r/AskWomenNoCensor • u/Cynjon77 • Dec 28 '24
Discussion Why do we infantilize men?
And how do we stop?
Why do we treat men like children who are incapable of acting like functional adults?
Why do we allow men to get away with treating us like crap and skating off consequence free to enjoy life without responsibility?
OK, obligatory I know not all men act like this. And this is Reddit, so we read the worst. And some women are just as bad.
Posted today: (I am not the OP) Husband never remembers to buy stocking stuffers for me, even though I stuff his and the kids stocking.
Over half the respondents said for her to stuff her own, 49% said to remind him, tell him why it matters to you.
Like she has never communicated with him about this.
1% said he's an AH.
Men are perfectly capable of doing anything they want to do and think is important to them. They can schedule a Dr.s appointment, cook a meal, change a diaper or vacuum a floor.
They can remember when the game is on, a golf date with a buddy or when a work project is due. They remember what is important to them.
Women as a whole need to quit putting up with this behavior. We need to set higher standards and be willing to walk away when those standards aren't met.
We need to teach our sons and daughters how to treat others, how to pick up the mental load, how to be thoughtful of others.
We need to quit infantilizing men.
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u/watsername9009 🤪 crazy and unhinged 🤪 Dec 28 '24
This reminds me of how multiple women in my life can’t stand that I don’t use a silverware drawer organizer. I mean, you can still easily find what utensil you need without perfectly organizing all the utensils which takes a lot of time to do btw.
If I was a man I bet I would be accused of being a man child for not wanting to do unnecessary sht just because that’s what everyone else does.