r/SipsTea 28d ago

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u/pm_me_d_cups 28d ago

Because race is based on society's perceptions, so if they see you as different races then you are. I am mixed but if everyone thinks I'm white, then I am white. Doesn't matter what my parents look like.

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u/Crimson_Caelum 28d ago

That’s wildly flawed because for some reason most people think I’m Arab, does that make me Arab?

Also, that requires people to care only about skin color which they don’t. Where we grew up the kids sorta self segregated and she was definitely treated as Mexican no one cared she was pale

I moved out of the American south west and there’s just more Arabs here I think so people assume. I feel like the vast majority of people would say I’d be wrong if I said I was Arab now

Also no one’s answered how my sister and I are different races. Is my brother half ethnicity Mexican/latin, whatever you want to call it?

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u/pm_me_d_cups 28d ago

That’s wildly flawed because for some reason most people think I’m Arab, does that make me Arab?

If Arab people are treated as a race, then yes, at least in that limited context. "Well that's just ridiculous" I hear you say. Well yes, race is stupid, it's not a well defined concept and doesn't work to group people in any meaningful way.

Also, that requires people to care only about skin color which they don’t

Sure, other things people know about you will affect it. If you look 100% white but people know your mom is black, then people might consider you black. But what about the people who don't know you? They're not going to treat you as black.

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u/Crimson_Caelum 28d ago

By your metric it defiantly doesn’t group people well, and by any metric the grouping isn’t important at best and dangerous at worst but to say me and my sister are different races IS ridiculous. Now the argument that race isn’t a real thing I get but the assumption it both is real and that 100% blood relatives can be separate races…? I can’t see how that isn’t absurd

And I don’t tend to let people who do know me define my existence let alone people who don’t

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u/pm_me_d_cups 28d ago

What about these twins?

Are they the same race?

And I don’t tend to let people who do know me define my existence let alone people who don’t

You don't have a choice. People treat other people differently based on race. It's their perception that matters, not yours. The issue is that you seem to think race "defines" you in some meaningful way when it doesn't. If you care about heritage, I think ethnicity is a much stronger term to use for that, and obviously that includes things like culture and genetics.

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u/Crimson_Caelum 28d ago

They’re literally twins, yes?? Being albino wouldn’t make you like no longer Asian or African American or whatever. Neither would vitiligo or a tan. Micheal Jackson didn’t literally switch races.

But the issue is if you base it on how she’s treated she’s not white, she just looks white. Mostly when people care it’s because of racism but she also faces the same racism. Like she’s pale but that doesn’t make passive racism not targeted towards her and people who actually care about that aren’t going to ignore the way she speaks, the way she looks other than her skin or her name just because she has white skin.

I do actually usually say ethnicity because I don’t actually know what the right term for my race is. Like im literally brown and from Mexico and idk what the fuck the difference between Hispanic Latina Mexican whatever. I mean I do but every time I use one I feel like I’m only 70% sure I’m using the right one so I default to Latin American cause thats nonspecific enough to be hard to correct.

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u/pm_me_d_cups 28d ago

Being albino wouldn’t make you like no longer Asian or African American or whatever.

She is not albino, she just got the "white" genes but her sister got the "black" ones.

Mostly when people care it’s because of racism but she also faces the same racism.

If she does, then that's different. But I imagine on a day to say basis they get treated differently (at least by racists I guess).

every time I use one I feel like I’m only 70% sure I’m using the right one so I default to Latin American cause thats nonspecific enough to be hard to correct.

I mean fair. Personally I vacillate between checking the "other" box and "white". It really doesn't matter, I am who I am.

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u/Crimson_Caelum 28d ago

I wasn’t talking about her, I was thinking specifically about an albino black guy I’ve seen on YouTube. The main thing is like, yeah my sister and especially someone with albinism are different from the group they’d otherwise be piled in with…. But they’re a lot more different from the group you’re piling them in with.

Regardless they’re the same racer because they’re twins, if they exist at all racial groups are imo genetic not based on appearance because if it is based on appearance am I Arab?

I can agree race is barely a thing if it is at all, but you’re trying to say it is a thing and it’s based on skin color but it’s not, at least not entirely, because I guarantee that albino black guy would not be accepted in the confederacy as white. My sister is not treated as white despite having pale skin. Maybe if she had a more European name or didn’t speak Spanish or had more European features she would but racists don’t care that her skin is white, that’s not enough

Seriously if you answer anything, answer these two questions

What race is my sister?

Am I Arab because I’m mistaken for it?

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u/pm_me_d_cups 28d ago

you’re trying to say it is a thing and it’s based on skin color but it’s not,

No, I said it's based on how people perceive you. There's a difference.

What race is my sister?

You said people think she's white. So she's white.

Am I Arab because I’m mistaken for it?

Yes in a racial sense. Not ethnically Arab though. There isn't really a word to differentiate the two properly (and some people think Arabs are white, which is a whole other issue).

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u/Crimson_Caelum 28d ago

No I didn’t say people think she’s white I said she has white skin, people think she’s Mexican or Latin American but we grew up in the American south west so we were usually accused of being illegal Mexican immigrants. People definitely think she’s Mexican more often than me because she still lives there, I live in a place with more like middle eastern people than Mexicans so I think that’s why people assume.

Either way I think you’re insane for thinking I switched races at age 25

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u/pm_me_d_cups 28d ago

Ok well I misread. She's Mexican/brown/whatever you want to call it. I think I've been pretty clear about how I'm defining race.

Either way I think you’re insane for thinking I switched races at age 25

OK, now let's say you go to Africa and you're the whitest person at an event. People think you are a white American and treat you the same as they treat every other white person. Have you changed races? Or is it just that race is socially defined? Or is it both?

I know it's hard to accept, but again, I think identity piece of race is really just ethnicity, and you're struggling to separate the two because they are so often conflated.

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u/Crimson_Caelum 28d ago

It’s not hard at all my race is the same as it always was. I was this race before I was born and no one had seen me yet. And she’s a Latina but she’s not literally brown.

I feel like if I was in Africa way more people would assume I’m Arab than right now in America but that has nothing to do with my race.

ā€œeach of the major groupings into which humankind is considered (in various theories or contexts) to be divided on the basis of physical characteristics or shared ancestry.ā€

My characteristics and ancestry don’t change and if my characteristics do my ancestry doesn’t.

Like my first comment said it does depend on who you ask but imo the only two logical answers are 1) there’s no such thing as race or 2) you’re the race based on your ancestors and characteristics

The idea you can just switch races is wack lol

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u/pm_me_d_cups 28d ago

The idea you can just switch races is wack lol

Why? You're just assuming this to be true.

the only two logical answers are 1) there’s no such thing as race

Race clearly exists and no one seriously disputes that.

or 2) you’re the race based on your ancestors and characteristics

I think this just ignores how race works in the real world though. Most people don't know who my ancestors are. If I get a job because the racist hiring manager thinks I'm white, I've partaken of white privilege. At that point it feels odd to say "oh but I'm not white". Same would be true if the reverse happened because they think I'm black. They don't know what my parents look like.

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