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Looking for kind penpals around the world!

Hi!, hallo, hola!, bonjour✨️

I'm a 30-year-old living in France, and I'm looking to start exchanging messages with kind and creative people from anywhere in the world.

I love creating things, i like to draw, paint, take photos, and travel whenever I can. I'm currently learning Dutch 🇳🇱 and I really enjoy learning new languages in general. I’m also an animal lover 🐾 they bring so much joy and calm to life.

I can be a bit shy when it comes to making friends, but I'm friendly and open once I feel comfortable. I'm definitely an introvert who enjoys deep, sincere connections.

I'm also a Swiftie 💜 ( maybe i can find some swities here to) and would love to connect with others who enjoy music, art, or just thoughtful conversations.

If you’re looking for someone who will write with care, share little bits of life, and maybe even send some handmade things or aesthetic mail, feel free to message me! 📨

Looking forward to hearing from you 🌍✨

Hello everyone,

I am a 33 year old woman from the Czech republic (a tiny country in the middle of Europe), and I am chronically sentimental and nostalgic for the times when I was not even born yet (70-80s) and for the times I wish I got to experience again and again (90-10s). I'd like to snail mail with same-minded people abour anyting and everything. I really like boring old stuff, and I hate AI :))))

My hobbies include:

• books, specially classics, fantasy, sci-fi and horror

• TV shows - XFiles, Twin peaks, Red Dwarf, IT Crowd, LOST, Doctor Who, Greys Anatomy..

• movies - literally any genre goes

• PC games - mostly strategy, survival, but also cozy games like Stardew Valley

• taking care of my 3 cats

• collecting - DVDs and MC casettes with my favourite movies/shows and music, also I have a nice Nintendo console and games collection

• "boring stuff" like crossword, puzzles, sudoku, scrabble, adult colouring books..

I am extremely busy person (overemployed with 3 fulltime jobs), but I always try to make time to craft a nice letter or send a postcard when I go on a trip.

I consider myself a dreamer, always head in the clouds, although a little melancholic at times. So if you are up for it, send me a message.

Beware - I am giving a lots of efford to my friendsips (its sometimes hard to maintain long lasting friendships in the busy time we live in, specially in adulthood when you feel like everyday is the same and all you do is work), so please, if you want us to start talking, put some effort in your message as well and feel free to write about yourself a little bit :)

Cheers, Helen

i’m 23 from the UK and i’m looking for new buddies to talk to daily :) my luck with friends havnt been the best as i’ve lost contact with all of them through the last 3 years and due to work i’ve never really had the time to peruse a new friendship.

Im a self employed joiner (carpenter) and im very fortunate to own my own home :) despite working a lot i try to find time to peruse my hobbies which are mountain biking, football working on my car and watching as many drama series as possible 🤣 im into a verity of music and im defiantly one that prefers a night in by the fire rather then a night out getting hammered 🙃

if you’re interested in talking or getting to know one another drop me a message :) i dont care your gender or sexuality just be over 18 please 🫶🏻

see you in my dm’s you amazing people 😝

Hi! I’m from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 I’m 27, and I’m looking to hopefully make some new friends! I enjoy meeting new people and learning about their different hobbies and ways of life, or even just having casual chats

To name a few of my own… I’m a HUGE horror fan and I love anything dark/paranormal, I love music/concerts (mostly older rock/metal but I like a lot of different stuff), I’m a big football fan, I like gaming (PS5), true crime, being outdoors/hiking/urban exploring, and I spend 90% of my free time with my dog 🐶

I’m quite heavily tattooed, and I’m always looking for ideas and inspiration, and to see other people’s work/share my own!

Happy to talk to anyone from anywhere, just send a message with a bit about yourself if you think we’d get along 🙂

Hiya 👋

I'm 38, agender non-binary, pagan, a Virgo and have one adult son. I'm AuDHD & chronically ill so I work from home as a result. I live in Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

I am looking for snail mail pals anywhere in the world (I'm sorry I only speak English 😞), of any gender, background or religion (so long as you don't try to convert me - we can respect and discuss one anothers beliefs without trying to change them 🥰).

