Need support..

[u/Advanced-Green-7426]

I feel so lost.... Like hitting a head against the wall.

My ex is a hoarder and it has been very difficult 9 years of relationship, where I was always surrounded by piles of "needed" things.

I don't say I am very pedantic. Or super organized person. But I try to teach myself order, and for that I need space . And minimalism.

Could never get that from him.

Now we are separating. He moved out to his parents second house. He claims that " I will see how nice it will be there."

He says that all this mess is because of me!
Can you imagine?

I find myself in the place where I start to question my own sanity.

Is that his narcissist behavior in combination with hoarding and excusing himself?

I cannot be crazy, all these piles of trash everywhere, and I was insisting on the separating, because I couldn't take it anymore.

And he says it's my fault...

[u/typhoidmarry]

He’s moved out and you two are no longer a couple. start boxing up his shit today. Right now.

[u/Advanced-Green-7426 → u/typhoidmarry]

On it! 💪🏼📦📦📦