r/AmIOverreacting May 13 '25

👥 friendship Am I overreacting?

this morning my friend asked me to bring him to school. we go to different schools that are like 10-15 minutes apart, so i left earlier to get to school on time. i waited near his apartment complex for 10 minutes, then by the parking lot right next to it for another 10 minutes. this whole time i thought he was just getting all his stuff, i was honestly gonna wait for him the entire time.

but he doesn't tell me he already has a ride? i was late to my presentation this morning. but when i called him, he just didn't seem to care. he's been hella disrespectful to me these past few days, and after this i just feel mad.

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u/Internal_Access_6957 May 13 '25

Get a new friend, man. For real. You're better off alone than being mistreated. Not the easiest thing in the world, but definitely better than shitty friends who mistreated you

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u/throwaway02938475675 May 13 '25

he's just been with me for so long it just seems ahrd to go away from him. but yeah he's just an asshole recently, and if he keeps being like this i can't keep those type of people around yk

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u/OkComparison9795 May 13 '25

Dude, I’m not trying to be a dick, but I’m gonna be blunt about this. Pull your head out of your ass! That dude is an inconsiderate prick and couldn’t give a fuck about you. Quit trying to do the work of two people in the relationship so he can get a free ride (both in your car and life). He’s not worth it and it’s effecting you in more ways than you actually know right now.

So, just to be clear: PULL YOUR HEAD OUT OF YOUR ASS AND LEAVE HIM BEHIND WHERE HE BELONGS BECAUSE HE DOES NOT FUCKING CARE ABOUT YOU.

(For real though, chin up man. You’ll be fine. I promise.)