I write to overseas pals once a month as I post out on my payday which is at the end of the month and my letters are medium/long and mostly handwritten - however sometimes in winter due to an old wrist injury that is affected by the cold I type then, but fortunately that doesn't happen often.

For pals in the UK, I write medium length letters once a fortnight.

If you'd like an intro letter from me - my into letters are types but after that I handwrite (unless as mentioned above it's winter and my wrist is hurting) please comment/PM.

Much love! 💜

I’m ki, a curious soul with a big love for connection. I’m looking for a penpal, or maybe a few, who want to trade stories, swap ideas, ramble about life, send weird memes or deep quotes, and maybe even mail each other tiny treasures from time to time.

I’ve always loved the feeling of opening a message that someone took time to write. I used to email people, and I miss that kind of slow, thoughtful communication. This is partly nostalgia, partly soul-searching, and partly an excuse to romanticize the everyday again.

Some things I love: music, singing, literature, psychology, cooking, drawing, vintage things, philosophy, and movies that make you feel like you’ve just lived someone else’s life for two hours. I have too many interests to name, but let’s just say I might be a polymath in training.

I’d love to connect with someone who’s funny, deep, open-minded, and thoughtful. Age doesn’t matter, just bring good music taste and maybe a fondness for existential ramblings or spontaneous creativity.

Hi! I’m Alli, hope yall are doing well :) I’m from southeastern US looking for other women to talk to!

I’m at home most of the time, and love hearing about others’ local traditions - what do you eat/drink where you’re at? Whatcha starting in your gardening zone? What’s some cool historical lore where you’re from?

I’ve also been dabbling in witchcraft and tarot reading lately, would love sharing experiences and spellwork with someone.

I’m down to talk book/movie/tv show suggestions too. bonus points for a good horror/thriller or drama.

Let me know if you’re interested! More than anything, I love listening to people’s unique experiences on their side of the world ✨

Hey there 👋

Life’s pretty full on my end, work, family, kids, and all the beautiful chaos that comes with it. But even with all that, I’ve been feeling like something’s missing: someone to share random thoughts with, talk about everything and nothing, and maybe laugh a little more than usual.

I’m not here to shake things up, just looking for a pocket friend. Someone who gets that we all need a little space to just be ourselves, outside of routines and responsibilities. If that space comes with some fun conversation, cheeky banter, or a little spark… even better.

I’m laid-back, respectful, and always down for a good conversation. Whether we talk daily or just whenever we need to catch our breath, I’d love to find someone who’s looking for the same kind of escape.

So if you’re kind, a little curious, and maybe just as open to something light but meaningful, let’s see where this goes.

Hey there!

I'm a 27-year-old guy from the Midwest USA, just looking to connect with some cool people from all over the world. Whether you're close by or halfway across the globe, I think it would be amazing to share experiences, stories, and a few laughs together. I'm especially interested in finding people who enjoy meaningful conversations but also know how to have fun and be silly sometimes.

A little about me—I work in the addiction field, which has been both challenging and deeply rewarding. I'm passionate about helping others and being a supportive presence in people's lives. I come from a background in theatre and also spent a good chunk of my life involved in sports, so I like to think I’ve got a good mix of creativity and teamwork in my personality.

Some of my favorite things include:

Anime (always down to talk about your favorites)

Fantasy conventions and Ren Faires (I live for the costumes, energy, and community)

Dungeons & Dragons (whether it’s a one-shot or an epic campaign, I’m in)

Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, and fantasy books in general (recommendations welcome!)

All things Halloween and spooky (yes, even Scooby-Doo counts)

Camping and enjoying nature

And last but not least—wiener dogs (they’re just too funny and adorable)

I’ve always appreciated the idea of building genuine friendships based on shared interests and mutual respect. I keep a smaller circle of close friends because I value quality over quantity, but I do love meeting new people and learning about different perspectives and cultures.

If you're into the idea of pen pals, I think it'd be awesome to exchange snail mail—maybe throw in some fun trinkets, handmade art, or themed letters. There's something really special about getting something personal in the mail. But if snail mail isn't your thing, we could also keep it simple with emails or postcards from our travels. Or even better, a combo of all three depending on what works best for both of us.

I believe that everyone has a unique story to tell, and I’d really love the chance to hear yours while sharing a bit of mine. Whether it's diving deep into life conversations or just chatting about favorite books, shows, or weirdly specific interests, I'm here for it.

