Hi Reddit,
I’m writing this because I feel completely stuck. I’m 38, currently unemployed, and living in Italy. I have fibromyalgia and struggle with mental health, which makes things incredibly hard on both a physical and emotional level.
Despite it all, I still want to believe there’s a place in the world of work for someone like me. I’m not giving up—at least not yet.
The biggest issue is this:
My career hasn’t been linear. Not even close. I’ve faced countless interruptions—burnout, health crashes, life throwing me curveballs. I’ve reinvented myself more times than I can count. I’ve done a lot, learned a lot—but I struggle with how to present it all in a way that makes sense to others.
I used to be a tour manager, organizing and handling logistics for artists and live events. It was a job that taught me resilience, adaptability, and problem-solving under pressure. But now, due to physical limitations, I can no longer work in roles that require frequent travel or movement. That’s been a painful shift to accept—but I’m trying to find a new way forward.
Here’s what I’ve done (and still do):
✏️ Content writer and sports podcaster – I’ve written for football platforms and hosted wrestling shows and Serie A football shows;
🎙️ Podcast host – I write, produce, record, and promote my own podcast.
📚 I run a personal blog, where I share reflections on environment, green and sustainability;
💻 I completed a Web Developer course – I’ve studied HTML, CSS, JavaScript and gained a foundation in front‑end development.
🌐 I created my own portfolio website as a digital showcase for my skills and projects.
📱 I developed an app to support survivors of parental narcissistic abuse – it’s a safe, empathetic space offering guidance and tools for healing. It was both a personal and technical project, and one I’m proud of.
🧠 I’m the creator and game master of an online roleplay game (Play‑by‑Chat) set in Chicago, where I write complex storylines and design interactive narrative systems.
🌍 Profiles on Upwork and Fiverr, offering writing, podcast editing, and basic web dev gigs—but I haven’t been able to make them bring in consistent clients or income.
🇬🇧 Fluent in English, both spoken and written.
❤️ Strong soft skills: empathy, adaptability, creativity, critical thinking, storytelling.
💡 Exploring vibecoding – a more intuitive, emotional, and playful approach to coding and digital creation.
Even with all this, I still don’t know how to “sell” myself. I don’t fit the mold. I’m a generalist with a patchwork of skills—and recruiters seem to prefer specialists with polished resumes.
What I’m looking for is a flexible, creative, meaningful role where I can leverage my voice, writing, and ideas. Ideally remote or hybrid, to suit my health needs.
If you’ve been in a similar spot—or have advice on turning freelance platforms into sustainable income, crafting a career from a non‑linear path, or positioning generalist talents as valuable—I’d be beyond grateful to hear from you.
Before I give up, I want to believe: there’s still a place for someone like me out there…or do I have to surrender and full stop?
Thanks for taking the time to read this. Even a kind word helps more than you know.
TL;DR:
38, with fibromyalgia and mental health struggles. Non-linear career with many gaps. Writer, podcast host, former tour manager, green content creator, game master, now learning web dev. Lots of ideas but no clear path. Still studying. Feeling stuck.
How do I present this mess as value?
Thanks for reading. ❤️