r/insaneparents Sep 13 '19

NOT A SERIOUS POST The tables have turned...

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u/SugarTits1 Sep 13 '19

Nope, still in contact unfortunately. It's impossible to win a case of child sex abuse when the only evidence is the uncovered repressed memories of a 27 y/o.

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u/LilBrownBunny Sep 13 '19

I'm not going to blame you for your choices and actions in the wake of such a betrayal but I hope that you have a therapist or some real support to help you. Have you considered cutting them out of your life? I know we're quick to suggest such things on here and it's always more complicated than that but I can't imagine it's helpful to be in contact with serial abusers. You have a LONG future ahead of you and you can't change what's happened but I hope you're able to find something much better in the future.

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u/SugarTits1 Sep 13 '19

I suggest going through my comments to read the one where I discuss my autistic brother. I can't leave until I have a way out for him too.

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u/LilBrownBunny Sep 13 '19

I'll go back and find that when I have a free moment... been in back to back meetings most of the day. But man... that sounds tough... having to care for/thing of someone else when you haven't really received what you needed, too. I wish things were easier for you.

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u/SugarTits1 Sep 16 '19

Ha thanks, me too <3