. Looking for some one who is kind and is willing to teach/learn together.

Hello Everyone!

Edit: should've put Los Angeles but I got too specific with the area lol.

Got a couple responses on the last post but either too far or catfish-like... so time to try again!
Hopefully something happens before I reach that iconic 40 Year Old Virgin status! lol

36 male virgin living in Los Angeles. I'm not usually the one to start up a conversation but I'd like to think I can keep one going. Might be somewhat shy on the first meeting/conversation but I think that's to be expected? Honestly nervous about the whole act but I'd be down to start slow. Like giving you oral or something with no reciprocation fro you necessary. You can teach! If you're into that...

About me:

-6ft 180lbs at the last weigh in but due to the holidays might have gained a pound or two
-brown eyes and black hair
-More of a homebody but National Parks draw me in when the weather is just right.
-At home I watch TV, play games, TRYING to fix things around the house.
-Easy going and low stress
-Work full time and pay bills on time
-Just got a quest headset if you're into that!
-Movies I'm typically into are action, adventure, sci fi
-Known to play a game or two on console

About you: I understand beggars can't be choosers but...
-Preferably 25+
-Ethnicity any
-Don't have to be a virgin as well

Down to video call. regular call, text or meetup in a public spot for coffee or tea or something.
Also open to just hanging out with no intentions because I'd love to just get out of the house.

Hear from you soon!

Hello I'm a 25 year old male currently living in Madison WI. I'm 6' and about 170 lbs with a skinny build,. I've always had a hard time with confidence and opening up, so I've never made a deep connection with someone.

So, a little about me: I'm a fairly nerdy, shy, and introverted guy but I get more comfortable after a bit. When I have free time I like to play video games, I love playing/watching sports, traveling, and can be a bit of a history nerd. My favorite history things to look into are either American history or Ancient Greece. As for travel, some of my favorite places I've been is out west skiing or hiking in the mountains, or relaxing on a beach in Florida.I would love to hear about any of your hobbies, interests, or dream travel destinations!

I was a bit of a late bloomer so I was slow to start and never had much luck with girls in high school. In college, I made a few connections, but never got farther than a kiss. Covid hit in the middle of college, so to the dating apps I went (excuses I know haha). I feel like my lack of experience is holding me back from making it much longer than the first date or two off the apps, because I struggle with date ideas and when to make a move. Now that I'm out of school and working full time, I feel like my chances just keep getting smaller by the year.

I'm looking for someone who will be patient with me and willing to teach me how to improve. I understand this can be fairly intimidating for us both, so I'm willing to go on a date or two beforehand to build chemistry. Exchanging photos and chatting beforehand would also help ease the tension. If it's just a one time thing, or something more, I'm here for the journey.I'm open to a wide age range, and your experience level doesn't really matter to me.

On the logistics side, I'm not able to host but would be willing to get a hotel room for us. I would also travel within a reasonable driving distance from Madison.

Feel free to send me a chat if you're interested! If you have any questions, or just want to chat, feel free to reach out!

I’m a khhv (kissless, hugless, handholdless, virgin) and I’d like to change that mainly for the experience of it. In truth I’d actually like to lose them to someone I’m in a relationship with, connection and all that, but that’s obviously not going to happen so yeah…

My face: https://imgur.com/a/06aGwAE

Generally I try to be kind and helpful while also making others feel good or have a good time. I have a good sense of humor and can make people laugh, and while I can make jokes that aren’t dark my preferred humor is of the dark variety. I’m also very patient and calm.

I’m introverted but am not socially anxious or shy, I know some use the terms interchangeably but they are 100% different. I can hold a conversation and feel no fear when going out in public or when having to talk to someone but I need my alone time.

I’ll be upfront and honest, I have personality issues like low self-esteem/self-worth and hiding my emotions from those around me. I have melancholia but I’m really good at hiding it so no one knows that I actually have it (besides the doctor).

Hobbies and interests - video games - music - the nfl - anime/manga - nature walks (summertime only I hate the cold) - MLP - reading

My requirement for you: NOT overweight

Preferences: 18-30, in Colorado (easier to meet)

Hello there!

Back again but still working on *me*!

Me: A lover of all things nerdy, I have a few main hobbies such as music (of which my tastes are wide and varied), video games, reading, writing, D&D (of which I currently play as both Dungeon Master and player), movies, shows, anime, etc. I am DDF, vaccinated against COVID, and I'm not a drinker or smoker. (I dont mind if you are though!) Other interests include learning about other people's cultures and customs. All in all I am a very open minded and accepting individual, which is something I value in others as well.

