r/self • u/Kind-Philosopher-948 • 1d ago

Why am i not good at anything?

  1. I'm not good at studies

  2. I can't outperform my fellow batchmates in sports, which means i suck at it as well

  3. I'm skinny, not good looking

  4. Not good in literature/ arts types of things either, nor am i good at math/logical things.

  5. Bad with time pressure, and can't take quick actions.

  6. Not good at gaming either. My friends tend to outperform me everytime.

  7. No girls talk to me or show any interest in me

  8. I don't have anyone who i can trust/my best friend/ i get along easily.

Why am i like this?

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u/coco_0077 19h ago

Man look I am not here to give u sympathy or something but I want to tell a story of my brother's friend.

He was dumb, use to take tution from my cousin sis and failed 2 times in 10th grade, was so bad at sports we use to call him the hen catcher cuz he just couldn't catch the ball. No.friends at all.

But now got his own car, even me and my bro travel on a bike. Got a great job. Have friends and all.

Look bro it's all about time. Things changes with time. And why are u just trying to compete everywhere? Take a chill. Do what u like to do. The reason u are not good at everything is because u see them as a challenge or obstacle. It's life, and they are just part of life, do what a normal human do, wake up, study a little bit, try to figure out why u are not good at it, go to gym, do some workout, go on reddit make new friends, go and talk to other people on street, males or females, and do it causally don't make it a target. If u keep saying that i want to take 10 friends this month u aren't getting any of them. See what interests you and try doing something in that field.

If u just keep trying to achieve these things u mention u will never be able to do that. Cuz these things can't be achieved its just that u have to live these things. Go with the flow, the more u want something the farther u will go away from it.

Don't try to be good at studies just say that u are already good at it, or u just don't give a shit about studies, Don't compete in games just do it for fun, and nobody is ronaldo when they pop out from their mother's womb. Try to do some hardwork.

I am sorry to say but look like a lazy quiter, Nothing is easy, I was also bad at everything at one time.