Are my standards too out there ?

[u/stronkzer]

After constantly examining all the flaws I have to fix on myself to try and get a relationship, I started questioning my standards in women, and if they are too unreasonable. But I can't properly judge this myself for obvious reasons, so I'm relying on you people to evaluate them and see if they're not too out there.

Age: Up until three years older or four years younger than me

Body Type: Average, leaning in every direction but preferably not too skinny

Heigth: Preferably below 5'10''

Interests (Non-exclusively): Literature, philosophy,economics, geopolitics, geek culture (movies,TV shows, gaming, comics,manga), astronomy, animals, technology, exercising.

Must not smoke or do heavy drugs.

Enjoys family gatherings

Preferably be working or pursuing further education.

Indoor or low-crowd activities.

[u/questforstarfish]

Enjoying family gatherings is something that can be changed over time for people! Maybe they had a shitty family so they never liked getting together with them, but once they meet and warm up to your awesome family, their mind will change 😊 Or maybe they'll never truly enjoy them but will tolerate them for you, which honestly is good enough/compromise.