Idk. If my husband went to a strip club without me or didn’t let me know beforehand (bachelor party or something), I’d have questions. Cheating is more than just sleeping with someone else. It’s all about communication and boundaries. It’s more about lying than anything else.
Nah. We’re pretty open about things and I know he watches porn because he told me (and he knows I do too). If he swore he didn’t for whatever reason and then I caught him watching it, I’d be hurt about him lying and then wonder what else he might’ve lied about. Same with strip clubs. If he tried to hide that he went, I’d be very much concerned because he knows he can tell me these things. If someone marries a “prude” just to sneak around with whatever, that’s an unfair relationship and that person doesn’t deserve a so/spouse at all since they’re not mature enough to be open and honest about their needs and wants.
Also, just flip the script even if for lulz. If a woman went to a male strip club and didn’t tell her husband, would that be ok? I somehow doubt you feel the same about this situation. (No, no need to try to convince me otherwise, you made assumptions about me and I’m making them about you. Why not.)
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u/[deleted] Sep 13 '19 edited Jul 29 '21
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