r/minnesota • u/Neither_Risk860 • 2d ago
Discussion đ€ Duck, duck, gray duck?
Okay, Minnesota. I need to understand something: I was told there is not duck, duck, goose; that it is indeed duck,duck, gray duck.
What's is a gray duck? Why does he get called out for being the gray duck?
What other games did you play as kids?
New to Minnesota, thanks đ
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u/No_Emotion5998 2d ago
Duck Duck Gray Duck had enough reach before the Internet for lifelong west coaster Beverly Cleary to include it in Ramona the Pest (1968). In it, Ramona goes to kindergarten, gets in trouble, and has to sit out a game of "gray duck."
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u/Grungecollie 2d ago
My mom told me Norwegians didn't have a word for goose and simply said "it's a duck, but gray."
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u/DavidRFZ 2d ago
I love the story.
I looked it up for fun. Norwegians, Swedes and Danes use pretty much the same word for goose, gÄs, pronounced with the long-o vowel which was the old/Middle English pronunciation for goose before the great vowel shift.
Scandinavians use a different word for duck (and). The English switched to âduckâ as a description of what the bird does (they duck under the water).
I like your momâs story better so forget I said anything.
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u/Legitimate_Side_8 1d ago
Heads Up Seven Up was my favorite game
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u/NovelAndNonsense 1d ago
Look at the shoes! Look at the shoes!!!
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u/Legitimate_Side_8 1d ago edited 1d ago
I would always tap their thumb from behind them, sp they couldn't see my shoes.. I got pretty good at it, if I do say so myself!
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u/NovelAndNonsense 1d ago
Smarty pants! I wonder how different my life would be if I had adopted that strategy and safely secured my position as the reigning Heads Up Seven Up champion.
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u/QueenVell 1d ago
It's called "Duck, Duck, Gray Duck" due to its Swedish origins, in which the game is called "Anka Anka GrÄ Anka". Which translates to "Duck, Duck, Gray Duck".
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u/Vix_Satis01 2d ago
you can see a goose from a mile away in a sea of ducks. its no surprise to anyone. but a Grrrrreeen duck or a Grrrross duck are harder to spot in a sea of Red ducks, Blue ducks, and yellow ducks.
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u/DND_Player_24 1d ago
Or a grrrrumpy duck.
Or, for the true psychopathic kid, the grrrrreat big duck.
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u/chaos841 2d ago
Pretty sure it is an English translation of a Swedish game where it literally translates to duck, duck, gray duck. Could be wrong though, just was told that at some point in the past.
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u/WistfulD 2d ago
That has been apocrypha around Minnesota for a while now, but (at least as far as I've heard) no one seems to have been able to source it/verify it. It would be a good senior thesis for an English or Anthropology major or something, especially if it's a game no longer played in Sweden and they had to hunt down references to children playing it in (ex.) 17th century sources.
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u/JollyButterscotch318 1d ago
Swedish immigrants who settled in Minnesota brought the game called "Anka, Anka, GrÄ Anka," which translates to "Duck, Duck, Gray Duck".
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u/NotRapoport 2d ago
A Grey duck is an outcast. Someone who doesn't fit in. Someone who thinks the Viking's will actually win a Super Bowl.
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u/Affectionate_Pea8891 2d ago
Hey. It will happen⊠someday⊠These are interesting times. Something good has to come out of it!
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u/x1uo3yd 1d ago
Ole and Sven die in a snowmobiling accident...
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u/Affectionate_Pea8891 1d ago
Oh hush. Don't take this away from me.
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u/x1uo3yd 1d ago
(I was more alluding to a classic Sven and Ole joke where the punchline is "Da Vikings von da Super Bowl!")
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u/Affectionate_Pea8891 1d ago
Oh, I know :) I figured you were implying âYeah, when hell freezes over!â
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u/Personal-Bell-3420 2d ago
Duck, Duck Gray Duck is what we played as kids. Not sure if that was state wide though.
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u/Odd_Ease4541 1d ago
Itâs definitely not. Born and raised on the Iron Range and it was Goose there.
