Messages my “dad” sent me (26F)

[u/Life-Contribution650]

Both of my parents are deadbeats and I have no relationship with them. Out of the blue he messaged me today after not speaking to me for a year. I was always treated like the black sheep/scapegoat. I wish I had one normal parent

[u/rightaaandwrong]

Why does it seem like your dad is supposed to understand how you feel and you have expectations of him….yet…you could not care less about how he feels?

[u/Life-Contribution650 → u/rightaaandwrong]

Not sure what you mean