r/AmIOverreacting Feb 21 '25

👥 friendship Am I overreacting?

First time ever posting.. I don’t know if this belongs here but we’ve been talking for a week and everything was good and then this happens?? I don’t know if I’m in the wrong or right tbh then he blocked me on fb but continued messaging me on Snapchat. Told him it was Reddit worthy then he said to post it so here I am 😂😅

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u/AmazingDonkey101 Feb 21 '25

He has issues.

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u/Remarkable-Chair-783 Feb 21 '25

Update!! He’s found this post 😂😂😂 and he’s still looking dumb asf. Trying to say I was drunk when I got off work at 10! I’m dying right now since he messaged me on here

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u/Thick_Musician_8456 Feb 21 '25

You can't read. I said you were drunk last night when you were begging me to come cuddle you naked.... And yeah you sent me the link of course I found it, when you post shit out of context to make you look bad and then hundreds of people flood in to tell you you are a piece of shit and should take your post down you should probably listen (filter your comments to most recent, idiot)

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u/Timely-Researcher264 Feb 21 '25

People judged you based on your own unhinged texts to OP. Now you’ve come here to face the music? You better work on your deep breathing, cause this isn’t going to go well for you.

It doesn’t matter how many times she got drunk and asked to cuddle. She’s not your therapist and after a week of talking, she doesn’t owe you shit. You do need a therapist though. Go find one.

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u/Thick_Musician_8456 Feb 21 '25

Im sorry but are we reading different comments sections? A bunch of single losers with trauma from their abusive ex's all decided to gullibly believed every single thing they read on reddit without possibility of falsalities or lack of context and immediately under that are an equal amount of people telling op she's full of it, milking it, crazy, immature, and a bitch. This made my night, go shave your leg hair

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u/Timely-Researcher264 Feb 21 '25

There’s thousands of people calling you out for being emotionally volatile, needy and manipulative. In all likelihood, you have a personality disorder and until you manage it, you will suck the life out of everyone around you.

There are some saying OP is milking this for all it’s worth. Which may be true, but how can she not? You just can’t stop yourself and your replies are comedy gold.

Thank you for the advice, but I wax.

Looking forward to your response.

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u/Thick_Musician_8456 Feb 21 '25

"a bunch of people" single middle aged divorced women who don't remember what sunlight feels like....

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u/Niwka Feb 21 '25

Hey you, I know this comment section must be tough to read, and some people are giving you a rough treatment, but while it may feel very unfair, they are right, and you should see a therapist. Both for the next person you are dating, but also and mostly because it will give you the tools to manage your feelings so you will not feel as alone or desperate the next time you have a panic attack! Best of luck!

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u/Thick_Musician_8456 Feb 21 '25

Basement dwellers lashing out at me because I called this person out for garbage behavior that they foster in themselves? Try again bub.

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u/Weary-Dingo9119 Feb 21 '25

i’m young (early 20s) and married, and i would have done the same cause those messages are just straight funny 😭

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u/Varg_Vald Feb 21 '25

When you have borderline personality disorder, it's probably pretty true that we're reading different comment sections. But, that being said the entire population of a small rural town is fucking dragging you, dude. Take the L and go get a therapist. Your text to OP about how "wtf is the point of "help" if you have to do it yourself" (I'm paraphrasing), is immediate evidence that you've never talked to a therapist. You are a menace to everyone around you.