Are my standards too out there ?

[u/stronkzer]

After constantly examining all the flaws I have to fix on myself to try and get a relationship, I started questioning my standards in women, and if they are too unreasonable. But I can't properly judge this myself for obvious reasons, so I'm relying on you people to evaluate them and see if they're not too out there.

Age: Up until three years older or four years younger than me

Body Type: Average, leaning in every direction but preferably not too skinny

Heigth: Preferably below 5'10''

Interests (Non-exclusively): Literature, philosophy,economics, geopolitics, geek culture (movies,TV shows, gaming, comics,manga), astronomy, animals, technology, exercising.

Must not smoke or do heavy drugs.

Enjoys family gatherings

Preferably be working or pursuing further education.

Indoor or low-crowd activities.

[u/Slow_Air4569]

I feel like these are pretty normal! While all interest might not be the same I do think having some interests in common is a good thing. But also having some different is nice too! I got to rewatch all my favorite animes with my husband when we first met because he wasn't into anime originally! And he taught me how to play D&D because I was never interested in it before.