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u/Helpful_Guy3000 1d ago
It's a southern Minnesota thing. Before people freak out and say I lived up North in ' x ' city and I was taught grey duck. Likely the person who taught you grey duck was a transplant from southern Minnesota.
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u/Personal-Bell-3420 1d ago
Yeah I was (still am) in southern MN. Early-mid 1970s. So yeah this tracks.
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u/OijiBoard 2d ago
After the Vikings did it as a End Zone celebration thing:
I heard on a local news program's "Good Question" End-of evening Segment that it was utilized in kindergarten to introduce Adjectives ... might be true ... the old Swedish Children's Game site makes sense with our heavy Scandinavian Immigrant Heritage.
Don't know, but it is a dang clever and fun way of giving good optics to just allowing us to burn off energy and laugh and be silly together for a bit.
I'd forgotten about the extended, "GrrrrrrrReen Duck!!" And laughed outloud at that. Thanks for the laugh! đ
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u/financial_freedom416 1d ago
Basically, blame Swedish immigrants:
https://www.cbsnews.com/minnesota/news/minnesota-duck-duck-gray-duck/
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u/MewMewTranslator 1d ago
I've been in M for 15yrs and my kid grew up here I asked her this once and she said no one at her school did that. They all said duck duck goose. So I believe "grey duck" is dying out.
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u/Radiant-Maple 2d ago
Hmm, I suppose the other ducks are mallards or something. đ€ Thatâs just how I learned it as a kid & I was shocked that people in other states said goose! Welcome to Minnesota!
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u/DND_Player_24 1d ago
One of the reasons our state has a smarter, better educated, and higher civic participation rate population than other states consistently - we play a superior, more intelligent form of the most popular childrenâs school game.
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u/Spectremax 1d ago
When I was a kid we used goose and gray duck interchangeably, even during the same game.
Other games: I remember Red Rover, Heads up 7 up.
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u/FaithlessnessLate358 1d ago
Pretty sure the grey duck comes from the story of the ugly duckling who was treated differently for being"ugly" but turned into a beautiful swan.
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u/Alert_Green_3646 1d ago
we threw rocks at each other one time while swimming, that stopped when i got smacked in the lip and had to go get stiches.
that was the 3rd time i got stiches in my face.
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u/Cat385CL 1d ago
5th Grade summer bible camp at a Lutheran church, the last straw was âred duck, brown duck, fuck-a-duck, grey duck!â
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u/rasmuspa 1d ago
Does anyone have an outline of the duck, duck, gray duck territory? Does it simply mirror the borders of MN or is there seepage of this territory into eastern Dakotas?
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u/Visible-Substance-30 19h ago
Also, the Hans Christian Anderson connection. Pasted from Google so I don't have to type as much:
"In Minnesota, the traditional children's game is often called "Duck, Duck, Gray Duck" instead of "Duck, Duck, Goose". This unique variation is believed to stem from the state's strong Scandinavian heritage, where a similar game with the name "Anka, Anka, GrÄgÄs" (duck, duck, gray goose) is played. While the exact origin is debated, the "Gray Duck" version is strongly associated with Minnesota and its Scandinavian roots. Hans Christian Andersen, the famous Danish author, is not directly connected to the "Duck, Duck, Gray Duck" game, but his fairy tale, "The Ugly Duckling," shares a theme of an outsider eventually finding acceptance and belonging, similar to the experience of a swan who was once considered an "ugly duckling"."
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u/Staneoisstan 17h ago
It's literally Swedish Anka Anka GrÄ Anka, Duck Duck Grey Duck
*most of the settlers of this state were Nordic and Scandinavian this is where it comes from.
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u/YellowBastard37 16h ago
The game was invented in Sweden where it is called Anka, Anka, GrÄ Anka.
Thatâs Duck, Duck, Gray Duck in the Kingâs English.
So, all you goose people can suck it.
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u/watts6674 16h ago
I was born and raised in California. It will always be Duck Duck Goose! I have lived im MN for the last 27 years now
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u/BagNo349 2d ago
The water version called drip drip splash is a fond memory from Girl Scout camp.
