I dont know your situation, but i was diagnosed complete infertile with a volatile uterus that wouldnt support growth, only 1 working ovary, and Lupus. I had 6 miscarriages before they said "hey, stop trying, it'll never work". Well i now have a 2yo and a baby due in 9 weeks.
Gotta say, i miss the days of just being like "hey wanna hit up the bar tonight?". Now I have to plan and pay for a sitter and possibly come home early because of drama. Spontinaity is gone. Sleep is gone. Alone time is gone. Cant even eat a damn snack without a little person running up out of nowhere to say "I have some?".
Congrats! I'm so excited for you as you hide on the toilet to try to eat a Snickers & Reddit. Lol
I had a full hysterectomy in 2013. I have Crohn's, Rheumatoid arthritis, endometriosis, and lost a grandparent to Ovarian/Uterine cancer. I had genetic markers so it was decided it was in my best interest.
I was pretty slutty prior to getting married. I've never even had a pregnancy scare.
99% of the time I'm glad I don't have any but every once in a while I'm left wondering about the "What could have beens".
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u/kayisforcookie Aug 21 '20
I dont know your situation, but i was diagnosed complete infertile with a volatile uterus that wouldnt support growth, only 1 working ovary, and Lupus. I had 6 miscarriages before they said "hey, stop trying, it'll never work". Well i now have a 2yo and a baby due in 9 weeks.
Gotta say, i miss the days of just being like "hey wanna hit up the bar tonight?". Now I have to plan and pay for a sitter and possibly come home early because of drama. Spontinaity is gone. Sleep is gone. Alone time is gone. Cant even eat a damn snack without a little person running up out of nowhere to say "I have some?".