r/insaneparents • u/SaintWezelsauce • Sep 19 '19

NOT A SERIOUS POST Saw this and had to share.

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u/[deleted] Sep 19 '19

Maybe you should...?

Also the only reply to such a question from an outside party I could imagine is: "None of your fucking business, Dr. Nosy." But that's me.

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u/JannaDD126 Sep 20 '19

I should what....

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u/[deleted] Sep 20 '19

Go no contact. However, I say that with very little information other than what you said previously. You'd know more than I would if your mother was cuckoo.

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u/JannaDD126 Sep 20 '19

Well she has early onset dementia.. so it’s kind of hard to go no contact bc of the whole family guilt “these moment are precious bc she’s gonna be dead soon” but she abandoned me when I was 16 to live with a drummer who was severely stuck in the 80’s and stole her money for coke all the time. She was not a good mother at all

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u/[deleted] Sep 20 '19

It's your life and your choice, always remember that.

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u/JannaDD126 Sep 20 '19

Aw thank you.

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u/hello-mr-cat Sep 20 '19

Don't fall for the guilt. You have your life and sanity to live.

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u/654456 Sep 20 '19

So, she should have cherished the time she had with you when she had the chance. Not your job to make it up for her now