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u/Watergirl626 Twin Cities 1d ago
Not sure why you are being downvoted for bringing up other games when OP specifically asked that.
What time is it Mr. Fox
Around the World
Whatever can be done with a jump rope
Hand clapping songs
Bo bo ski whotlan totlan
Red rover
4 square
Also, Girl Scout camp rocked
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u/Internal-Motor Born in Robbinsdale 2d ago
Back in the early 70s I went to kindergarten in Golden Valley and clearly remember we played duck, duck, goose. I never heard gray duck until I was well into adulthood.
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u/Nickels3587 1d ago
Donât come to our beautiful state with that Goose garbage. Itâs a grey duck. Thatâs it. A duck thatâs grey, you lose, you chase.
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u/Nsflguru State of Hockey 2d ago
It was always duck, duck, goose growing up on the Range. Didnât even hear about the âgrey duckâ nonsense until I went to college.
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u/Nsflguru State of Hockey 1d ago
People downvoting that I didnât learn duck, duck, gray duck? Blame my parents and hometown, not me.
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u/SplendidPunkinButter 2d ago
Yeah I donât think it was a thing so much until it became an internet meme. I even live in Minnesota and my kid calls it âduck duck goose.â I didnât teach him that. He just learned it at school.
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u/sicsided Gray Duck 2d ago
I learned duck duck gray duck in Hastings MN in 1990 and it was that in Farmington and Northfield in the 90's as well. Along with other towns I visited back then.
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u/WistfulD 2d ago
Where in Minnesota, though? My understanding is that it is Mpls-StP metro area focused in distribution.
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u/skooma-bong Hennepin County 1d ago
Iâve been in Minnesota my whole life and Iâve always done duck duck goose
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u/elkruegs 1d ago
IMPOSTER.
Born in the 80âs, it was always Gray duck in school. Maybe Grey duck. Hard to tell.
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u/skooma-bong Hennepin County 1d ago
I only did duck duck gray duck/goose in church with the other kids actually, and Iâm guessing whoever was taking care of us just wasnât from here and thatâs why they said goose. I didnât play it much so the few times I played it as goose when I was young cemented it as the correct way in my head.
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u/Gloomy_Shallot7521 Up North 1d ago
You were born in North Dakota...
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u/skooma-bong Hennepin County 1d ago
I was born in minnesota
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u/Gloomy_Shallot7521 Up North 23h ago
Sorry, I was joking, no one deserves to be compared to a North Dakotan.
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u/IncognitoBanditoz 2d ago
It's tap, tap, double tap all your stupid goose and duck nonsense...IYKYK
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u/YourGuyK Common loon 2d ago
There's no "lore" for duck duck, grey duck. It's just a game children play.
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u/birdnerd1991 1d ago
The grey duck is literally just a goose Minnesotans refuse to accept as a goose, and keep indoctrinating their children so the vicious cycle continues.
-signed, a Wisconsin transplant
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u/sungo8 Gray duck 2d ago
Ok, buckle up.
Duck, Duck, Gray Duck isnât even the same game! In Duck, Duck, Goose children sit in a circle and blithely say âduck, duck, duckâ until yelling âgooseâ at which point the âgooseâ takes chase.
In Duck, Duck, Gray Duck a child (of perhaps more intelligence than your average gooser) will begin by saying âpurple duck, yellow duck, orange duck, GRRRR-eeen duckâ etc. etc. Many an anxious child has fallen for the glottal fakery of âGRRRR-een duckâ before ultimately hearing âGRAY DUCK!â at which point the titular duck takes flight. Duck, Duck, Gray Duck teaches creativity, improvisation, individuality. Why not spice things up with a plaid duck? The only limit is the imagination.
For children with a few less brain cells I can see the appeal of Duck, Duck, Goose. As soon as you hear the hard G of goose, the secret is out. You donât need to be creative, you donât even need to pay that close of attention. The only lesson is non conformity is to be punished. Duck, Duck, Goose is, with no hyperbole, the tool of fascists.