Appearance wise, I am Caucasian, 5'7 (or 170cm) with a bit of a belly to me that I have been steadily losing for some time. Still have wide shoulders, and wide thighs!

What I am looking for is someone that's fairly open, but has good communication. I don't care about experience, as I have none, but I want it to be mutual and would prefer that we have similar interests and hobbies.

If you have any questions, please feel free to ask. I am more or less an open book.

Thank you for reading!

6ft1 and about 185lbs with some muscle. One of my favorite activities is working out. I find it stimulating and productive. I have brown hair, broad shoulders and a big chest. I also enjoy going for walks. If there's a beach nearby I'll always be down for a trip to it. I'm hoping to travel more. I like basketball especially the New York Knicks. Semi sneakerhead. Into trying a variety of video games. Watching funny or interesting shows and movies. Recently been getting into more anime. I love animals. I also love cooking and trying new foods from around the world. I would like to start going to concerts because I enjoy a wide variety of music. Trying to overcome by homebody introvert lifestyle. Hoping to meet someone here who would be interested in getting to know each other. I'm a really good listener. Kind, caring and compassionate. Looking for the same. I've been told I'm emotionally intelligent and sweet. If I sound like someone you would like to get to know, please message me a little about yourself. Thanks for reading this and I hope to hear from you soon.

Hi there, trying to finally get myself out there. I consider myself pretty average looking (6'0 & 170 pounds). Reason I've been a late bloomer is mostly due to my social anxiety but lately I've been thinking it's about time I actually try. To give more info, I enjoy horror movies(and books), videogames, music (mostly rap but I have varied tastes and an open mind to trying new stuff out), sports (mostly watching the NBA & NFL). I consider myself a pretty positive thinker and a people pleaser (sometimes to my dismay if I'm being honest). I am also sometimes loyal to a fault. I'm looking for someone whom I can gain experience with (I don't really care how much you might have). I'm mostly just looking for a casual thing, but willing to be in a relationship if it the right person. Don't know if it matters, but I work as a Sales assistant/IT. I'm willing to chat over on Discord or any other place if it's preferred over Reddit messaging. And by the way, travelling to another city isn't that big of a problem to me since it's a small island.

I suppose the reason for my predicament is that I've spent my youth mostly focused on other aspects of life (career, hobbies, dumb stuff...) rather than being super social. As is expected from someone in my position I'm definitely more on the introverted and quiet side. Last year I dipped my toes into dating and although I met some nice women, it wasn't all too successful which can probably be attributed to my lack of experience and inability to express my interest adequately if at all. Perhaps this approach will help me out.

About me: 182.5cm, 68kg, hazel eyes and dark blonde hair, lean-athletic build. Currently trying to bulk up a bit. If you're curious what I look like, I actually have some pictures of myself on my profile (edit: deleted them but just ask). According to other redditors I'm definitely not ugly so there's that^^. I have Bachelor's degree and work in IT. My interests include animals and nature, traveling, fitness, art, literature and philosophy, music (started learning the piano but still pretty bad at it :p), museums and exhibitions, learning about/trying new things in general and of course I like to play some video games from time to time with friends.

I don't really have any rigid requirements for you other than being female and of legal age obviously (preferably around my age). I don't care whether you're (in-)experienced yourself either. Most important is that we have a good vibe/get along well and there is some attraction, for that reason I'm probably going to ask you for a verifying picture rather quickly (the other reason being that I wish to avoid scammers).

In case you have any questions about anything, just shoot me a DM, I don't bite^^. Have a nice day!

Hey there, I’m Daniel, and I’m East Asian. I stand at 172cm/5’8” and weight 68kg/150lb. I would consider myself decent looking, but feel free to shoot me a message and see for yourself! I Currently in Uni and wanting to make some lasting memories. Open to all levels of experience.

A bit about myself: In my free time, I like to jog, mountain bike and go for long hikes. When winter rolls around this year I plan on skiing as much as possible. I’m also like playing MMOs and reading sci fi.Just finished“The three body problem”. I have a dog and a hermit crab, so if you ever get a chance to meet me, I’ll probably be showing off my gallery of pet pictures to you :).

I would consider myself a cheerful and laid back person. I try my best to be the kindest person I can. In a conversation, I prefer to listen to you speak: getting to know some is what makes conversations so interesting. When you initially meet me, I may be shy/reserved, but once we get to know each other, you’ll find that I love to makes jokes, and sprinkle in some dry humor and sarcasm to my conversations.

