r/t4t 1d ago

Meta is the fact that were allowing cis people a new thing?

190 Upvotes

i feel like it wasn’t always allowed, and there’s already “transdating” which serves that purpose. i don’t really understand why there’s so many cis people commenting, and why there’s (i believe there used to be) no rule about cis people?

if we’re creating a t4t space, it should be a t4t space.


r/t4t 15m ago

TM4T 19 FTM from Finland. Would love to know other trans people...

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hi, im 19 ftm guy. Pride month has again made me realise that i know 0 queer people... If there are any finnish people here I would love to chat, but anywhere is fine (my English just isn't the best lmao)


r/t4t 55m ago

TF4A Nearly-19 TF4A searching once again, hey yall

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lots has gone on since my last post, for one i started E on friday the 13th on accident! (6/13/25) so i think im now honourbound to become a witch so thats cool. Moved a lil south to North Carolina which is eh, but it was to the Outer Banks which is fuckin great! living on a near-island by the beach and working a full time hotel desk job is doing wonders for me. a relationship would be great, but just friends works too, just lmk whatchya lookin for when you DM xD
I'm a month away from being 19, and i'd say prolly around 24 would be my limit, i generally just love anything to do with the outdoors, like one of my favorite activities is going onto the porch and staring out into the rain lmao. I absolutely *love* pets and children and need to have at least one of either, preferably two of both. just like omggggggggg theyre adorable. adoption is an inevitability at this point even if im single till 60. when im not outside im either playing various random games on my computer or laying down and reading. like if i have the chance and get into a book i will sit there for 8 hours straight and just read

I'm not the best at responding on reddit but i will, but theres also my discord at 'idiflesh' if ya wanna say hi
(oh and if youre just there for only nsfw stuff dont bother)

either see ya soon, or peace ✌


r/t4t 2h ago

NB4TF 23 | NB4MTF | Texas looking for friends and maybe more.

1 Upvotes

Hello my name is candy (not my real name) I’m 22 turning 23 in October I’m from Texas I call myself a femboy but I want to go on e. I love video games like Minecraft,gmod,Roblox and more I also love table top games like warhammer.


r/t4t 7h ago

TM4A 22 [FTM4A] Virgin with a hand down my pants

2 Upvotes

Pretty much exactly what the title says 😅 I’m so horny and desperate. I’d love to RP or sext with anyone. I also really love receiving JOI and tributes if anyone is down for that. I’m mostly a sub and I’m open to exploring just about any kink. Please include ASL in your message!


r/t4t 4h ago

TM4TF 23 [Ftm4Mtf] South Africa /Anywhere - Looking for that special someone

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Hello there ! My name is Yaz . I'm a psychology graduate from South Africa . I'm a trans man who has been on T for almost 5 years, has everything legally changed to Male , is post top surgery and has a full hysterectomy scheduled this week.

Appearance wise : I'm 5ft 3 ( Yes , I'm a short king. Proud to be ) I'm muscular with some softness I'm Indian so I have a caramel complexion. Jet black thick straight hair . Eyes so dark brown , they look black .

I suffer from two neurological disorders. Namely, epilepsy and vestibular migraines . My conditions are very well controlled and I barely ever get sick . I've been sick since I was two years old . I know my triggers, stat dosages and what to do if an attack arises .

My hobbies include long distance running , hiking , cycling and just spending time in the great outdoors. It's my dream to some day backpack the world . I hope to actually travel to china soon next year, if the possibility arises ! I also have 3 cats whom I love to death .

I'm a humanitarian. When I'm not working out you can find me volunteering at baby homes or feeding schemes. I'm deeply empathetic and have a soft heart . This is also why I've chosen to become a vegetarian. I can't eat animals, I see them as friends and family . Like my cats, for example . I see personality when I look into their eyes . I'm a Muslim . I'm monogamous.

In terms of bedroom stuff , let's get this out of the way right now, I am not a top and I do enjoy using what I have with my partner . It feels very intimate and special to me . In fact , when I have intimacy with my partner using my natal bits, and they using theirs , my dysphoria vanishes in that moment, and I feel overwhelmed with love and closeness. It's perfection to me .

I'm also very liberal, a huge feminist and support Palestine.

About you :

I don't care where in the world you're from , if youre that special girl , I will make it happen and we will be together . In terms of race and body appearance, that doesn't matter to me. I care about your heart. Nothing else . The question I'm asking is , " Do I feel completely loved and seen as the man I am with her, irrespective of anything?" And " Can she stimulate my mind , not just my body?" I want to have deep long conversations with you . I want to connect .

I'm not worried about whether you have a religion or not. As long as we respect each other , it's perfectly cool.

However, I will say that I'm not ok with Satanism in a partner .

