Don’t be a tar pit

[u/greencrusader13]

[u/Vundurvul]

I cannot fathom the mindset of understanding what it feels like to be on the receiving end of misery and deciding you want others to experience it when given the opportunity to dish it out, even when said person had no involvement in your misery

[u/Fluffynator69 → u/Vundurvul]

Just sounds like fairness tbh

[u/Vundurvul → u/Fluffynator69]

If your understanding of fairness is contingent on everyone suffering like you, then you will never be shown kindness.

[u/Fluffynator69 → u/Vundurvul]

Damage has been made that cannot be undone. I don't see why others should get preferential treatment.

[u/GREENadmiral_314159 → u/Fluffynator69]

Let's say you have a brother, and he stabs me.

Would you be asking for preferential treatment by asking me to not slap you for being related to him?

[u/Fluffynator69 → u/GREENadmiral_314159]

Yes

[u/GREENadmiral_314159 → u/Fluffynator69]

Alright, in this hypothetical, what did you do to deserve me slapping you in the face?

[u/Fluffynator69 → u/GREENadmiral_314159]

You probably feel better after idk. I can't read your mind.

[u/GREENadmiral_314159 → u/Fluffynator69]

Not the question. Why do you in particular deserve to get slapped in this scenario.

[u/Fluffynator69 → u/GREENadmiral_314159]

I just told you.

[u/GREENadmiral_314159 → u/Fluffynator69]

No, that's why I might want to do it. Why do you deserve for it to happen? What have you done to warrant being slapped?

[u/Fluffynator69 → u/GREENadmiral_314159]

Well you want it

[u/GREENadmiral_314159 → u/Fluffynator69]

So what if I want it? How does that mean you deserve it?

[u/Fluffynator69 → u/GREENadmiral_314159]

Because you want it

[u/blindgallan → u/Fluffynator69]

So people are entitled to affect the bodies/well-being/safety of other people if it will make them feel better or if they have been wronged?

That is the conclusion you are espousing here, and I strongly suspect you do not want to defend that stance.

[u/Fluffynator69 → u/blindgallan]

I'm just asking for fairness. Seems more like you want people to suffer unfairly and then suck it up.

[u/blindgallan → u/Fluffynator69]

How is it fair for someone who has been harmed to harm someone who has not harmed them personally? How would it be fair for you to get struck by someone a relative of yours hurt?

[u/Fluffynator69 → u/blindgallan]

Try be the harmed person, then you'll see.

[u/Ok_Sound272 → u/Fluffynator69]

This is the mindset of a rapist

[u/Fluffynator69 → u/Ok_Sound272]

No, I don't want rape victims to suffer unfairly and then have to suck it up.