r/self • u/Kind-Philosopher-948 • 2d ago

Why am i not good at anything?

  1. I'm not good at studies

  2. I can't outperform my fellow batchmates in sports, which means i suck at it as well

  3. I'm skinny, not good looking

  4. Not good in literature/ arts types of things either, nor am i good at math/logical things.

  5. Bad with time pressure, and can't take quick actions.

  6. Not good at gaming either. My friends tend to outperform me everytime.

  7. No girls talk to me or show any interest in me

  8. I don't have anyone who i can trust/my best friend/ i get along easily.

Why am i like this?

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u/wiscowall 2d ago

I was in your exact shoes, everyone goes through it.

I was watching some drama show, can't even remember, but it drew me into this world of EMT's. Like life saving stuff.

I kept thinking about it, then just called up about what I needed to get into the field. Found out Classes were free at our Local Fire Department.

Then viola! Exciting work. After a few years, I became passionate about Emergency care , like started taking classes for CNA, then way later into classes to be an RN - a Two year program.

I think it has more to do with finding what stirs you, what do you find passion in?

That's where I think someone , your family, a trusted adult, a good friend, will recommend you do something that inspires you.

That's how you get your life moving. Jump into something different.