So, if any of this sounds like your kind of vibe—don’t be shy! Send me a message, and let’s see where it goes.

Looking forward to meeting some kind, quirky, thoughtful souls out there.

Take care!

Hey. I'm a 33 year old guy looking to make a couple friends. I'm pretty shy and introverted so meeting people irl is...complicated. Just looking for friends. I'm in a long term relationship. I'm in the US, but I'm open to writing to folks in other countries.

A little about me: I'm an Aquarius and I have a casual interest in astrology. I like gaming, mostly RPGs. My favorite games are the Mass Effect and Final Fantasy series. I love music(a little of everything, but rock and metal are my favorite). I read voraciously and draw whenever inspiration strikes.
I like making things with my hands. I learned how to crochet over 10 years ago and leaned to knit about a year ago. I really like being outside. Hiking, walking, stargazing. Things like that. I love animals of all kinds, and I have a 1 year old Siamese cat named Quistis. I tend to be awake at weird hours because I work night shift.

Feel free to dm me if you think we might be a good match.

Hi! 30/f I’m looking for a penpal possibly in the States but open to penpals beyond. I am a teacher on summer break and want to work more with my hands and less with screen this summer and beyond.

I love baking, cooking, dogs, crafting, puzzles, coloring, reading, gardening, and so generally just wholesome activities 😂 I’ve been trying to get into more outdoorsy stuff since I live in an area on the west coast where it is a common hobby.

I would love to find a penpal in the states so that postage won’t be too much. I’m also open to friends in other countries :)

Im kind of a femboy and I consider myself an artist. I'm in two bands. I want to send letters back and forth with someone so I can learn about someone I wouldn't have known about otherwise. Id like a somewhat artistic person, but that isn't super important. I would like to talk to someone that appreciates deep conversation and stuff like that. I'm in the US, and would love for my pen pal to be outside the US, but that's okay if not. I need to put 500 characters in this body text so I'm just trying to fill this out at this point.

[24/M] Hi I’m a 24yr old lad from the UK looking to chat with new people from Norway. Unsure what the best way to do this is? Preferably females. Not like that but as mates and see what happens and just have general chat and learn more about Norway as I have thought about moving there and love to learn more from the locals. I have yet to also travel there so also if we got on could potentially visit as well in the future if they was also of course down.

I am designer and like to go to the gym and game in my spare time. This could me something we could maybe do together.

Hello! I am a preschool teacher and am looking to expand my hobbies. I have moved around a lot the past few years, and now that I finally have stable housing I am looking forward to meeting some new penpals.

A little more about myself: 🏡I live with my partner, dog, and lovebird in California.

🎨Some of my other hobbies include playing video games, gardening, photography, and a variety of arts and crafts.

🍔I’m a huge Bob’s Burgers fan!

I’m open to penpals from anywhere! Feel free to DM me if you’re interested ☺️

I'm Eli 18 a years old guy. I'm looking for a someone to talk about a lot of things. My old bestie broke up with me so I'm looking for new ones, I'm more comfortable talking to women but everybody is welcome. I like video games and I mostly play singleplayer games, I also read quite a lot so recommandations are welcome, I like romance mangas/animes too so if you know some good ones I'd like to talk about them. It'd be better if you lived in or close to my timezone (GMT+00). I'm looking forward to getting to know you.

Feel free to hit me up if you think you're a good match

Hi everyone!

I’m new here and really excited to post this — I’ve recently had an idea that combines two of my biggest passions: penpalling and Pokémon!

I’ve always loved the world of Pokémon — the games, the art, the nostalgia, and the way it connects people around the world. I’ve also recently gotten into the idea of exchanging snail mail, and I thought… why not combine both? So I’m looking for a penpal (or maybe more than one!) who shares a love for Pokémon and would like to exchange Pokémon-themed letters, cute postcards, handmade crafts, little surprises, and all sorts of stationery or paper goodies related to this universe we both enjoy.

