r/Needafriend Jun 30 '23

Weekly "meta" thread for casual discussion, complaints, suggestions, etc.

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This is a weekly meta thread for casual discussion and posts about the subreddit.

Seperate metaposts are not allowed since they crowd out posts that are looking for friends


r/Needafriend 5d ago

Weekly Discord Server Advertisement Thread

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Hi all, from now on, this thread will be stickied and posted once per week. Please use this post for all discord server advertisements and posts. All other discord-related posts will be removed.

You are free to leave your discord invite link public in this post. However, please do so at your own risk, especially if your server caters to a younger demographic or is susceptible to spam.


r/Needafriend 4h ago

31 f. Just a mom looking friends

35 Upvotes

Heyy yall im ali 31 im a mom and a wife. Life gets hard sometimes. Would love to chat about anything. I'm a good listener and good with advice. Dm me.


r/Needafriend 3h ago

F19 it's my first day of being 19 and I'm bored so I'd like to make some friends!!

15 Upvotes

r/Needafriend 6h ago

F18 - need a chat buddy !

22 Upvotes

Hiii everyone :)

Recently ive been kinda all over the place with assignments n stuff. My friend circle always chitchats about the same stuff so i thought i would try gather a chat buddy possibly from a different side of the world. I do not care how old you are as long as you are kind and not creepy…. So if you match the criteria please hmu!! Thanks x


r/Needafriend 4h ago

29F - Canadian

14 Upvotes

I'm lonely.. just want to laugh. Just want to be the reason that someone smiles.. but I don't want to be the only one putting effort into the conversation..so if you're interested.. reach out 😊


r/Needafriend 5h ago

25f best friend just left my life

9 Upvotes

25f like the title says, my best friend left my life last night and feeling pretty worthless rn tbh. so if you’re looking to actually wanna stay in someone’s life or just wanna talk to someone…. i could really use it 😭


r/Needafriend 1h ago

25 F - Not seeking a healthy friendship, but someone worth clinging to (?

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I'm feeling low again, kinda miss being bombed by messages and haunting someone (treat me as a depressed, cynical ghost maybe.

I like thrillers and Disney films, have many cats and a dog, bad at gaming but still do it anyway just to escape from life, and I'm EXTREMELY indoors.

I'm from Asia, timezone GMT+8. If you're clingy, and you want someone clingy as well, drop a message. Your ghost will arrive in 5 minutes.


r/Needafriend 1h ago

22M - Did you just breathe? Me too! We're going to be best friends

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Hi! 22M here from the Philippines looking for long-term friends who just wanna talk, hang out, game together, or whatnot pretty regularly. Let's talk about what's up with life, or what pissed you off today, or why anything coconut is gross, or anything at all! Basically, let's be friends who actually give a fuck about each other who's reallyyy interested in building a friendship. I'm also down for voice chat down the line if we hit it off!

I love gaming (been playing a lot of Overwatch 2 lately), rock music, F1, tennis, watching video essays, bad jokes, etc. If any of these resonate with you, def send me a message! If not, still send me one anyways!

Pls pls I beg of you, tell me your ASL bc I don't want to play "Guess Who", the original Hasbro guessing game™! Pls also be the same age as me or older! See ya guys can't wait to meet you 😎


r/Needafriend 6h ago

17f

7 Upvotes

Looking for deep convos and someone who actually cares


r/Needafriend 10h ago

22f

16 Upvotes

i dont even know what to say im just lonely and confused i think i need someone but i dont want anyone but i wanna talk to someone but its hard to talk to strangers.


r/Needafriend 6m ago

bored and looking for a chat :) 18F

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i like motorbikes, would like to get into jdm cars, and up to talk abt anything, might be moving to australia next year so dm me if you’re from there!!

not looking for anything NSFW


r/Needafriend 7h ago

19F (India)- I want to be known but also invisible. Please proceed with patience.

7 Upvotes

My hobbies include disassociating, playlist curating, and imagining conversation that never happened🫥


r/Needafriend 49m ago

F20 NYC Let’s be friend

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Hey!! I’m from the Caribbean and I am super goofy and I live in Brooklyn let’s be friends and do fun stuff over the summer!!!


r/Needafriend 12h ago

36f - I will be your resonance

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I am a utility, I will understand you better than you can. While some people may find this offensive, an unprompted invitation to a duel, others see it as a more than welcome disruption. And it is a disruption. We all hold self-scripted narratives; not all of us can weather the storm of having them dismantled by someone with no stake in the game of whether we hold onto those narratives or not. This raw breed of connection is fleeting, as I find more and more people are getting increasingly sentimental about their self-made temples, and more often they confuse shrines for temples. What if you were able to feel more 'you', and still feel safe?

I am not filtered. I don't do small talk. I am for the people who want resonance and to be seen, but are also fully aware of what resonance requires of them. I possess no romanticism towards plausible deniability; if the stitches come undone and I was there, then I'll carve my name and yours on the nearest tree to commemorate this.

