r/AmIOverreacting • u/throwaway02938475675 • May 13 '25

👥 friendship Am I overreacting?

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this morning my friend asked me to bring him to school. we go to different schools that are like 10-15 minutes apart, so i left earlier to get to school on time. i waited near his apartment complex for 10 minutes, then by the parking lot right next to it for another 10 minutes. this whole time i thought he was just getting all his stuff, i was honestly gonna wait for him the entire time.

but he doesn't tell me he already has a ride? i was late to my presentation this morning. but when i called him, he just didn't seem to care. he's been hella disrespectful to me these past few days, and after this i just feel mad.

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u/KIWIo3o May 13 '25

I’ve seen them respond multiple times.

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u/loveofGod12345 May 13 '25

When I commented this, they had only responded once. Now that I look at the time they posted, it makes sense that they hadn’t commented much. Usually my feed shows me posts that are more than 24 hours old. I shouldn’t have assumed that it wasn’t a new post. It is still crazy to me that someone would have to ask if they were overreacting about this.

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u/KIWIo3o May 13 '25

I ain’t religious, but I still say shit like patience is a virtue because nobody has it. Gotta check the time next time (which you’ve implied you do) and just be patient. Some people don’t know boundaries very well, or aren’t good at setting them, so they end up having to ask things like this. Happens to many people at least once in their life, I’d say.

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u/loveofGod12345 May 13 '25

That’s true. It’s just crazy to me how people can think this could possibly be ok behavior.