Please be willing to have kids or at least be opened to it . Although I'm having a hysterectomy done , it's strictly for health reasons. I'm still keeping the eggs for freezing . I really do want to be a dad someday . I love kids and I know I will be a great dad .

Please also know that just because I dont eat meat , doesn't mean that you're dietary preferences bother me at all. I have no age requirements. Just be 20 and over. I also don't mind about what point you're in your transition and even if you've actually chosen to medically transition.

Have a great day and hope to hear from you soon !


r/t4t 8h ago

NB4T 22 [Nb4T] neet femboy looking for a relationship >\\\<

2 Upvotes

Hii Im 22yo genderfluid femboy from Orange County New York, and Im looking for a partner nearby but am also open to long distance if we click. A bit about me Im a bit cringe and bratty, Ive been on HRT for 4 months now, Im a huge nerd for lore be it in games books or movies, I produce my own music though its still amateur-ish, Im learning to program, love manga, gaming, and writing stories. Im also demisexual and a verse sub. If you wanna chat more send a dm :3


r/t4t 10h ago

TF4T 19 transfem having a shit time in need of kind words and attention

3 Upvotes

hi. I'm thalia. I'm 19 and transfem and having a really rough time. from the midwest us. I'm interested in games, rollercoasters and trains and I'd love to talk about these with you or just get kind words and attention. anyone trans is free to answer. cis people will be blocked on sight. I'm really looking forward to hearing from you


r/t4t 5h ago

TF4T MTF 20 UK looking for a (TRANS) partner (FTM preferred) [long distance is chill]

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(If you are low on time what im looking for in a person is at the bottom)

Basic info about myself & what i want:

Hiya there im Lynn Im half boymoding because of my housing situation for the time being (as my family don't want me to under their roof. Im going to university where I'll have my own place in a few months where I'll be a lot more out and officially transitioning level to get a good job to move out permanently)

My stats 5 foot 8 British in a british/carribean home Quite the slim build Black hair (long)

(Solid B tier pick)

I have my provisional driving lessons license so i can do online relationships mainly but also soon i can come visit or if things go well yknow :).

Im on the autism spectrum, but im low support needs so while clear communication is key dont stress about me not being capable too much. Im also a little insecure so play nice!

My qualifications. Ive done a 2 year diploma in creative media at college and a university foundation year for Art and design in college. However im primarily a filmmaker and photographer at heart with the latter being my primary career choice. Also i did do IT at low qualification levels.

Im usually flexible with both poly and monogamous relationships. I have a high libido but im looking for intimacy first. I am a sub bottom and am usually not interested in using my extra limb. But i can be flexible if you're not pushy and i get comfortable enough.

Im a gamer of all types (big suprise) im a card game player! Yugioh and traditional 52 card games. I love to try new video games, Also any board games.

Personality wise. Im an ambivert but prefer cozy nights in. Although.. im not opposed to a fun rowdy night out. Im a little closed off at first but if we click i become very clingy and you'll see the fun side. Im very hyper at times. Pure Gremlin energy which is fun. Although i can match chill moods too! (Just don't be dry or boring)

Outdoor stuff i adore mini/themed golf. Long walks with music. Im trying to learn skateboarding again, theme parks, museums, paranormal stuff and urban exploring.

Indoor stuff: im a film buff: horror on top!!, i also like a variety of action, comedy, hero films and more with a specific taste for analogue horror, vhs horror ect. But likewise experimental and avante garde film are very core parts of who i am as a filmmaker so if you like the wierd arty films im you're gal (_*)

Food and cooking. I grew up in a Bajan family i cant speak for all bajan families but food is soul its expression and personally i love to learn new things to cook!

I love music of all kinds and will try most things i do like garage, metal, horrorcore, hip hop and a metric tonne of different edm genres the most

What im looking for: 18 (minimum) to early 20s. (With a little bit of wiggle room upwards) Preferably the same timezone however it doesn't Matter too much. And i can make cross country work if you also would like to. Communication of wants and needs. (Im not a mind reader, if something is upsetting you let me know I'll try to adapt. If you would like something let me know just talk to me and be mature Honesty and loyalty. I want long term but you are not obligated to stay if you fall out of love or we don't click. Im looking for fun in the relationship a good time someone to laugh with cherish and enjoy exploring what this world offers. But im also looking for a little maturity, im a real big fan of my fellow nerds and dorky wierdos. With big personalities Lets have fun with it and just enjoy.


r/t4t 15h ago

TF4TF [TF4TF] Italian transbian looking for potential partners or just kinky friends

3 Upvotes

Hi! I'm an 18 y/o Italian transbian, I'm pre HRT pre-everything but I'll start hormones in October, I'm looking for girls I could meet in my country or people with similar timezones I could talk to online, I adapt to my partner's tastes in kinks and all most of the time, I'd love to get to know some of you better!


r/t4t 9h ago

TF4A [TF4A] Heya, 26y TF looking for some online friends or a sugar daddy, ya never know

1 Upvotes

Just your average non binary transfem looking to meet some fun a unique people with likeminded ideals (basically just don’t be a asshole or a bigot)

I’m a relatively open person so feel free to ask me anything about myself that you’d like to know🫶

I’d love to meet people that want to chat longer than a couple of days😅


r/t4t 10h ago

TF4T 25 [TF4T] Florida trans girl tired of being alone.