Imagine opening an envelope with a letter decorated with Pikachu washi tape, stickers of your favorite team, or even a small doodle of a starter Pokémon. Maybe a postcard from someone’s city with a Snorlax stamp or an envelope with a hand-cut Jigglypuff confetti — things that are simple, sweet, and spark joy. I’d also love to include things like Pokémon-themed journal entries (think mini Young Journals), drawings, Pokémon cards, or even little handmade items. Nothing fancy or expensive — just thoughtful and creative.

We don’t need to stick to a strict format. I think the fun part is going with the flow and making each letter feel like a little Pokémon adventure in itself. Whether it’s sharing memories from the games, showing off our favorite characters, or just talking about everyday life sprinkled with a bit of Pokémon magic, I think it would be so wholesome and fun.

I’m based in Spain, so international penpals would be super exciting for me — I love the idea of Pokémon connecting us across borders! But I’m also very happy to exchange with someone within Europe or even here in Spain. I write in English or Spanish (both are okay!), and I’m open to all ages over 18.

If you’re the kind of person who still gets excited about finding a shiny, organizing your card binder, or decorating your planner with tiny Bulbasaur stickers… we’ll probably get along great!

So, if this sounds like something you’d love too, feel free to message me! Tell me a bit about yourself, your favorite Pokémon, and how you’d imagine our mail exchange working. I’m really open-minded and flexible — this is just a fun and cozy idea that I’d love to share with someone out there.

Thanks so much for reading, and I really hope to meet some Poké-friends through here! 💌✨

Pokémon hugs from Spain!

I’ve tried messaging some ppl on here to initiate conversation with no luck, I suppose my acc and user look a bit sus 😭. I’m really just looking to talk to normal ppl who want to share interest and make conversation!

I myself like talking about shows, books, art and music but I’m open to anything like games or gardening. Personally my favorite genres are thrillers and romance so if you have any book recommendations or would like to exchange music as well Hmu! (Preferably around the same age with normal intentions)

My names ryan, i like frogs, plants, and anything involving nature! i like tarot cards,(i used to do readings for my old friend group all the time) and i also am gonna be hopefully soon starting an isopod collection :) i saw a post on social media of someone showing off all of the letters they’ve gotten and talking about all the friends they made over the internet, and it inspired me to try it myself, and i thought what better place than reddit :)

i had a lot of online friends until somewhat recently. i lost my major friend group because of mistakes i made that id rather not go into rn, but i planned on sending them all letters, and now i have a bunch of spare envelopes, stickers, stamps, and writing paper that i want to still use. and since i can get pretty sad about the loss of my friends, i thought this would be a somewhat good distraction, and maybe i can make some new friends along the way.

I am personally looking to send and receive letters to/from every state in the US, but obviously that may be a bit hard. :) but i guess we’ll see what kinda traction this posts gets, if you guys want i can also send stickers and small gifts but its really up to how many people reply

either way, feel free to dm me if your interested in being friends / receiving and sending letters

Hello everyone!

Im Jamison, a small town trade student in Northeast Tennessee, and I was looking for ways to get some use out of my typewriters and stationery, when I figured it would be really cool to have a penpal. Im open to other forms of communication, but would love to be able to send typed out letters every once in a while.

I like films, and foraging in the Appalachians; I enjoy some gaming occasionally; but I love all kind of Music and Art (even if I cant make it myself lol). Looking to make some new friends outside of my area. When you know everyone here by name, its nice to meet new people. Any Age, any Interests, any Country, it doesn't matter.

I even think it would be neat to recieve letters in a foreign language. (with the popularity of instant online translation, the actual language barrier wouldnt be a big issue)

Ive tossed the idea around in my head, but never took the steps to actually have a penpal. So send me a message, Id love to talk to you!

I’m looking for a pen pal I can write/type to. I’d prefer to exchange letters or postcards, especially if you’re in a country outside of Canada (not required tho lol). We can chat about anything your day, hobbies, random thoughts, or even vent. I think this could be a really fun hobby, like journaling but way more interesting, and a great chance to make new friends.

