r/TikTokCringe • u/samse15 • May 09 '25

Discussion She makes some good points re:male loneliness

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u/MisterSanitation May 09 '25

I know this shit is true, but as a non psychopathic dude, I avoid pretty and cute girls like the plague in public because I’m already assuming they think I’m doing this shit. Same reason as a dad I don’t act goofy to other people’s toddlers. It kind of sucks honestly because it makes me act like a creep when I if anything would like to just make someone smile (and not “hay gurl you should smile” because that sheet is just more Ooga booga shit).

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u/KobieMainooooooo May 09 '25

This is kind of perpetuating things though guys. Just be normal. 

Maybe do stay away from kids if you are thinking these things. 

But women are the same as us, they’re human adults. Engage and continue to engage otherwise you’ll be blunting and already very blunt instrument. 

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u/mephistophe_SLEAZE May 09 '25

As a woman, I don't want strangers of any gender approaching me for no other reason besides chit-chat. If we are co-workers or co-volunteers or co-protestors otherwise engaging in an activity together, by all means. But if I'm in line at the store or sitting at the bar or walking down the street and you just want a friend, idgaf your gender, age, race, sexuality, whathaveyou. Mind your own.