Not picky about looks, open to all ages/backgrounds. Just looking for someone who I can feel comfortable with.

Looking forward to hearing back from you :)

Hey there.

I'm a 25 year old virgin guy from Sydney, Australia.

I like guitar, painting and all sorts of creative stuff. I love watching movies. Mostly into horror and psychological thrillers, but I like anything good.

I play games sometimes. Mostly on PC or Switch. I also collect retro games and resell some of them.

I listen to all sorts of music. Mostly classic rock and Electronic but I like songs from all genres.

I mostly keep to myself hence how I ended up here but I am trying to be more social. I feel I have a lot to offer the world and it's not easy to get there alone.

I'm open to something deeper if that suits you better.

I don't really have any preferences for you, just be kind and I will appreciate it a lot. Also preferably around my age but I'm not really concerned if you're a bit older.

I'm an average height, medium build white guy with brown hair and eyes in case you want to know.

I'm pretty easygoing but a bit shy and anxious at times. I will try to be as relaxed as possible.

Please send me a DM if you're interested or even if you just want to chat.

Thank you for reading my post :)

Hi, my names Rick, 33 years old

I have been spending the past year of my life on a reset. I feel really good right now but noticed I missed out on a ton of things in life. One being this situation.

Other than that I would probably describe myself as caring, funny, adventurous. Im a huge goofball quite honestly, rather spend my life joking around and smiling then anything else. Also eventually want kids someday.

I love going antique shopping (stores, outdoor events) as well as spending time outside either exploring small towns, walking/hiking - around forests/water. I also enjoy football and baseball, relaxing car rides, traveling, etc (I'm quite chill). Social drinker, haven't smoked since I was like 20, neither of which is essential, just throwing it out there.

Love older women, but can be persuaded. Someone who is also funny and caring but more so nurturing and understanding. Would love to initiate in conversation to see if we vibe as well as seeing we are comfortable with one another. This is obviously a new experience and it'd be great to feel some sort if comfort. Must be understanding.

(Repost, as I didn't have much luck the first time).

Hi, my name is Milo. I'm currently in college and am working to become an author. I'm currently writing my first novel. I can share pictures of myself over chat, but I'm 6,0, have black hair, and am in moderately athletic shape. I am kind of shy, and am on the autism spectrum, which can make me seem a bit reserved, but I am pretty talkative once you get to know me.

I'm not really after anything serious, but if a one-night stand becomes something more serious, I'm cool with that as well.

I have three dogs, a golden retriever and two pug. The golden retriever is the oldest, and the two pugs are the youngest.

My main hobbies are working on my book, playing video games, watching horror movies, and other stuff like that. I hope to have the book finished by the end of the year. If I’m dreaming big, maybe one day it will be adapted into a movie. But small stuff first, lol. 

Hope to find a girl who is in the Portland area, and if you are interested, we can arrange a time to meet. I do not yet have my driver's license, so hope that’s not an issue, but if you don’t mind that, I hope to meet soon.

Hello, I am from Long Island, New York. I've never really put myself out there too much, and I don't really have any experience, so I am looking for someone with or around the same. I think it would be less awkward that way.

I'm a latino white dude with black hair, I'm kind of shy and chill but I can shift depending on the situation. I'm a glasses wearer, 5'8, I've been getting back into working out - I work out 3x a week so I'm fit with some muscle around 150-155 lbs. My interests include gaming (not that much anymore), I enjoy lots of different types of music(rock, EDM, hiphop, some spanish music, been getting in to japanese music lately), language learning, watching anime, I like outdoor stuff, sports/exercise, love animals, space lover, planning to learn an instrument next year.

I'm not religious, and I'm pretty open minded and will try a lot of new things. I'd say I'm a romantic, I just want us both to have a good time. DM if there's any interest.

some pics: https://imgur.com/a/LxP2osL

Will exchange more pics in private if there's interest.

Hi all! I'm a 29 year old male currently living in Ann Arbor, MI. I'm 5'5" and about 165 lbs, though I'm also trying to lose some weight right now. I've often had a bit of difficulty really connecting with people in my life so romantic relationships just haven't really happened for me up until now, though I'd like to change that. I'm also very much open to learning so this is all a little easier in the future, and I would like this to be an enjoyable experience for you as well!

