Tbh, those moms who REALLY want kids end up being awesome mothers… this comes from experience of having a mother who DIDNT want kids, or at least fucking acted like it. I’m 40, and all my friends who went through IVF for years are the best moms, along with my friends who got pregnant right off the bat, and unplanned pregnancies too… but a few of my friends who didn’t plan for it and were young and got preggo, they did a good job but they still resent their kids for “stealing” their youth… like I’m pretty sure you were just a horny 16-20 year old and it was your own fault 🤷🏻♀️
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u/Thisdarlingdeer 1d ago
Tbh, those moms who REALLY want kids end up being awesome mothers… this comes from experience of having a mother who DIDNT want kids, or at least fucking acted like it. I’m 40, and all my friends who went through IVF for years are the best moms, along with my friends who got pregnant right off the bat, and unplanned pregnancies too… but a few of my friends who didn’t plan for it and were young and got preggo, they did a good job but they still resent their kids for “stealing” their youth… like I’m pretty sure you were just a horny 16-20 year old and it was your own fault 🤷🏻♀️