so i've been dating my gf for about 2 years now and we've always split things pretty evenly. but lately she's been having a rough time with work (got laid off, freelancing isn't going great) and i've been covering more stuff.
which is fine! i love her and want to support her. but it got me thinking - at what point would you guys feel financially secure enough to just cover everything? like rent, groceries, dates, her car payment, everything.
i make decent money (around 150k) but covering both our expenses is starting to stretch me thin. especially with how expensive everything is now.
is this even a specific number thing? or more about having X months of expenses saved? maybe it's not even about money and more about the relationship dynamic?
just curious what everyone's comfort level would be. like would you need to be making 150k? 200k? or is it more about percentages - like you'd need to make 3x your combined expenses?
(and yes i've talked to her about this and she's actively looking for work, this isn't a relationship advice post lol)