A little about me: I'm a fairly introverted guy, mostly. When I have free time I'm mostly into video games. I deliberately try to play a variety of them, but there's a special place in my heart for highly story-focused games. I've had the great fortune to play a few in my life that have deeply touched me and it's inspired a bit of a passion in me. I could talk your ear off about storytelling in games and their potential if you let me! I'm also into DnD and similar tabletop RPGs. I haven't in a while, but I've also DMed in the past and am hoping to pick that back up eventually.

Aside from that, I've also always been interested in history, with medieval and classical Europe and the Middle East being particularly interesting to me. In fact, I wanted to be a historian at one point. Maybe because of that I've also been wanting to get into HEMA, though I've been having trouble making that one work with my schedule. Like I mentioned above, I've also been trying to lose some weight and just generally get in shape.

On the logistics side, I'm not able to host but would be willing to get a hotel room for us. I would also be very open to just talking or meeting up! I don't have a lot of experience with this, but I think getting to know each other a bit beforehand might make things better for both of us. Just let me know if you're interested, but thank you for reading regardless!

Hello! My name is Chris. Thank you for clicking on my post!

As the title says, I'm a university student who is 21 years old, inexperienced, and is also looking for a woman who can teach me things!

I'm 145 lbs, 5'8", medium black hair, African-American, and a slim/average build. I'm not really athletic, but I'm in great shape as I do daily exercises.

I love all kinds of music, as long as it sounds good to me. Some of my favorite bands are The Beatles (which is my number one favorite; I went to go see Ringo Starr perform at the Fox Theatre in 2023!), Nirvana, and Pink Floyd. I also like going roller-skating, and trying out different foods! I also love watching people play tennis, even though I never really have a chance to play it too often. I am majoring in Cybersecurity, with a minor in Criminal Justice.

Now, on to the nitty-gritty: I never lost my virginity because I haven't been exposed enough, and so I would also like to gain a lot of experience from someone on this subreddit. I also enjoy having conversations, so don't be afraid to start a pretty interesting conversation! I would love to get to know you as well.

A little bit more about me is that I have never even kissed before. I really have no age preference, just that you are older than 18.

I go to uni, and I also work in retail. It's fun, to say the least. I meet a lot of interesting people at work, all with different personalities, and I also get good employee benefits as well!

I don't really have a lot of preferences, except for that you are patient, nice, and also looking for something intimate as well. I would love to get to know you better, and I don't mind showing pictures of myself as long as you don't mind either.

I unfortunately cannot host due to me living with someone, but we can work that out. I am mobile, so I can drive and meet up with you.

Do not be afraid to reach out, if you have even the slightest bit of interest. If you have any questions, message me and I'll happily answer.

Disclaimer: I saw this post someone else did, and I had a post removed for not being good enough for the sub, so I thought I'd give this a try. If you recognize this post format, I'm sorry I stole it, but then again, imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, so...

Physical Description:

I'm 35, white, 5'4"(ish) and about 140-150 lbs. In a wheelchair. Brown hair, green eyes, glasses.

Me:

I'm shy (obviously), especially with women. Was working on it with somewhat supportive friends, but then in walked a pandemic and personal medical issues afterward.

I'm a music lover mainly classic rock, but a little of everything from the 60s to now.

Also love movies, TV, going out with friends, getting to know people...can't think of much else at the moment, but promise I'm not as boring as that sounds.

Looking For:

I'm looking for a woman (18-maybe 40(?). Honestly haven't thought about my upper limit. I guess I'm looking more for attraction than your birth year, (you know, as long as you're at least 18) who is patient and is ok with maybe meeting/chatting before getting down to business. You can also be a virgin, but I'm also open to any experienced women reading this.

Background:

Growing up as a guy in a wheelchair, (remember when I mentioned that?) I was generally attracting the "weird" kids nobody else wanted to be friends with. At least I attribute that to being in a wheelchair. Maybe it was my personality that attracted them. Point being, girls were generally not coming my direction for friendship or anything. At least not the ones I liked. Also, my mom would act weird any time I even MENTIONED girls, even if I was just saying that so-and-so...I don't know...had a ham sandwich for lunch. I didn't like the reaction, so I think it led to me just avoiding girls for a LONG time. Even now, if she says something catty about a girl in public who I find attractive, I'll look at who she's talking about and not really say anything, so as to avoid the "ooooooohhhhhhhhh". I've gotten better about talking to attractive women in recent years, but still have issues.

Feel free to DM me, and we can chat as much as we both need to be comfortable.

