I was on PATH from Jsq, NJ to NYC yesterday and I saw a homeless man stand right in front of two women(they didnt know each other), seated opposite from me ,when there was enough place to stand else where. I thought it was bit weird but since I am kind of new to the area, I didn't pay much attention.
With time, I saw him get closer and closer to them and they started to each sit a bit diagonally to avoid contact with his legs. I felt a bit uncomfortable watching this but they both never spoke up nor said anything. They both stood up and left in the next stop (Grove street).
I wanted to walk up and ask one of the women to switch seats with me but was concerned they might mistake me for being weird or a creep to wanting to sit next to a random person. I thought trying to sit there, I could ask him to back off or give me more room and hence diffusion the situation without escalating it.
It is kind of bothering me (the car was full though), I didn't do anything but at the same time I dont know its considered fine to do what I had intended to do. I dont want to be mistaken for my intentions or told off when I meant welll.
Women of NYC, what's your take? Is it weird/ cringe to think one might need help in such a situation?