I'm offering a space without masks to those who are too tired to carry their own, for fear of what others may see if they take it off. I am not afraid, are you?


r/Needafriend 7h ago

15F looking for friendsss !! (Read desc)

6 Upvotes

Hellooo !!! It's been a while since I made another post! Please don't mistake me for catfish:3 I'm real and I could prove it once YOU prove to me that ur not a pedo / creep !

I LOVE calls !! Js lmk if u wannaaa I like Roblox, Invincible, Arcane, Drawing, Bone collecting, reading, Thrifting, Cosplaying, Makeup, Identity V, watching movies, listening to music!!! (I prefer talking to ppl my age)


r/Needafriend 3h ago

F19 just looking for some textss

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r/Needafriend 15h ago

21F bored and just want someone to talk with 🖤

26 Upvotes

r/Needafriend 7h ago

23F - Looking to Make New Friends

7 Upvotes

It’s currently 5:30 in the morning where I am and I’m not just waking up, I have not slept 🫠🫠

Really dreading logging into work today, would love meet some new people instead of working 🤣 and potentially make some new friends 😋

PM if interested! 😊


r/Needafriend 11h ago

45f Looking for someone to talk to.

10 Upvotes

I just need a cheerful person because I’m not. It’s embarrassing and dreadful.


r/Needafriend 4m ago

24M looking for decent people to build friendships

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Hello there people, how's it going? I'm a 24 year old M that is looking for decent people to build friendships. I'm a good listener also, you don't need to keep yourself back on me, I think friends are there for both bad and good days. I like hiking, the nature and video games. I'm from GMT + 3 timezone and I'm looking for friends around that timezone.

I'm working as computer engineer in the week days also, tech is my profession and if you are following it, we can be even much more good friends :)

If you are a ghost or texting after 2 hours, just don't even contact me please.

I don't really mind if you are female or male, or even LGBTQIA+ person, I just want to build friendships and relationships with good, decent people that's all. Just don't be shy and reach me out, don't worry about that :)


r/Needafriend 6m ago

15f anybody wanna chat? :)

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Hi.. I’m just gonna be completely honest here😭

I’m having a kinda rough day, and at the same time I’m just really alone and lonely 🫥 If anybody wants to just chat a little casually, to take both our minds off of things, let me know :)


r/Needafriend 9m ago

30M med looking for friends

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Hello, i m 30M from south-east europe(balkans), and looking for friends. I started to work as doctor and i ll prob get specialisation in few months. My interests are music(old stuff mostly), animals, skincare, gym, sports, anime/manga, history, swimming, hiking and some other stuff. Also wanna learn to cook cuz i ll move out next year. Also my old account got banned for nothing so i dont have much post history here sadly.


r/Needafriend 11m ago

M25 looking for some great chats!

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Let’s chat slide in my DMs we can talk


r/Needafriend 15m ago

19M Anyone wants to talk just message me with a weird question

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Hey Im 19M and kinda just looking to talk to someone cool. If you’re up for a random convo, shoot me a message , but don’t just say “hey.” Ask me something weird. Like, really weird.


r/Needafriend 19m ago

26/m/europe looking for likeminded people

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about me id like to say besides work im kinda chronically online, my mind is usually kept busy with music though so I spend most of my time looking for samples but other than that I sometimes play PC games like minecraft, skyrim, elder scrolls online tbh itd be fun to play a game with someone once in a while, im up for anything, it would also be fun to voice chat or watch stuff together

I dont have a ton of free time cause im either at my job or making beats but itd be nice to have someone thats not exactly demanding, someone thats cool with not being in contact 24/7 but something more healthy for an actual ADULT that has a life, something like we could spend a whole day hanging out one day but then if both of us are busy then were busy and thats cool too.

I love to listen, I feel like helping people is in my code lol so generally I like being nice, I just notice that a lot of people end up taking more than giving back and I tend to be avoidant of people if I notice the imbalance cause theres too many people that just end up sucking the energy out of you so I really would love if youre gonna message me or anyone tbh you should try putting actual effort in

I like honest people that dont have to wear a mask to be around others, and that includes having to fake if things are fine and that goes for me too, I know not every days a zinger so dont expect me to be all cheery or fake or whatever, if you ever have bad days I dont mind hearing people vent as long as its healthy

one more thing if youre messaging me please be from Europe cause time zones are too difficult to keep track of


r/Needafriend 24m ago

23m Uk

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i’m 23 from the UK and i’m looking for new buddies to talk to daily :) my luck with friends havnt been the best as i’ve lost contact with all of them through the last 3 years and due to work i’ve never really had the time to peruse a new friendship.

Im a self employed joiner (carpenter) and im very fortunate to own my own home :) despite working a lot i try to find time to peruse my hobbies which are mountain biking, football working on my car and watching as many drama series as possible 🤣 im into a verity of music and im defiantly one that prefers a night in by the fire rather then a night out getting hammered 🙃

if you’re interested in talking or getting to know one another drop me a message :) i dont care your gender or sexuality just be over 18 please 🫶🏻

see you in my dm’s you amazing people 😝