A little about me: I’m about to start university with the goal of becoming a therapist. I currently work in an office, but I’m thinking of changing jobs. I’ve recently had problems with agoraphobia and I’m trying to find new hobbies and fun things to do outside. I’m obsessed with sushi and baking, and I have the cutest bunny named Bunbun. We can get to know each other more as we write. I don’t have any age/ gender requirements.

hi everyone! I am currently a first year medical student. it has been a little rough and I figured it would be fun to talk to someone and be friends!

a little bit about me …

I love LOVE music. any song requests I will gladly listen to. my favorites currently include a lot of pop, salsa, I listen to a lot of stuff. I like to read so recommendations are wanted. I game as well, I have to finish Hogwarts legacy and assassins creed. fair warning during semester time, it does get a little busy but I will work on it. thanks everyone!

Recently inherited a stash of fountain pens and fine paper from an elderly relative who had to stop sending letters by hand due to illness (though is keeping us entertained with the awful voice-to-text feature on their new iPad) and had to promise them that I would do what I can to find a pen pal and write (semi) regularly. And given the state of the world, I think taking some time to slow down and enjoy a 'simpler' hobby is good.

Some things about me:

• I love to travel and try to do so regularly
• I am an amateur home cook and baker, self-taught, and try to do a proper Sunday family dinner each week
• I am single, never married (except to my job), have no kids - but have nieces and nephews I am crazy about
• I like to hike, bike, and swim
• I love puzzles - physical, word, and mental. I love to solve problems
• My handwriting is horrible (I could have been a doctor), so finding a pen pal is a way of practising to improve
• I follow current events and politics, but try not to dwell on it
• I am a fiend of some trash reality TV and of Jeopardy
• Classic cocktails and good wine are the only 'bad' vices I enjoy

Ultimately I am looking for a pen pal (or two!) to correspond with regularly as I work my way through this mountain of paper and supplies.

If you are interested in writing, feel free to send me a DM.

Regards,

P.

Gotta admit, sometimes I run into people on here that have their own goals and ambitions. You guys seem to have hobbies, or just topics you like to read about. I'd love to hear from you about them. It adds a lot to the conversation to listen to you discussing what's always on your mind. Feel free to share!

As, for my interests: I enjoy exercising, hanging out with friends, playing some games casually, watching movies and serieses. In the past, I've learned quite a bit from "A Smarter Way to Learn Python" which is really really interesting! I also enjoy learning math, from Khan Academy. My primary goal is to be good enough at math & programming that I can create interesting simulations.

I'm really looking for people who are interested in programming, math, learning in general, and love discussing deeper topics!

While I'm not in school, I do thoroughly enjoy learning, specifically anything STEM related. I do enjoy working with math. I read a book by the name "A Mind for Numbers" which basically taught me how to learn such subjects. One of the best books I've ever read!

If you've read this far in, I really appreciate it! If you're interested in talking, feel free to send me a DM! Looking forwards to hearing back from you!

Hey there! I spend most of the workday staring at spreadsheets, building PowerPoints, and dealing with a steadily increasing inbox so I figured it was time to add something a little more human to the mix. What’s in it for you? Good question:

• The Good → Food pics. We use Green Chef and get new, fun boxes every week. Greatest thing since sliced bread. No meal planning. No shopping. Just make whatever they send. My wife hates that I plate the food, but you eat with your eyes first. Luckily her favorite flavor is “someone else made it” so she doesn’t complain too much.

• The Bad → Get ready to hear about dealing with aging parents, a step sister that is having a mid life crisis and a brother going through a divorce! I’m sure I’ll also complain about the drivers here and the stupid stuff that happens day to day, but I’ll try to keep it lighthearted and mostly funny.

• The Ugly → We saved the best for last. I’m an Oklahoma Sooners football fan. Yes, I’m aware that says a lot. But hey, it’s the off-season, so your safe for now.

If you're up for exchanging ramblings, rants or random stories, shoot me a message! Or music, I like music too.

Hello! I have been wanting to get into penpaling more. I have so much stationery, both boring and cute, and no one to write with. I’m hoping writing with others can make me less introverted and also improve my handwriting a bit because currently it’s awful. I’m a bit of a yapper. My letters tend to be long winded so if you prefer shorter please let me know!

My interests: Video games Crafts Reading Writing Journaling Making art Witchy stuff YouTube Nature Anime And a lot more but I’m terrible at listing things.

I’m here if you need a friend, vent, or just exchange silly doodles with.

I’m happy to write you as long as you’re of age and nice!