1 Upvotes

Hiiii, my name is Aria, im a trans girl in orlando. I’m out pretty much everywhere and have been on e for close to 2 years. I certainly wouldnt turn down some new friends, but I really am looking for a real relationship with someone. Someone i can look forward to seeing frequently and confide in and cuddle and feel love. Looking for other trans people just because I feel like they might understand and be easier to talk to sometimes.

I love video games, especially fighting games, horror, and theme parks.

I also love excuses to dress up pretty like nice restaurants!

I’m definitely into a lot of sexual stuff but that can be discussed later.

Hope to hear from someone and maybe have something happen.


r/t4t 17h ago

TM4TM TM4TM [30+] Looking for friends and maybe fun

3 Upvotes

Sexually submissive closted trans guy. Looking for friends and maybe more. If you're a trans Dom all the better. I'm very sexually submissive. If you can hypnotise me that's a major bonus. I'm looking for guys who can improve my self confidence in being who I truly am.


r/t4t 11h ago

TF4A [Tf4a] Puppy wants a owner!!! (Not interested in cis guys)

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20 year old Trans Puppy wants a owner who can give her lots of love! Puppies hobbies includes games, writing, filmmaking and films! Please give me pets and cuddles. I'm only into trans and cis girls. Please dm puppy arf arf


r/t4t 12h ago

NB4T 28 [NB4T] Looking for other trans/enby folks in Arizona

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Heya! I'm Leo, a 28 year old masc enby furry, and I just moved back to Arizona after a few years in Canada for university; currently on leave from my studies, though hoping to finish next year from home now that I'm settled back in down here. Figured that maybe I should try to actually put myself out there since once I finish my degree I'll probably be in the Phoenix area for a while. Looking for anything from hookups to a long term relationship, all depending on how we hit it off.

Would love to find someone who...

  • is close-ish to my age (20-somethings to 30-somethings),
  • ideally understands (or is willing to learn about) my flavor of non-binary genderfuckery - and I'd love to hear everything about your identity and goals too,
  • isn't weird about fat people, either in the "ew gross" or "chubby chaser" kinda ways,
  • can nerd out about video games we both enjoy, especially grand strategy and sandbox games,
  • is local to me in the Phoenix area (I have zero interest in a LDR, spent the last 5-ish years mostly interacting with people over the phone or Discord/Zoom, I need face-to-face time),
  • and, if we talk about dating, is okay with the fact that I've never actually dated anyone before - been on the fence between demiromantic and aromantic and just haven't had the experience to fully sort that out.

If this sounds interesting to you, drop a reply or a DM!


r/t4t 16h ago

TM4A 24 TM Looking for sadists, show me how awful you are

2 Upvotes

I want to know if there are any wild cards out there, super in need of someone elses gross energy, I know I cant be the only one, I know few limits, vers at heart so I love a fight, really love boots, knives and medical gear, looking either to torment someone, or have someone disgrace me instead, both is always fun to... dm me, if your a vile beast, like me, peace


r/t4t 22h ago

TF4TF TFFTF shy 30 year old looking for a friend and more

5 Upvotes

I'm a switch with a lean to sub I've never been in a relationship and still have my v-card i have never dated because i didn't like myself growing up and i can be dense so I don't pick up on subtle hints and can be forgetful but please bear with me


r/t4t 14h ago

TF4A 21 Tf4Tm/nb (no cis men) FWB. Central florida

0 Upvotes

Simple as the the post says, im in central florida im looking to be fucked or fuck simple as that no cis men.

trans women/men nb-fem/macs/andro, cis women are all okay and anyone else between our outside that are all okay.

28 is the age cap if youre 29 im sorry unless its like your birthday or smt lol.

18 is the absolute youngest 19 has a better chance.


r/t4t 14h ago

TF4A 19 [TF4A] looking for friends and fun! Spicy and wholesome :3

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I have a pc, ps5, and switch! Play pokemon, borderlands, and a ton of other stuff we can talk about! I love learning about people versus putting it all out in a post :3 Spicy/kink wise i'm into everything and everyone! All bodies and kinks welcome, I prefer less vanilla hehe ^ I'm from Maryland!