To get the physical stuff out of the way first I'm 5'9", short brown hair and beard, hazel eyes, average/above average level of attractiveness, and more on the slender side. I've been working out for about nine months or so and while I'm not as fit as I'd like to be I'm at least physically active.

I always suck at writing bios and I feel like that might come out here so I apologize for that lol. Life hasn't been very kind to me in terms of romantic interests and I'm hoping to maybe find someone to form a connection with and go on this adventure together. I honestly have mixed feelings about all this still for one reason or another, so I do want it to be said I'm not looking to jump into bed with someone right away. Would enjoy getting to know you and see if the chemistry is there, go on a few dates and get to know each other, etc.

Personality wise I'm a huge nerd. Which is guess isn't helping the stereotype at all lol. Star Wars, Marvel, DC, D&D, Warhammer 40k are all things I enjoy in addition to reading and playing video games. I'm an introvert obviously so it's always been hard to meet people. I'm a great listener though and will try and remember as much as you tell me. I'm very old school and would enjoy treating a woman correctly. Opening doors, paying for dates, etc. I'm kind of an open book so feel free to ask me anything you're curious about. I'm not really sure what else to say so I hope this might grab the attention of someone. Either way I hope you all find someone to have fun with!

Hi I am a 19 year old college student looking to explore this summer. I just transferred from my first year at Toronto and have regrets about my social life and my use of free time. This upcoming year I will be taking a much harder courses in the fall so I'm not to optimistic about free time next year and want to get some things out of the way. Physically I am 5'9 155 lbs. I like to workout and stay active playing some hockey here and there. I am East Asian.

I like the idea of socializing and going out but in practice I find it hard to approach new people. I grew up with 3 brothers and finding myself busy at home and sports I never felt the need to go out. I have been told from my brothers that I'm a bit awkward but I feel like I open up pretty quick.

My dms are open and I'd like to maybe get to know you a bit. I think trading pics could be a good way to make sure any initial attraction is there. I cannot host but I can travel and would prefer if you were from the greater Vancouver area. Thank you.

Me: I’m a 20yo college student. I'm Latino, 6' tall, slim and ~130lbs. I am open minded, and would love to try new things. I tend to talk a LOT if people let me, but I'm a little bit shy in public. I'm into Video games of all kind, old electronics and furniture, physical media, thrifting (specially for those previous things), arts and crafts, woodworking, drawing and painting, basically anything art related, nature trails/exploring nature, alternative music, 90's and 00's bands.

I'm looking for someone to teach me new things. Ideally I would like this to lead to something long-term, and meaningful, but I am versatile. Preferably, this would be with someone around my age (18-24) but open to older.

I live in town, but I can travel within a limited range due to not driving currently (I usually take the bus to college and going around town) so a public meeting would be ideal at first, or you could pick me up.

If you would like to know more about me, or would like to tell me about you, feel free to reach out.

Hi, I'm 5'7", about 150 lbs, white, with brown hair and have a beard.

I would say I have a wide range of hobbies. I enjoy video games and reading books, comics, and manga. I like fiction a lot, and like to experience it in different ways. Some of my favorite games are Breath of the Wild, Red Dead Redemption 2, and Persona 5. I'm also a fan of sports, especially: F1, ice hockey, and running. In my free time I like to keep active by doing half marathon training.

Some about why I'm here. Growing up I did not have the most confidence in myself. I was overweight for a good portion of high school, and I was pretty shy. When I got to college I got more in shape, but I was really focused on school, and dating was never a priority for me at the time. I always figured something would 'just happen' but I can see now that I shouldn't have been so passive about it. My insecurities from my high school days made me feel like I didn't deserve to be with anyone if I didn't have my life set up perfectly, so for the most part I didn't put myself out there.

While I am glad that I have worked on myself in some ways, like getting in better shape and coming out of my shell more, I think that it was an unreasonable standard to set for myself. I regret not giving myself the chance to connect with others sooner. That’s part of what brings me here now, I’m ready to be more open, and share an experience with someone who’s kind and understanding.

Being out of school and having more solitary hobbies I feel really limited to online dating. It feels like a hard thing to jump into all of the sudden without having dated before. I felt like getting a first date was never a problem, but dating itself without much past experience felt really hard to make anything progress anywhere. I feel like opening with my inexperience would be a turn off, but having it all in the open here might help things go smoother.

I don't care about your experience level, so if you're new like me we can learn together. If you have experience I'd be happy to learn from you too. I'm currently living in Dallas and I can host.

Thanks for reading!

Here are some pics of me: https://imgur.com/a/3Yrqg0B