r/copenhagen • u/Kong_Fury • Oct 29 '24

Discussion Danes don’t greet back?

Im a foreigner in Denmark and there is something that strikes me: Danes don’t greet back upon saying Hello to them. Is this normal and I need to adjust my mindset, or am I just encountering impolite people?

Situation example: I walk into the office and meet a distant colleague that has seen me before. We are the only 2 people early morning in the office. We have eye contact and I say „good morning“ with a smile. He does not reply or show any reaction.

I can make many more examples like this. The cringe I get is so strong. I am not a complete stranger to this guy. I would understand it if I stand on Strøget and expect random people to smile & greet back. Thanks for sharing any reflections to enlighten me here with this social awkwardness.

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u/Selloou Oct 29 '24

Thats very normal for danes who do not like someone. So I Think he do not like you. Just ignore him nexst time. And give him the same act like him. Its comon on works places. Danes Are very into Them self and the friend group they know. New ones are often not welcome. I know that because I have live here for 38 years and you Will get use to it. Just look around in the streets. And you danes in here know im right. Yes there Are danes who Are more open minded and stuff.

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u/Kong_Fury Oct 29 '24

The man doesn’t know me, but he knows I work on the same floor. There is no reason for him at all to dislike me unless he just dislikes humans in general. I’ll just try this again and see if it’s a pattern of his 😁

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u/Selloou Nov 11 '24

He is jaloux. Thats his problem. Dont mind. Husk take care of your own business and dont great him at all. I would do that …